my guy the choice is yours.you dont need to go into something because people are doing it.

Its either you are not a faithfut christian or you marriage has comma www.myspace.com/naijapassion

earlalright:

Its either you are not a faithfut christian or you marriage has comma www.myspace.com/naijapassion

earlalright:

Its either you are not a faithfut christian or you marriage has comma www.myspace.com/naijapassion

Let me ask, are you married?  Do you know how many ministers I know who didn't have a church wedding because they couldn't afford it?  Are you saying God only recognises Christians who marry in church and not those who don't?

What does being a faithful Christian have to do with whether you get married in church or not? Arrogant nonsense!

I don't what this people are talking about. A church is not a building. It's a gathering of a group of believers and it can be in a court room, your village, etc. The bible says where two or three are gathered I am there, so ignore all this people that don't know their bible. Anywhere you have your wedding is fine with papa God.

It could be strange poster depending on the reasons. why not if not?
I am in a similar strait now. My girl does not want a wedding & I do want a wedding, then all hell broke loose. Her demands/ taste are way to high & when I complain she will say, "you are the one that wanted it". I then asked her if she has a problem with church or is she an unbeliver?
the last word she text me yesterday was on a gown she so desire & I took to be costly to hire. she said it most be  that particular gown, when I ask her to make a 2nd choice. she said "she had dreamt of wearing such gown since her teenage" & I said "I dont believe". can u imagine.
why are some ladies unreasonable atimes? I am not a society man, there is no stardard for wedding anywhere, pple organise wedding to suit there pockets etc. why will somebody that have no iota of contribution to make to footing the bill of a wedding be demanding high. This is why I conclude that the silly ladies plan for wedding they dont plan for the marriage. 80% of the success of marriage depends on the woman.
poster u can create your own wedding to suit your idealogy, taste & pocket.
do have a wedding, invite God into your new family, let God be the first, u will see what he will do for u.

Oba234:

I don't what this people are talking about. A church is not a building. It's a gathering of a group of believers and it can be in a court room, your village, etc. The bible says where two or three are gathered I am there, so ignore all this people that don't know their bible. Anywhere you have your wedding is fine with papa God.

::claps for Oba234::

Inked_Nerd:

::claps for Oba234::

without it being said; a church wedding here is a white wedding. what u refer to is either a christain blessing at a court or traditional wedding. u still have what is called a church blessing, here u dont wear the so suit & white gown. u just appear and get a pastor bless your union then u do a reception if u want.

Oba234:

I don't what this people are talking about. A church is not a building. It's a gathering of a group of believers and it can be in a court room, your village, etc. The bible says where two or three are gathered I am there, so ignore all this people that don't know their bible. Anywhere you have your wedding is fine with papa God.

Yep yep!!!

MIKKYIJEGE:

my guy the choice is yours.you dont need to go into something because people are doing it.

Yep yep!!!

Bottom line, I don't think it is. Get your Pastor to bless the marriage and go on with your court thing. If it's not for you, don't do it 'cos you'll hate every moment of the day that's supposed to be one of the happiest in your life. Xx

Honestly i dnt understand why christian brides wear revealing gown,showing thier cleavage,back,shoulder,armsand allthat on thier wedding day,why should anyone see your body on your wedding day,its so sad,you know,all in the name of imitating the west

A BRIDE IS SUPPOSED TO BE COVERED FROM ,HAIR,&ENTIRE BODY,BECAUSE ITS SORELY FOR HER HUSBAND AND NOT FOR EVERYONE

Not all Christian brides hun. I've been to weddings where the wedding dress was uber classy and elegant and covered everything.
I don't see why they do , but definitely not every Christian bride does that. I'll be an exception too to the every Christian bride.

What makes it strange? did your father marry your mother in the church? Is church your village culture and tradition?

@ Poster,
It is not strange. I wish my wife to be will say wot u r saying. I for once dont like this wedding brouhaha.I like quiet things. If she agrees,i'll prefer 2 do a court wedding.if i will have 2 do a church wedding, i'll prefer doing it with max 6 pple(our parents) as witness which will not take more than 30 mins. I have the money bt i am not interested in d stress and brouhaha of a wedding ceremony. Jus hope she would agree to my plan.I'm not interested in doing things cos others r doing it.

there is nothing strange if you don't want a church wedding.