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Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Nobody: 7:34am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Billiondoe:I think you should first of all have a serious communication with your present guy on the issues troubling you. These days nairaland is not the best place to seek for advice. Everybody have his/her own orientation and experiences of which they would use to give their opinion. Help your self by communicating with the guy. Ask him if there is a future for both of you. Follow your heart and makes decisions for yourself, nairaland is not dependable. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Itzcaleb: 7:37am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Billiondoe:
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Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Realhommie(m): 7:44am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Antoeni:#Deep... |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by princeso2020(m): 7:46am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Billiondoe: from your write up, you have made up your mind why seeking our option on this matter. Well I do not know if you are a beleiver , all that glitters is not Gold. Do not be in a Hurry God's time is the best. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Wininno(m): 7:50am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Joavid:Best answer so far! I trowey salute for you. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Jethrolite(m): 7:50am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Billiondoe:Even if your 27 years old boy friend gives no drama at all, in this situation you'll always spice things up. Your mind is already made up, go with it. Just remember marriage is a life long decision and be sure rich boy friend is who you can stay with for the rest of your life. If he doesn't beat or disrespect you publicly I see no reason why you shouldn't be with him. Broke boyfriend will sulk for sometime but will get over it. And when it comes to marriage, love has no role to play. You need to think clearly, love is like a thick smoke that blocks sound judgement, the smoke will eventually go away and you will be left with reality. Ask yourself if you can tolerate and live with the reality and I mean for both men. Personally, peace of mind and understanding from my partner is way more important than love, when those are in place then love can grow. The right word for love is infatuation and that's what I was referring to up there. Love itself still makes a person look stupid but with very clear judgement. Have a nice life. PS: Remember to keep my chicken and Satzenbrau-hmmm, I know it is a cheap beer but that's what I like. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Billiondoe: My dear,I Dont think its a good idea for u to wait for the guy because he doesn't have a mind of his own.I guess he is waiting for his family to tell him to go and marry before he would......Run away from any guy who wholly depend on his family and is being controlled by them because there will b so much trouble when u marry |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 28, 2016 |
BETWEEN THE DEVIL AND THE DEEP BLUE SEA. DILEMMATIC. The former is an ex for a reason. What previously separated both of u might still separate the marriage. In marriage, money is something, but not everything. Except if u know that ure d one that broke it up Cos of One flimsy reason like that. Some ladies can be childishly crazy some times. The later? Loves u, but is a puppet. No, marriage is meant for men (someone that can stand up for u, even when others (including family) is against u. Believe me, in marriage, love is something, but not everything. THE TWO RELATIONSHIPS AIN'T EVENING RIGHT TO ME. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Wininno(m): 7:57am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Billiondoe:Marriage alone is not entirely an achievement. Apart from your BAP, what other things have u got to bring to the table? Probably ur 27yrs old guy could be thinking same towards you. Choose your ex or your current guy, either way, you are right and still a LIABILITY to any of the party. 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by santosesq1(m): 8:02am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Some questions are Not worth asking make & take ur own decision. Go were u celebrated not were u tollerated ! |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by seunakin231(m): 8:04am On Oct 28, 2016 |
I need to see ur pishure before I give u ans for this question, either ways, am certain u have low self esteem |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Realhommie(m): 8:05am On Oct 28, 2016 |
beautiful232:In Nigeria how many guyz are ready @27? Stats |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by tayorshd: 8:13am On Oct 28, 2016 |
the issue is that if u are acting drama different day and u don't like it and yet hid family still controls him and if u are ready to marry please go back to ur ex because I believe girls love were they will have a better happy stay and living without drama and yet girls do like guys with cash and independent too..ok give ur ex another chance |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Nobody: 8:21am On Oct 28, 2016 |
oluwashedy: My broda, na so i see am too oh |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Rapture07: 8:29am On Oct 28, 2016 |
My question to you op. Do you know this your rich x can loose all he has with a sec. When that happens what will u do? Think hard |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by cybriz82(m): 8:31am On Oct 28, 2016 |
i see a future where u will keep coming bk to ur present bfrnd for congo polishing after marryin ur ex....hmmmm e dn balance sha. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Nobody: 8:34am On Oct 28, 2016 |
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Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Nobody: 8:34am On Oct 28, 2016 |
What ever makes you get involve with your ex again, he's goin to torment u all ur life. cos he will believe you came back to him cos of his money. world of advice "NEVER GO BACK TO YOUR CHEAT NO MATTER HOW IT HAVE BEEN PACKAGED". WHETER YOU WHERE THE ONE THAT F**KED UP THEN OR HIM LET IT BE GONE. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by kingwise5050: 8:34am On Oct 28, 2016 |
what is the reason who you broke up with your x it will help me to comment but without it i will not comment |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by kaycshine(f): 8:36am On Oct 28, 2016 |
TreasuredLeidy:but have u considered that this present guy may have money tomorrow n no longer want her again for a wife n start looking for his own ex....think Gurl n follow ur heart, life itself is a risk there's no guarantee anywhere 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Realhommie(m): 8:42am On Oct 28, 2016 |
originalmachine:Interesting story... I have a friend who had similar experience, his gf left coz a guy came along and was promising heaven on earth including marriage.. That's how the guy shined her kongo anyhow like it's no man's biz, lol.. In the end the relationship lasted only a few months, imagine... You know, the funny thing is that these things happen everyday yet they keep making same mistakes, it's annoying that they never learn.. Honestly, I do not have any words for the Op. 1 Like |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Realhommie(m): 8:44am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Anoruo:#Fact... |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by chunkuli: 8:45am On Oct 28, 2016 |
seriously consider a career in writing fictions/nonfiction. think you have sometihin there DarkRebel101: |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by beautiful232(f): 9:17am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Realhommie: have seen lots under 25 getting married na |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Sultty(m): 9:19am On Oct 28, 2016 |
...don't be too much in a hurry to leave ur current bf for d other, y not ask an experienced relationship counselor to put u through because not all that glitters is gold |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Realhommie(m): 9:24am On Oct 28, 2016 |
beautiful232:I do not dispute that as i'm aware... But it's only a few, i mean very few. The average age for guys to get married in Naija is 30, even then most/majority like say over 80% aren't ready. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by 9jatatafo(m): 9:24am On Oct 28, 2016 |
All for the money two for the show |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by beautiful232(f): 9:28am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Realhommie: that's why I asked when they will ever get ready?? |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by QueenEKAMMA(f): 9:34am On Oct 28, 2016 |
If only u will read to this page in order to read my own contribution. My question is, are u a believer? if yes then seek the face of God. Go down on your kneels and talk to God. Ask him to direct you in order not to make a wrong choice. He will surely reveal to you who your own is. please dnt let anyone confuse u because marriage is not dating. if non of them is urs God will reveal to u. pray with sincererity of heart and with a fast and focus. May God help you. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by CashVessel(m): 9:35am On Oct 28, 2016 |
Marlvin: Dey there dey deceive ur self. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by Nobody: 9:36am On Oct 28, 2016 |
donbenedict: Ever heard this phrase, "Catch them young"? It was only a mirthful gibe. |
Re: Should I End The The Relationship? by donbenedict(m): 9:38am On Oct 28, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:lol these young fishes are just so clueless dey don't know jack about life |
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