I knew my husband couple of year back before i moved out of state. We had a vey good sex 8 years ago before i traveled. Then since they we talked offline for like a year. After several years, we lost touch, we barely speak to each other. 2015 we reconnected back on Whatsapp and decided to marry each other. OH before then, i traveled to Nigeria and we met causally and went to an hotel to have sex but the sex didn't work out. MAY BE I should have suspected the erection (erection) problem then. I rushed into a marriage with him in 2015 and filled for him to come to America and since then 8 months ago, the sexual life hasn't be great. I took him to a Doctor, the doctor prescribed Viagra. When the sex wasnt good i reminded him to use his meds and he told me the meds has finished.
1. I didnt know when he finshed the Viagra because it doesn't even looked like he was using the meds and we i was menstruating the perod he repoerted he used the last meds.
2. he is fighting with erection and our marriage is just a year old and we are still very young. nearly 30
3. please what will you ask me to do. Stay with him and live my life depending on viagra fro life or could this be juju they use to marry me
or i shoudl still around and accept my fate?
PLEASE DONT COME HERE AND FORM HOLY. IF YOU CAN ADVICE AS THO ITS YOUR FAMILY MEMBER DO OR READ AND WAKA GO

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I am confused here...

1.is he taking viagra religiously even u both don't engage in sex? Which is crazzzy unless he's using it with somebody when ur not around...

2. Or is he lying to u ( he really don't take them or he throw them away)... He doesn't want help.


As much as possible, I myself don't believe in juju thing.. Take him to another doctor for 2nd or 3rdd opinion... They may find a better solution to his problem...
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I cant seriously answer your number one question. I was on my period and when we started that he didnt do good i asked him to take the medication and he said it was finshed. i was shocked that i had to slap him. And that is why i think he has used it with someone when i wasnt around. I am so scared rght now and you cant get the truth out of him. I was thinking he shuld let me know when he was taking the meds so i can assist and prepare myself for sex. atleast i got him to the doctor. Viagra is the only meds for this type of problem and whereelse can i take him. we are 31 and this is just too early. My parents wont understad when i tell them. so you guys are my friend.

TrapQueen77:
I am confused here...

1.is he taking viagra religiously even u both don't engage in sex? Which is crazzzy unless he's using it with somebody when ur not around...

2. Or is he lying to u ( he really don't take them or he throw them away)... He doesn't want help.


As much as possible, I myself don't believe in juju thing.. Take him to another doctor for 2nd or 3rdd opinion... They may find a better solution to his problem...
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Lols. Funny.






What won't I see on NL.

Summer15:
I cant seriously answer your number one question. I was on my period and when we started that he didnt do good i asked him to take the medication and he said it was finshed. i was shocked that i had to slap him. And that is why i think he has used it with someone when i wasnt around. I am so scared rght now and you cant get the truth out of him. I was thinking he shuld let me know when he was taking the meds so i can assist and prepare myself for sex. atleast i got him to the doctor. Viagra is the only meds for this type of problem and whereelse can i take him. we are 31 and this is just too early. My parents wont understad when i tell them. so you guys are my friend.

This is the thing, ur husband doesn't want to cooperate.. Ur here helping him to find solutions but he's reluctant to help u as well...

Talk to him first ..let him understand ur frustrations and ur dying to help him out..now if he still stubborn then u can talk to ur family sha... Discussed with them everything u know.. I think ur family (both) deserved to know as well..

Elders over to u, this one pass me

Make I enter the other room first

This is the most disturbing part of any mans life after financial inability to provide for ones family. I don't see why a man would avoid help only to give out such attention to another woman when the wife can't get enough. Maybe you are one of those over-high libido kinda woman and he can't just go beyond the usual. He definitely doesn't see himself having a problem.

please what will you ask me to do. Stay with him and live my life depending on viagra fro life or could this be juju they use to marry me
or i shoudl still around and accept my fate?
PLEASE DONT COME HERE AND FORM HOLY. IF YOU CAN ADVICE AS THO ITS YOUR FAMILY MEMBER DO OR READ AND WAKA GO smiley

Lol. Tell him to go and apologize to his ex. Na she dey behind d matter

I think you are making a big mistake to slap your Nigerian husband never do that again else he will leave you when he get his green card. Now young lady you have a very serious problem at hand here I will advise you to know your husband soft spot and talk to him like a friend and partner any sane man would listen. Don't be bossy just because u brought him to America.

Summer15:
I cant seriously answer your number one question. I was on my period and when we started that he didnt do good i asked him to take the medication and he said it was finshed. i was shocked that i had to slap him. And that is why i think he has used it with someone when i wasnt around. I am so scared rght now and you cant get the truth out of him. I was thinking he shuld let me know when he was taking the meds so i can assist and prepare myself for sex. atleast i got him to the doctor. Viagra is the only meds for this type of problem and whereelse can i take him. we are 31 and this is just too early. My parents wont understad when i tell them. so you guys are my friend.

U slapped an African man? And you didn't visit the E.R?

Babe his problem is in his head...he's too weak upstairs and downstairs.

In-btw have u considered whether or not he's not just aroused by you anymore?

Why not get a coded olosho...install a nanny cam(if u can't broach the subject to him) and pay her to seduce him (since I believe u should know his favourite spot where he hangs out.

Guys don't just loose attention @ 30. Na wa

TrapQueen77:




This is the thing, ur husband doesn't want to cooperate.. Ur here helping him to find solutions but he's reluctant to help u as well...

Talk to him first ..let him understand ur frustrations and ur dying to help him out..now if he still stubborn then u can talk to ur family sha... Discussed with them everything u know.. I think ur family (both) deserved to know as well..

When did u loose ur american accent??

Or you've been deported back to naija??

Honestly, it's not in anyone's place to advice you negatively except to encourage you.

I know how it feels. Frustrating, hopeless, unhappiness and confusion.

Fortunately for you, you are in a country where possibilities are limitless. Keep trying but remember life is short. Remember also that life is vain. If you are a Christian, remember your vows.

At the end of the day, kindly advice yourself and live with your resolve.

Your husband's problem can be rectified. Go to an experienced gynecologist. Viagra should not be the first drug to be Prescribed.

I don't think he has an attention problem. I think he doesn't want to have sex with you. He might have thrown the Viagra away because he felt emasculated by you. Slapping him makes things worse. Plus you mail makes it sound like you are the bread winner. And maybe he feels like you are not making him feel happy. Talk to him to get to the root of the situation.