chigoizie7:
Was she forced?

Was she drugged?


U see? In life, there is what we call "choices".

There are good ones, and there are bad ones.(i mean choices).

In this case of choices, there are factors which influences them.

And those factors are many.

Lies,
Money,
Truth.
And so many of them.

True talk
Some girls always claims to be a virgin in every new relationship, they will pretend to be in pain and pretend sickness self (over the phone)

But this pain pain about virginity loss self, I never see one wey cry o
All they say is that it's a short sharp pain that rapidly dies off as they continue the sex
I also think it's because they are matured enough to have sex which means that all these girls that are complaining of pains either did it at a very young age or were in the hands of an amateur who rushed the whole stuff or worst case, were raped.

Lanre90:
I will pray for you to receive sense by God's grace and mercy.

Ure the one that needs receiving sense bruh

Kenekingz:
This guy dey talk shaa, I hope u know that girls of nowadays will suspect there is something weird about you if you are dating them and never for once make an attempt to have sex with her. She will be wondering if you are alright even if you are just trying to abstain because you don't want her to think you are dating her for sex. This is something beyond what you think, it's already a mindset, a lifestyle accepted by the majority.

Some girls will also tell you that before she marrys that she must sample the man to know if he can satisfy her or not; reason being that she don't want to cheat after marriage.

So as you can see, it's not a here something

True talk bro. When I had my 1st official babe in secondary school, after some months she started reporting me to her friends that I am cheating her. I had to ask what she meant by that, she said because have neither kissed not have sex with her

Op. So if we bachelors don't disvirgin these hoes. Who will? As long as it isn't rape, it is isn't illegal. As if tl girls don't enjoy sex too late perhaps more than men

alexistaiwo:
Op. So if we bachelors don't disvirgin these hoes. Who will? As long as it isn't rape, it is isn't illegal. As if tl girls don't enjoy sex too late perhaps more than men

Reading the comments section makes me understand that many of you have misinterpreted what I wrote.

If you feel man enough to disvirgin these so-called "hoes", then I believe you should be man enough to pay for her bride price first.

Lanre90:


Reading the comments section makes me understand that many of you have misinterpreted what I wrote.

If you feel man enough to disvirgin these so-called "hoes", then I believe you should be man enough to pay for her bride price first.

Let's get some facts straight. I hope you know not all relationships lead to marriage. Isn't it?

Walexsammy:
True talk bro. When I had my 1st official babe in secondary school, after some months she started reporting me to her friends that I am cheating her. I had to ask what she meant by that, she said because have neither kissed not have sex with her

Not all ladies respect their bodies or are taught to be ladies of virtue. You should take time to educate her if you really loved her that your actions were out of respect and not lust.

True.

alexistaiwo:

Let's get some facts straight. I hope you know not all relationships lead to marriage. Isn't it?

But that ought not be the case. That's why Relationship are best when both are mentally matured.

Lanre90:

Not all ladies respect their bodies or are taught to be ladies of virtue. You should take time to educate her if you really loved her that your actions were out of respect and not lust.

she's happily married now

Lanre90:
True. But that ought not be the case. That's why Relationship are best when both are mentally matured.

Mental maturity entails being matured enough to take responsibility for actions which took place during the period of the relationship even if it involved the lady offering her virginity to her guy. As long as she wasn't forced. End of discussion

alexistaiwo:

Mental maturity entails being matured enough to take responsibility for actions which took place during the period of the relationship even if it involved the lady offering her virginity to her guy. As long as she wasn't forced. End of discussion

You still don't get me. It never belonged to her. She was only the Guardian.

Lanre90:


You still don't get me. It never belonged to her. She was only the Guardian.

So who owns it?

EmperorLee:


Hear from me? Please remind me please.

Seriously?
Never mind then. My mistake.

Thebachelor:


Seriously?

Never mind then. My mistake.

Aii cool