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Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:02pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Tallesty1: In the beginning, God made them male and female. Not male and females. Therefore shall man leave father and mother and joined to the wife two of them shall become one not two. It is one man one wife. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by jodreamer(m): 2:02pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Dear Op, I believe you already have the truth in your heart, but you need people on nairaland to justify you. Well here is the truth, you will always find people to justify you. But at the end, we all we face our judgement alone and no one to blame. After knowing Christ, you have to do away with the former life style and let your life conform to the doctrine of Christ - one man one wife is one of them. Do the needful, if you are mindful of heaven that nothing stand against you on judgement day. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:03pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
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Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:06pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Tallesty1: It's one man one wife right from creation. But out of lost or greed man compromised. The first wife is the original and authentic wife. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:07pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
JackBizzle: She's telling you the truth you cannot handle. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Flashh: 2:07pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
JackBizzle:Because of one person's opinion,you had to reply with that trash? Stupidity lives in your blood. 2 Likes |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:09pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
JackBizzle: In correcting a mistake you don't show mercy. The correction itself is the mercy here. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:12pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Topgainer: What do you know about righteousness and Holiness?. Correcting a mistake is not condemnation. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Cadaemy: 2:13pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
You know it is wrong for a Christian to have more than one wife and u still want a justification for what is wrong? U have to put out the second woman but u can still take of her and your children. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by clitah: 2:14pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
You people are dwelling too much on scripture. Stop fucking one first. Leave her kpomo from now on. Let us start from there. That is the only time i will read your post with seriousness. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Emeritusseun(m): 2:14pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
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Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Eyekandi: Go where Sist. When God made them he made them man and woman agreed. But is it not in the Bible that David had more than one wives and he was the man after God's heart?. Several others in the old Testament had more than one wife and it was not counted unto them as sin. Now did Jesus say man must not marry more than one wife? No. He only said when God made them He made them man and woman. Because God mad them man and woman is it compulsory for man to have a woman? No. As long as it is not compulsory for man to marry it is not also compulsory for him to marry only one wife. When Paul was writing to Timothy 1 Timothy 3:2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;3:3 Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; 1 Timothy 3:12 Let the deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children and their own houses well. Titus 1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.1:7 For a bishop must be blameless, as the steward of God; not selfwilled, not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not given to filthy lucre; There are many things that came with Christianity that are culture of the missionaries that brought it, perhaps if the Europeans that brought the Lords Religion were Polygamous, we would have believed differently in the area of marriage. Do you know why many Christian wives are not submissive today? Because of some beliefs that are not in the Bible that are being preached by preachers. 1. A Christian can't marry more than one wife 2. Once you marry a Christian woman you can't divorce her unless if caught on adultry. So many have become source of pain and sorrow to their husbands and the poor man is afraid to file for divorce, small time the man has developed Hbp and He just slumped and die at a tender age and the woman he was afraid to divorce after shedding Crocodile Tears for some months starts dating another man There is no where in the Bible where it is stated that it is a sin for a Christian to marry two wives so my dear brother carry go with the women as long as they have accepted Jesus into their lives the only thing is you can't have any post in the Church. Chikena 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Topgainer: 2:16pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
DukeNija:Are you God? Put it better the second marriage was not recognized by my 'holier than thou' @ lord also called Pastor in the first place. My holier than thou Pastor now choses who will enter heaven although he is not sure of Heaven himself. He interprets the Bible to suit his ego and Keeps the keys to Hell Gates. Continue from here |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:16pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
lonelydora: But at the end Solomon regretted and said 'Vanity of vanity, all is vanity. ecc 1:2. 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sharpwriter(m): 2:17pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
HARDDON: Rubbish.... So heaven will elude them? Who made you judge... I preached this your thought before, but when I became more mature, I understood that God is not an author of confusion.... It is wrong to put anyone away after you receive Jesus.... You shall continue with your husband duties to both and educate your children concerning such for future. People in church have turned God to an obstinate devil without reasoning and compassion.... So putting the second wife away is the gospel of peace and deliverance abi? Will it not even make the other woman and her children hate God.... God didn't create our brain for nothing, use it for both spiritual and physical understanding! |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Chigold101(m): 2:17pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
evansjeff:dont send any of them away. If u send the woman away, who keeps the children? |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Okite15: that can be a likely scenario so don't say I'm off point,everyone is entitled to his opinion... |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:18pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
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Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sekundosekundo: 2:19pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
notoriousbabe: Accept the truth and be saved. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by JackBizzle: 2:22pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
sekundosekundo: In other words, you dish out justice mercilessly. You must be God. Ignoramus! 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Zedoo(m): 2:24pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Let all this talk end once and for all!! Ladies......get prepared....
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Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by HaroldFinch(m): 2:27pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
evansjeff: There is nothing in the Bible that forbids having two wives. On the contrary, several accounts in the Bible shows having more than one wife is lawful. Enjoy your life. If you divorce anyone of the wives, trust me, it won't be fair in the eyes of man and God. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Forwetinnah: 2:30pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
lonelydora: Wish I could give this post a million likes. .. 1 Like |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
if God condemned polygamy, he would hv told Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon , and these are men after Gods own heart, also God wouldn't hv designed females to outnumber d male population, d only cogent reason not to marry more than 1 wife z economy, not religion ,so if u hv d money and the women re comfortable with it, then go ahead, Judge this*Church refused to wed a woman that got pregnant for her husband and agreed to wed the woman that secretly aborted her pregnancy, Same Church refused to baptize a man that z legally married to 2wives but agreed to baptize a man that married to 1wife and secretly sleeps around with other girls/women, what an irony. #TheBible and d Holy Ghost is my guide, not the church, they hv made some rules that re outside d Bible. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sharpwriter(m): 2:44pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
d33types:Yea... You are right but I wouldn't say hagar fled from Abraham's house, the issue of Abraham, Sarah and hagar is a different one because Abraham relationship with hagar wasn't by faith.... God promised a child to Sarah from the womb of Sarah herself not her maid hagar.... God encouraged Abraham to send Hagar away not because of polygamy but because of God's promise and covenant unto Abraham and Sarah... So Isaac was to be the legitimate heir.... Abraham married keturah after Sarah's death and Genesis 25:6 showed us that Abraham had sons and concubines apart from keturah... So I agree with you about not sending the second wife away |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Ajeyo(m): 2:48pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Divorcing one for the other is your choice,what the Bible talks about the matter is that if you marry more than one wife,you can not be a worker or ordained a minister,Chikena,but,this should not be a leeway for anybody that loves God because if everybody follows that way,who will serve in the church?. evansjeff: |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by alan333(m): 2:51pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Brother,Matthew19vs4 says:have you not read that he which made them at the begining made the MALE/FEMALE?meaning-there's one of the two wives which is compactable or most compactable,i.e.your true love. Solution-among this two wives,one should be the bone of your ribs according to Genesis2vs21-24!findout which one of them is your truest love and dissolve your marriage with the other,be it the 1st or 2nd,either of them:however,you must continue to take care of the bond-woman and her son,i.e.the unlucky wife untill she remarry and is settled and if possible compensate her duely for incoveniences and let her go. |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sharpwriter(m): 2:52pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
nmreports:The woman's cross you say? When it's assumed that the 3 of them weren't Christians before? You can only blame the second wife if she knew God before marrying the second husband... And please, she's not even subject to judgment until she knows what she's doing, I said this because with few experiences I have seen in this life, there are set of people who have very weak and frail minds concerning their decisions in life, such many a times don't even know when they do or say wrong concerning issues until you tell them... They are very simple and they admit their faults once they are shown... Such are not subject to judgment! |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Akolawole(m): 3:03pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
More clarity is needed ..... Legally married to 2 ladies in Court? Legally married to 2 ladies as a Muslim or Legally married to 2 Ladies traditionally? |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by sharpwriter(m): 3:09pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
OmaHomes:I don't wanna be rude but I will kindly advise you to go pray for discernment and spirit of justice or justness... Go learn the new testament very well (the basics), then come back and comment.... With this your judgment, you can't judge men not to talk of judging angels as will be in the world to come! |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Alryt listen if U want to hear where in d Bible do God,Christ,the Apostles or prophets use plural for wife dey r all singular read d following scripture n get understanding matt 19 vs 29, mark 10 vs 29-30,1 Tim 3 vs 2, 1cor 7 vs 2, Luke 16 vs 18, Prov 18 vs 22, 1 Tim 3 v 12, matt 5 vs 32, Eph 5 vs 33 Titus 1 vs 6, an so on,dree r so many dat clearly stated dat U can't marry 2 wives. tempex88: |
Re: Legally Married To Two Wives Before Knowing God, What Should I Do? by Chudichu(m): 3:15pm On Oct 23, 2016 |
Eyekandi:The Bible actually doesn't encourage polygamy, but in this case I just feel sending away the second wife, would do more harm than good,would the man divorce the second wife, for no just curse. I'm Anglican, if a man has more than one wife, he is not allowed to hold positions in church,but he is not encourage to send away the second wife. |
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