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He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by ceysaga: 4:49pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
House, plz i need your advice. There's dis guy my aunt hooked me up wit a month ago, he's at the east, I am in Lagos. He called me, we got talking, calls me often & sent me his picture through email. We like each other. Yesterday, he called me to say that he cant send me t-fare to come & see him that he just paid for a flat 3 years N432,000 cos of me so he's not buoyant (used to live in one room). That I should please pay my transport fare. House, I am going to see him in person for the first time. Is it right for me to pay my transport fare? |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by 190: 4:57pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
yes na pay ur fare and go see him~ and also i hope uve made adequate provision 2 get laid cos dat guy is not gonna take it easy wit u indoors ie the bedmatics~
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Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by whitesturd(f): 5:06pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
He jst paid 4 a flat cos of u?do u want to start living with him or wot.btw.de guy sounds selfish and stingy to me.bt u can use ur money sha.wen u get dere,take time and study de kinda person he is b4 u jump into any relationship wt him. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by ceysaga: 5:23pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
You see na, What if am not workn. Wont going wit my money make me look desperate which am nt. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by debest1(m): 5:24pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
then dont go, abi na by force? |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Nobody: 5:25pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
190: true talk,the bobo has been dreaming of her kitten all this while whitesturd: once she gets there,she go submit.no long tory |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Pittbaby(f): 5:26pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
why is he not coming to see you first, you are going to stay with a man that you have never met, pls o your auntie will not be there with you. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by r231(m): 5:30pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
come on now even if d guy didn't just pay for a flat if he didn't offer the transport money will you ask him for it? well in dis situation try to be considerate he just paid for a flat and u've agreed to come and see him so on your bike. let us knw how it went dwn wen u get bck |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by debest1(m): 5:32pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
poster, the whole arrangemnt smacks of desperation, and the guy is taking full advantage of that fact. You being introduced by your aunt, agreeing to visit a guy who hasnt deemed it fit to at least come down to see what u really look like, at the end of the day, if u make that trip he will keep taking advantage of you/emotionally blackmail you til u get married (if he ever takes things that far) My advice, wriggle out of the trip and let him show some committment by coming down to Lagos, even offer to pay 4 his fare if he's skint |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by 190: 5:49pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
debest1: just look @ dat!
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Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by ceysaga: 5:52pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Truth is, he buys stuff 4rm my aunt and asked her if she had a sister. I think i should tell him 2 come instead. Afterall, am the lady, he's the guy. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by debest1(m): 5:55pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
ah i c, so u agree with my earlier post that the guy is playing Big Boy, and he is not showing any level of seriousness here, if this is ok with u then play along, but if u want any modicum of self respect let him prove that he respects u and come down, What wud probably happen is u get there, he sleeps wiv u then turns round and say u r nt what he expected, |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by whitesturd(f): 5:55pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
ceysaga,shows u still ve sum self esteem as a lady.wonder wt u were thinking before.nice decision.dnt make him feel ure desperate.we ladies still need to hold our heads high no matter what. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by 190: 5:57pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
lady b u have been warned~ |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by POSAKOSA1(m): 5:58pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
ceysaga: Let him come to Lagos. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Pharoh: 5:59pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
@Poster don't go anywhere let him come and see you or are you the one that asked him to pay for the house? Forget those stories and tell him to come or forget it except you are the desperate one. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by spoilt(f): 6:00pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Forget him. There's a certain way to treat a lady. This is just the beginning of his excuses. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by dani1luv: 6:01pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
^^ |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Shola2009(m): 7:29pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
He should come to you !! |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Rosabelle(f): 8:54pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Listen to the wurooo wuroo story: He has paid rent for a bigger house because of a girl he hasnt met and he wont go visit? I mean. Girl if youre important enough for him to get a new house, then you should be important enough to him for him to come visit. Sit down in Lagos and let him come visit you. |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Nobody: 8:59pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Make sure you padlock your kitty and throw away the key |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Shola2009(m): 9:02pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
^^ Theres always a master key!! |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Nobody: 9:04pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Shola2009:;DWhat is it? |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Shola2009(m): 9:21pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Did i lie? be doing like a village headmaster there or do u want me to show you the master key? |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Nobody: 9:25pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Is it the magic stick? |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Shola2009(m): 9:34pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Nahh! magic stick aint got nothing on "The Master Key". Ebonyeyes stop derailing this thread! yes? |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Spit it out already |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Rosabelle(f): 9:40pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
You guys looll |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by r231(m): 9:42pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
wen are you suppose to go anywayz ? |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by KennyG6(m): 9:44pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
after all the advice i bet u guys my wages dat the girl will still pay her way up and get wat she deserves a gd **** and a broken heart |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Rosabelle(f): 9:45pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Kenny_G:Dude, i was just thinking the same thing |
Re: He's Asking Me To Pay For My Trip by Nobody: 9:47pm On Oct 24, 2009 |
Rosabelle: Kenny_G:You aint lying about that |
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