i date a guy that doesn't call me often. sometimes he calls once in a week other days we chat on net but not all days.if i want him to call i flash him and sometimes he will call and sometimes he will not but each times i visit him at twice in a month and each time i visit him he treats me well and i feel he loves me. his work doesnt give him time according to him but we squeeze out time. there was this day we were chatting on net and he said he wants to get another accomodation first before planning on when he will marry. i then asked him have you found the person and he said if i knew whether am the person that he doesnt want to say any thing now but i should keep on being the girl he knows till then. house please advice is this a serious relationship.

Don't know what to say, just study him to see if things will change and if it doesn't then you know he is insecere .

@poster,
I think he wants to know if you are a good girl and the right person for him,you are in his plans but he wants to be sure.na expo wey i give u sooooooooo.

If a guy truly likes a girl, he want to be with her or call her more often. I still think you are his round-about chick for now.

I THINK WHERE THERE WILL BE PASSION THERE ARE BOUND TO BE REGULAR CONTACT,THOUGHT OF THAT SOMEONE, AND HAVING TO ALWAYS BE AROUND THAT PERSON WHOM WE PROFESS LOVE.TO SOME EXTENT THAT HAPPENS TO BE THE DESIRE OF MEN.
TO YOUR POSITION AS REGARDS THE MAN YOU ARE SEEING NOW,I THINK HE LIKES YOU.HE ENJOYS YOUR COMPANY BUT YOU DO NOT STIR HIM NATURALLY.SO HE CAN NEVER SEE YOU AS THE WOMAN OF HIS DREAM
MY ADVISE TO YOU IS THAT DO NOT BUILD TALL DREAM FOR YOUR SELF AS THERE IS NO THAT FLOW OF NATURAL ENERGY BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU,IN OTHER WORDS YOU'RE INCOMPATIBLES.NO MATTER HOW HARD YOU TRY IT WONT CHANGE HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU,HE'LL ALWAYS SEES YOU AS A CLOSE FRIEND.LOOK ELSEWHERE FOR YOUR LOVE