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Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by warmachine(m): 11:41am On Nov 16, 2016 |
eyinjuege: What did you think an overgrown child is?...a sensible adult?...there's no difference dear...and that's hu your are? |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by eyinjuege: 12:37pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
warmachine: Ironic... I was also referring to you. but you couldn't understand or get that since you're just being true to self. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by blesoh(f): 2:52pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
goshen26:My dear don't you think, you are not making any sense, BTW am happily married for six years so am advising base on my experience, OK bye! |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by goshen26: 2:59pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
blesoh: Madam blesoh....Pele ooo, I don't abuse married women, but advising the poor woman like u did will only fast track her marital death |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by WinkWrld: 3:58pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
repogirl: It's simple, when u get married and have challenges. Embrace the bull. Fight ur husband on the street. You are on ur own. But I must give this lady the best advice. Yes God gave u mouth to talk and eat. Why not eat poo. It's obvious u a small girl. Is bed only for sex? You would be taught all these in marriage class if u eventually do not beat ur boyfriends. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by repogirl(f): 4:24pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
WinkWrld:And its obvious you know nothing, cos if you did you wouldnt have jumped into silly conclusions. I am very married with Kids, thankyou. Are marriage classes meant to teach women alone? Aren't men taught to respect their wives and handle things in a mature manner? This one cannot respect his wife, he disgraces her in public, embarrasses her, tears down her self worth in the presence of the help and his brothers and you say she should bottle it up like a zombie without feelings, then settle it on bed. Rubbish! Sex doesn't settle anything. only communication does and after one has been pushed to the wall severally, the best way to get your point across is to be frank about it. If being frank with him doesnt work then its time to threaten him that his family will hear about how he is maltreating her. This is emotional abuse which is just as bad as physical abuse and after years of this sort of torture, a woman will not be the same. I know because I am a woman and not all of us can consistently take emotional abuse and remain calm. Marriage is not always rosy or sweet but both partners have to work at it . BOTH partners have to give something to make it work. Abeg marriage should be enjoyed not endured, that wasnt Gods plan, so why should she live in sadness just because she is married. Save your useless advice for your daughters, so they can die in silence and unhappiness in their husbands homes where they will be seen and not heard. Its men like you who make women feel weak and helpless. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 5:31pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
Yieldings: I probably would never take any of those personality tests ever again.
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I read about ENTJ here: https://www.16personalities.com/entj-personality It said ENTJs are: brilliant entrepreneurs, natural-born leaders, extroverted, charismatic; have a ruthless level of rationality; love challenges and battle of wits, love those who can stand up intellectually to them, could be arrogant and condescending, etcetera. Oshe! All this for me? |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by sinizia: 5:52pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
DarkRebel101: You've most of those traits though, judging from your NL posts that is. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 6:09pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
sinizia: Well, if Sinizia says so, it must be the truth. Long time, though. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by sinizia: 8:52pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:I'm good, bro. How's life treating you? I see you've been stepping on toes of some ladies lately.? |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by blesoh(f): 9:55pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
goshen26:So what else is advisable for her to tame that man, cos she has talk to him it didn't work and please don't give me that 'keep praying' phrase, it hurts really bad, anyway my grand mother said God no de give dangerous animal horn,that man is probably brought up from a broken home. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by goshen26: 10:08pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
blesoh:I never advised her to pray too, tho prayer is important. But a "virtuous woman keep her home" shouting back at him won't solve d issue. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Amhappy(f): 11:02pm On Nov 16, 2016 |
You know ur husband more than we do so handle it the best way. If my hubby was the one that did this,I will shout back the first time and that ends it. It works for us. So choose what will work for you. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 12:32am On Nov 17, 2016 |
sinizia: Is life ever truly fair to anyone? Sometimes it gives you lemons, other times it gives you nothing. The times it gives me nothing, I try to focus on winning the lemon salesman to my side. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. How about you, brov? We should go grab a drink this Christmas. Are you in lag? Make we go shack Sabrina while we munch on saya. I'm serious, though. If you would be in Lag for Christmas then we should flex town together for a day. I can even arrange one NL babe to accompany us that day.
Small ish. No time to worry over drama queens. ... Do you still follow KOTD? If someone had told me 13 months ago that I would go on YouTube and not feel inclined to visit KOTD or URL's channel, I would have laughed off such statement, but that's what is happening today. I haven't seen a battle in 6 months now. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 3:45am On Nov 17, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:Why not? Which have you taken before? DarkRebel101:Yes, it seems to fit you, which was why it was my guess. I was debating between your being an ENTJ or INTJ, but I rested on the former. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 4:06am On Nov 17, 2016 |
DarkRebel101:Yes, very much. DarkRebel101:I didn't take offence to your calling me a weirdo. I guess this is why I never fit in. I would rather be weird than normal, anyway. I'll soon award you a medal for calling me the most names on nl. j/k 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 8:45am On Nov 17, 2016 |
warmachine: sorry not for me i prefer confrontation, if u keep quite i do it again. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 8:58am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Yieldings: [img]http://i./26FPxFeuN8UA7nqGQ.gif[/img] 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by blesoh(f): 9:00am On Nov 17, 2016 |
goshen26:It helps to an extend my dear. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 9:21am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Yieldings: The Tibetan personality test. It was all mumbo-jumbo and even MBTI seems more genuine.
I read up on INTJ, it said: “INTJs tend to apply their receptiveness and independence, and aversion to rules and traditions, to these new ideas as well, resulting in fairly liberal social senses.” “Blindly following precedents and rules without understanding them is distasteful to INTJs, and they disdain even more authority figures who blindly uphold those laws and rules without understanding their intent. Anyone who prefers the status quo for its own sake, or who values stability and safety over self-determination, is likely to clash with INTJ personality types. Whether it's the law of the land or simple social convention, this aversion applies equally” This is so true about me. I would say a major pet peeve of mine is submitting blindly to precepts, customs, and traditions laid down by our so-called forbears in nature, especially when the provenance of such traditions and practices are fog-shrouded, nebulous and unclear. When people try to make a case for brideprice for example, and seek to justify why such cultural nuisance should still be in practice, I ask them whether they are aware of its origin and what necessitated it in the first place; I also ask why an anachronism as such should still endure, but as expected, they end up tongue-tied and clueless -- but yet would insist on holding on to it because their parents, grandparents and great-grandparents did so. I wonder what kind of minds these people have. It must be so dank and unimaginative. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by goshen26: 9:28am On Nov 17, 2016 |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by blesoh(f): 1:06pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
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Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by DedeNkem: 3:30pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
favexx: If you loose your husband to your house help, simply because you briefly starved him of sex, then what makes you think he's not abeen f*ucking the house help secret before your sex strike? And why have a f*uckable maid in the house? If your husband does that, it would mean he didn't love you in the first place? A man who loves and cares about his wife, will NEVER cheat on her. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by WinkWrld: 5:44pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
repogirl: GOD Placed Man above woman to assist and comfort man. You WILL NEVER be a man. Go home and Respect your man. He has 100% right to shout at you especially when you begin to reason like you are a superwoman or a fish. Dont be deceived by ZeeWorld or TeleMundo. It is your right to Use your brain to control your man. No Man will hate on his wife for no just reason. Find out why he is hurt. find out why he is angered. speak with him. KNOW UR MAN. Hitting back at your man never solved the issues.It will aggravate more hurt. When you feel hurt, u can discuss it during pillow talk. Unless you married a Lion which is again your fault. If u dont think u did,then be humble and be a woman. i will suggest some Christian books for you soon. If you dont please your man, i am almost sure ur man will have a small girl out there who will give him peace(start investigating now). USE UR BRAIN WOMAN. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by repogirl(f): 7:04pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
WinkWrld:Oh ofcourse I use my brain, which is more than I can say for you. I told you before that you know nothing and I boldly repeat it , you know absolutely nothing but you are free to keep living in the delusion that you have something in your head. You are one of the reasons we have bad men/fathers in the society. So you will tell your son that he has a right to shout at his wife in public and embarrass her about because she is the tool that God has created to be misused as a man sees fit? If you see women like this, I wonder if you respect your own mother. I see you have taken my own advice that communication and not sex is what solves issues in marriage and that's why you buttress my own point back to me. Lmao! You obviously have no points and so you use mine to help your argument. I even doubt you read the OPs account in full... did she tell you she shouts back at her husband? from her account it's plain that she has been a very patient wife yet you still heaped all the blame on her, insinuating she is the one at fault. Save your advice for your daughters like I said earlier or throw it in the trash can, noone cares about it. Tell your daughters to speak in low tones, to be seen and not heard, to find out what they are doing wrong because men were created perfect and they cannot be maltreating them unnecessarily. Finally since you know nothing about me, my husband or my marriage, you can keep your investigations and Christian books to yourself and probably read them some more because you have no inkling how a man should love his wife. I'm not sure why I even bother with these boys who have no inkling what being a man is about. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Joy1706(f): 7:53pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
yoged:Pack her things my azz. All the times he has been shouting on her nko. She should give him a taste of his own medicine. If he doesn't like it, he should cry to God about it. She ain't going nowhere |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Joy1706(f): 7:57pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
WinkWrld:Your daughters shall only be seen and will never be heard. Amen 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Joy1706(f): 7:58pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Taryur3:If he beats her, it's just a confirmation that he is the wrong man for her. Good riddance |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by warmachine(m): 8:36pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Kia what am I seeing the world haff spoil o.. Lack of love and understanding everywhere and guys being to domineering and abusive and our ladies that want to be the 'boss' of the home...kia...Lord help me to be that husband and help my wife to be that wife...cause seems like any small thing now na divorce...high level of intolerance... Lol...the lady above me and the guy above funny...abeg. |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by warmachine(m): 8:43pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Joy1706: M not saying its right to shout at your wife in public or hit her...but however... Madam...sister you need to drop this "not the right man for her" mentality...they are already married not dating...if your new car gets faulty you fix it and not throw it more away or damage it more....replying him might damage him more than silence and a calm resolve at home is best...and if things go wrong in a marriage I want you to know divorce is never the best...every car gets faulty u know! Peace! |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by Nobody: 8:45pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
Re: My Husband Always Shouts At Me In Public by WinkWrld: 9:13pm On Nov 17, 2016 |
repogirl: With this ur attitude alone, i bet Your husband is already in real trouble. just from our little conversation, i have notice you lie,you disrespectful, unintelligent, and u are a nagging mother. God save your husband. 6 Likes |
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