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Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 7:30am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by hope4life: 7:32am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Abiagirl777: Let me appreciate your efforts over your wife and family.My father said women are insatiable.A woman can drive you crazy and plunge your life in a ditch if you are not careful.Im a serious christian married man.Except she is truely born again, you cant handle her needs.Some women are praying to have 50% of her privilege. Some of them think they are doing you a favour for marrying them. When you love a woman too much to the extent that she has become the oxygen with which you breath, then she will take you for a ride. She might not reveal her character while in courtship. They hide their true colour until they are married. Back to my suggestion:1. Call her and talk to her. 2.If no sign of Change, report the matter to someone she can listen to 3.Tell you family or her family whichever one is better 4. Report the matter to your spiritual leader .Dont forget prayer is the ultimate in all the steps. If nothing happens, that might mean she is not meant for you.Nevertheless God can turn things around for good. One other crude method that can tame a woman is to ignore her and pretend as if she is not important to you again, she will adjust. As touching the boys, you have the right to take custody of them.Call her on phone and meet in agreed neutral place and talk it over. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by iwakunbaba: 7:46am On Oct 04, 2016 |
My brother this problem started day 1 you met her but your love was blind. I wish you would resolve this amicably. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by kaboninc(m): 7:47am On Oct 04, 2016 |
sisisioge: Ah jus know say na there him dey. You rum come eti osa dey find gold now you wan come go back. Hope say you never cawi una pikin go amelica... |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Luckymay(f): 7:52am On Oct 04, 2016 |
taiiremide:OP. I suggest you leave the kids with her, pretend you don't give a damn (even when you do) with time she will advise herself expecially when the kids bills starts taking a toll on her. She knows you love those kids and that's why she took them along her. She knows it's the only connection you have with her at the moment. Don't be surprised when you finally succumb to their wishes of you coming over to her place, they will start dishing out terms and conditions for you. The kids are their play cards so I suggest you thread with caution. And it's obvious your wife is not alone in this. So let her be for now and you'd see how she will come begging for you to have her back. I give you just 2 months. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by harlee(m): 7:55am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Amelian:I fear 4 the kids |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by sisisioge: 8:04am On Oct 04, 2016 |
kaboninc: Oga, I'm not the OP's wife! In fact, I never get children! If I were his wife, our issue no go escalate reach this point. By the way, in my opinion, once it gets to this point where the fight becomes free for all, na only God fit redeem am. OP should just go to her folks jeje to see whether them still fit salvage the situation...abi work something out for the kids. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by kaboninc(m): 8:10am On Oct 04, 2016 |
sisisioge: Well you never said you're married. Meaning it's possible sha. You never can tell if the issue no go escalate until you enter am. Or unless you don enter am. Well, for me the point is a man has to be careful for what he wants. I'm very attracted to beautiful ladies but I'll only stay if there's a value attached to that beauty. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by comos: 8:19am On Oct 04, 2016 |
eyinjuege: Is it possible to seek a divorce case in a state different from where one got married |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by eckersley: 8:39am On Oct 04, 2016 |
@taiiremide. Hy bro. Nowadays, I don't log on to NL let alone comment on topics like this cos one cannot ascertain their authenticity. I blv majority of them are fabricated to drive traffic to the site. Assuming your story is not one of those [no offense meant], here's my take: 1. Beware of advice from kids who know everything abt the internet and little/nothing abt LIFE. 2. The solution to your predicament is not in a paragraph of 'advice'. It's a TOTAL CHANGE IN LIFE STYLE. it's a process that will take at least a month to see tangible results. And many more months to gain total control of your life, wife [if you still want her back] & family (even hers). 3. The path I'm advocating will equip/empower you with tonnes of valuable information so requires a good deal of reading from you. You'll hv to invest a minimum of 1-2 hours daily in reading for the first month. U can put in more time during weekends. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by taiiremide: 8:44am On Oct 04, 2016 |
dapsycool: I always think that before I married her, she eat well and her family provides for her, so why should I bring her to my house to suffer, so I always want to please her. I called her yesterday and I treatenend that I've reported the case at the police station for abduction and kidnapping, she was raining heavy curses. You see why I said she's not ready for dialog? We never had a fight before she left for Lagos, I was surprised with all the drama. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by taiiremide: 8:46am On Oct 04, 2016 |
eckersley: Thank you. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by AngelAhnie(f): 8:55am On Oct 04, 2016 |
taiiremide:Why did you allow the women in your life to control you this much . Man up and take decision on this issue |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by eckersley: 8:57am On Oct 04, 2016 |
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Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by sisisioge: 9:01am On Oct 04, 2016 |
kaboninc: True...beauty is skin deep! Any man or woman worth his or her salt wouldn't settle down with someone just because s/he is an eye candy. Trust me, before long, that beau you are attracted to with look regular to you. Not because they have stopped being beautiful but because you are so used to them. The one thing that won't ever stop dazzling is the awesome being you could take to the bank. Imagine being arrested and the first thing that comes to mind is...I need to see my partner, not my lawyer imagine declaring bankruptcy and still feeling rich just because you have her Oga, you no go understand... I wish the OP good luck. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by kaboninc(m): 9:14am On Oct 04, 2016 |
sisisioge: Hahahaha Why I no go understand? Lol. That's true. All you've said. I hope I make the right decision too. I hope you've also made the right decision too! |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by sisisioge: 9:20am On Oct 04, 2016 |
kaboninc: I'm on it...seriously searching now. As we speak, I'm enroute ilaje...wanna go find him since he couldn't seem to find me all by himself |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by kaboninc(m): 9:34am On Oct 04, 2016 |
sisisioge: Hahahaha... You are something else. I heard he's enroute Eti Osa....you have to change course ohh |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by sisisioge: 9:37am On Oct 04, 2016 |
kaboninc: I know u be bad navigator! No be you give me route advice before? Now get off my mention and have a good day! |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by kaboninc(m): 9:44am On Oct 04, 2016 |
sisisioge: Lol.... Enjoy the rest of your day too! |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 10:04am On Oct 04, 2016 |
taiiremide: So when you beat her the first time was that before or after she left for Lagos? |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 04, 2016 |
GAZZUZZ: Exactly. Suffering from poverty, two demanding children, being beaten and being dissatisfied in the bedroom. It's a miracle she survived as long as she did. A good marital bed would have helped her endure the hardships a bit more. Hopefully the op will fulfill his duties as a husband on all fronts and retrieve his family. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by VULCAN(m): 10:56am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Any Dr. That gives prescription without correct diagnosis may kill the patient. You ignored his revelation that he discovered a text on his wife's phone saying "call me back, I love you". You dont need to be Sherlock Holmes to know that she has found a richer man. The man has also promised to take care of the kids and that is why she has the guts to abscond with them. Miladi: |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Miladi(f): 11:01am On Oct 04, 2016 |
VULCAN: Don't be like a petty person - discerning minds don't live on assumptions. She could have said that to her mother, a sibling or even a friend on a platonic level. My aired opinion was based on facts available. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 11:04am On Oct 04, 2016 |
seems like op used money to woo his wife and thats what's making her misbehave. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Wendy80(f): 11:13am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Kpac:I doff my hat for you. #wellsaid |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Nobody: 11:32am On Oct 04, 2016 |
Ain't no woman dead or alive can try this with me! |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by debbydee(f): 12:07pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
This is what happens when the man is too soft. |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by Skookum(m): 12:11pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
millyj: I don't agree with u in d sense that if he abandoned d kids they may grow up hating him due to what their mum will tell them about their father |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by MasterofdRolls1(m): 12:24pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
taiiremide: How old are the kids And do you not really want her back? |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by lalopeto: 1:17pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
mastermaestro: women could be very difficult ooooo |
Re: My Wife Absconded With Our Kids by mastermaestro(m): 1:39pm On Oct 04, 2016 |
lalopeto: No doubt that they are. But there ways around every woman. You have a duty to find the peculiar way around your own. |
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