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Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 7:12am On Oct 05, 2016 |
motherfucker:Until these Mother in-laws realize that their son's wives are not taking away their sons but are rather trying to raise a family like they(mother in-laws) did, this issue will continue to loom, i guess those once who are different understand that better. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by babyfaceafrica: 7:27am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27:any lady who loves her children more than her wife is a potential mean MIL...fact!!! |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by olab007(m): 8:06am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Well my case was an exceptional case , my mum actually love my wife , infact i was away for sometime and my wife was staying with her in the same house infact they were so close to the extend that my wife is my mum banker, she drop her ATM card for my wife and its my wife that control wht happen with the bank account for her, maywhile i must aplude my wife at the other hand she is also a good wife sincerely i thank God for my home and my family. 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 10:37am On Oct 05, 2016 |
babyfaceafrica:Alright!. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 10:39am On Oct 05, 2016 |
olab007:Wow!. Your mum is the kind we are praying for. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by bukatyne(f): 11:41am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27: The word 'monster-in-law' is not a 'Nigerian' phrase. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by bukatyne(f): 11:48am On Oct 05, 2016 |
motherfucker: @Bold: The simple solution is to marry her son herself. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by bukatyne(f): 11:51am On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27: > Women in miserable marriages especially 'staying' for their kids > Women who are not busy > Women who place their children first etc. Cc: Acidosis 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 12:10pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
bukatyne:Lol. If they don't, they will nag...when the do...they want to take their sons away. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Acidosis(m): 2:57pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
bukatyne:I agree 100% This wan we now agree on many many issues. Is that a sign?? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by doveda: 3:35pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
80% kwa. May God forgive you. A bad mother in law is a bad person. Save me the silly excuses, it s not emotional clinging or love or anything, it is simply because she thinks she can do and undo and the wife would be too fearful to do anything. Shout out to good mothers out there 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by NDsaint4(m): 3:36pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
When someone take away your closest friend from you how will you feel... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by chocodaviva(f): 3:38pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
My mother inlaw is d best I can't even see any difference btw her and my mother Blessed me 7 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 3:39pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Following Would honesty like to understand why it happens and how to manage such situations. Some of the stories I've read and heard about makes me afraid of marriage. Mean MILs isn't just a Nigerian thing, it's universal. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by saintkel(m): 3:42pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Talk2Bella:and I saw u too, na only son u d marry |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by miketayo(m): 3:43pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27: dats not true..the same problem is in every country like it is in Nigeria. heard terrible cases in thailand nd SA.. its definitely ladies having problems with themselves. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 3:44pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
ammyluv2002: You are so right. You just described the love between my mum and I. Nothing and no one can come between us. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Drbarmes(m): 3:44pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Its d handwork of envy and jealousy 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Conner44: 3:45pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27: During courtship with your fiance a lady should endeavor to visit the man's family home as regularly as possible. This will make the future family warm up to her and any problems that may come from the family would be open for all to know. Ladies should remember that you're marrying a MAN first and INTO a family second. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Empiree: 3:45pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27:Because it is a threat to them. They feel their son would focus 90% of his time on her (daughter-in-law) and, or, the wife would take control of him. Indeed, to certain extent, it is true that some men do neglect their mothers. They just need to take it easy. They feel their territory is trampled. Same happens to lions. Male lion feels threatened if another male is sighted in his territory. Anyways, our mother-in-laws need to take it easy. It is not always like that. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Gidi3020(m): 3:48pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
;DThe guy mama would be feeling jealous because, the new girl would now make mama to realise that her breast don turn slippers, without considering the fact that the guy s*cked mamas own years before. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Jerryojozy(m): 3:48pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
What do u expect ? when daughter in laws will be asking the younger brother of her husband to do dishes . The mother in law won't be happy with this when she finds out. Therefore the aggression toward daughter in law. Mother tends to love their boys even when they are married but for the father , he doesn't care cos he feels you are man enough. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by ammyluv2002(f): 3:48pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Avalon316:Are you married? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Nobody: 3:48pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
I dont know how you arrived at that conclusion, but all i know is my wife will be lucky to have a jovial woman as a MIL, and she wont have problems with her as far as she has a good character, atleast I've seen how she treats my uncle's wife. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Pchidexy(m): 3:49pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Mothers are afraid of losing their boys! Women are damn territorial. If a man is successful, expect hell from his mother simple! To all the women complaining: you all will still do the same shit in 30yrs time 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by TundeEinstein(m): 3:49pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
JUSTbuchi:and one day someone's going to praise God ur aunt is no longer alive too 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Dshocker(m): 3:51pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
You literally want to take away the attention of the man she once carried for 9 months in her belly & she wished she was the one that made of a woman for her son. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by daveP(m): 3:52pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
The fear that a new woman is coming in to control the mindset of the son is the reason. They still Wana be enthroned on that seat. The isolated fear of the wife turning husband against parents is also not ignored( mostly true). Besides it's one era vs a new Era of ladies so the clash is imminent. whereas, there are some very good MILS that the DILs just misbehave at despite not doing any bad thing. should I call it a woman thingy. They both do thenselves!! |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by Kiddominant(m): 3:53pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Like my mum will tell me, "When u make it after all this hustling, I will be alive to see that girl who will come here to reap where she didn't sow in the first place" I'ld only marry a girl who stood by me in this days of humble beginning, not all these ajebo that are after my money and fame. |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by baum1: 3:53pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
olab007: Fresh air from the gloom and doom stories about marriage on Nairaland. I hope those sacred of starting a family can see that it's not bad, bad, bad marriage. God bless you 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Nigerian Mother In-laws Too Mean Towards Their Daughter In-laws?. by orlahtohbadt(m): 3:54pm On Oct 05, 2016 |
Benita27:First of, its Mothers-in-law Then from my opinion, i think they are scared of someone loving their son more than they do or they have done... I don't think its only a Nigerian thing tho', as i see it also in American movies, a lot of American movies at that... And i dont think Americans act what they dont see happen... My opinion tho like i said earlier |
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