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Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by lalopeto: 1:39pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
arthurshelly: You are very unserious human being |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 1:46pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Congrats.!!!! Now you re free.
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Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by arthurshelly: 2:01pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
[quote author=lalopeto post=49909733 You are very unserious human being[/quote] Hahahhaha..this bros too soft jor |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by lalopeto: 2:04pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
hellen93o: GOD BLESS YOU MY SISTER, YOU ON POINT HERE 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by baby124: 2:17pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
taiiremide:Don't discuss with anyone offline. Let them say what they want to say here. Some people may have heard the money you make without a job and want to scam you. Be very careful and do not communicate and meet anyone offline here. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by VULCAN(m): 2:36pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Some people will defend any evil as long as it serves them. You went ahead to make an assumption as if you were there to counter my own "assumption" and being a hypocrite you said I should not make an assumption. First, you ignored the FACT that his wife received such a text now you're justifying it by assuming the husband is a fool that he does not know what that text means. Perhaps you send such and receive such texts from people that you are platonic or related to; but that is not the norm. P.S. Pls tell us what facts were made available to you that you can authoritatively claim she is not cheating. Miladi: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Miladi(f): 2:44pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
VULCAN: Just shut up and vamoose from my mention. You have low IQ, so I can't stoop low to join issues with you. Go and look for your myopic fellows elsewhere - I don't have time to dialogue with a petty person like you. I wonder who the hell told you that I need your whack validation to substantiate my noble pronoucement. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by queenesthr(f): 4:23pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
[/quote] VULCAN:Hope you know that ' Pls call me, I love you' is a default callback text from MTN? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 6:44pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Gaborone:hello miss gaborone. pay her no attention, she is a troll. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by skuribeebo: 7:19pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
discman2k2:chai see my life, and u say make I no vex. Ok o |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 8:22pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
WindUpMerchant: Hello dear, I noticed, thanks. lol. Thanks for the subtle compliment on the other thread as well. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 8:24pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
udz: Hi dear, Thanks for the compliment. I actually remember engaging you in some discussion here, but can't really remember about what. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 8:34pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Gaborone:you' welcome gaborone. You're a remarkable person... keep it up. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 8:39pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
WindUpMerchant: Wow. I'm humbled. Thanks a lot. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 8:46pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Gaborone:The lad above said you were 'classic'. shows how impressive you are. let me no derail. ttyl |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by udz: 9:08pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
Gaborone: I can't remember the discussion either but I remember you for ur matured inputs and reasoning. I rephrase my question, how can I get ur attention outside nairaland... this time? |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by 400billionman: 4:06am On Oct 05, 2016 |
taiiremide: Guy, you dont seem to be firm. How will your wife who does not earn an income decide where the entire family will stay and when to relocate ? This is very funny and against every sound business sense. What happens to your paid job and businesses back in Lagos ? So many men do not understand that women reason like children. My father always made that statement. It took me many years to see what he said was true.. That for you to keep a woman, you have to treat her like a child. A very sincere woman who loves you will tell you that sometimes she doesnt even know what she is doing or why she did what she did. That is woman nature for you. They are not meant to lead but follow. Now, how good is the man leading her ? This is where it seems like the woman destroyed a man's life. She is not doing it on purpose. Women are naturally disorganized. Your wife is a good example. Now dont believe that if she complains and you succumb to the complain that you will make her happy. No. She expects you to always take the right decision and she will always appreciate that later that her husband did the right thing... Now, go and get back your wife and start acting like a man. The two of you are not equals in that marriage. You are her leader but you dont have to rub it in her face.. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by HopeAtHand: 5:55am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Billyonaire: You always love to give stupid advice. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by franklynsunny(m): 9:11am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Som1 jus trick her wit her dreams nids...she wil later realise her probs Impatience? She is seeing some1 else bera dan u n mind u She ve lost d feelings bfor nw n she married u because of money,it was niva lv? Dere r also 2side of a swit mouth watering story |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 05, 2016 |
wow, marriage sha |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 11:36am On Oct 05, 2016 |
HopeAtHand:Yep, sounds stupid but always outside the box. Keep reading them. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by kayol2012: 2:16pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Noted observations from your write up: 1) You are not in charge : Most women want and love a guy that knows what he wants and has a clear picture of how he wants his family to be run. This is the reason why women dont fall in love with nice guys but friendzone them. It can easily be deduced from your comment that your wife always has her way in the house. Allowing her to take strategic decision of relocating from Lagos to Osogbo when you have not done your cost and benefit analysis of relocation was sloppy and clumsy. It could mean you lack focus and direction to women. Being in charge does not mean always having your way or exerting unnecessary control in the house because her input counts but you are the head of your house and you should be prepared to bear the consequences of action you take. I blame you and not your wife. 2) Conflicts are best resolved when we hear from two sides: I aint taking sides bro but we need too hear her own side. Regardless, there is a conflict that needs resolution. I advise you convince your family to have a rethink and look for means to solve this issue. If you allow this to fester, it would result into irreconcilable difference and break your home. 3) In Law: Did you do profile your inlaw before getting married to your wife? Are they responsible ( providing a place of abode for your wife when you have paid the bride price on her)? Some inlaws consider it a taboo to harbour their daughter after marriage provided it is not domestic violence. 4) Relationship between your parent and your inlaws: what is the chemistry between the two? I believe this can easily be resolved if there is good rapport and cordial relationship between them. Try and ensure this is in place. 5) Communication gap: You need to consistently drum the song of "E go beta into her ears" until your condition ameliorates. Nobody wants to suffer but you MUST and i repeat look for a way to make her understand things would be beta. I know it could be hard bro, but you should try and make her see your efforts. What you guys are experiencing is financial problem that you would certainly outlive. Go for resolution provided its not domestic violence. Learn how to use your in law to get this issue resolved and have good rapport with them. I pray it is resolved soonest. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Atk1nson(m): 6:43pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
taiiremide: I am not sure threatening to have your spouse arrested by the police is an effective approach to attempt dialogue, may be you should involve someone mutually respected to mediate. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 6:56pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
udz: Hello dear, You can send a PM if you want to talk offline. |
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