schumastic:
PICTURE OF SHE AND THE GUY OR THIS STORY IS JUST ANOTHER SUPER STORY

Bro, like seriously? this is no joke sir

Rone16:
And you're 100 percent sure that guy is her bf?

What more do I need sis? I think u shud be able to understand how I'm feeling right now

Egbi2020:
U beta thank ur God. just because u av alittle setback in d relationship and she said she needs a break n u r here nursing a hrt break ?my dear a broken relationship is 1million times better than a broken marriage.if things goes bad for you after marriage though we don't pray for such ,this same woman will run n leave u n ur children without looking back.u better move on.
There are way that seeth right to a man but the end of it thereof is destruction.
A word is enough for d wise.

Thanks a bunch man

vchykp:
lots of unanswered questions... finally i cnt advice you yet because i smell online relationship...



no suprice say nah one yahoo boy dey break ur hrt..

It's not online relationship bro

EWAagoyin:
start dating her close friend

Nah, thanks.

dimexy247:


What more do I need sis? I think u shud be able to understand how I'm feeling right now

I get but you should ask who he is first.

dimexy247:


It's not online relationship bro

Was it a relationship or courtship?.. where both parents aware and did you in anyway promise her marriage before travelling out..?

vchykp:


Was it a relationship or courtship?.. where both parents aware and did you in anyway promise her marriage before travelling out..?

Yeah I did and came back as promised

Rone16:

I get but you should ask who he is first.

Thank you, at least for the sake of closure

dimexy247:


Yeah I did and came back as promised

how long did you both date before your travel.. pls be patient to ans me and be sincere your reply will help me advice you..

Heal ur heart...she is not meant for u.



Btw,dont rush into another relationship to get bk at her or to ease yourself of emotional pains,it wouldn't last


Build urself and heal ur heart and memories

Bros nawa 4 u ooo.


Lemme ask u some question.


1. Do you have any disabilities? I.e blind, deaf, bad leg or hand.

2. You get small money for account to run your life? Meaning you are financially gallant.

3. Are you good looking. I don't mean u must be Mr Nigeria or have six packs. Just average looking nigga.

4. Hope you good dress sense?

5. Her punny get gold inside or ac?

6. Nah Buhari, dangote, dele momodu aughter?

7. Nah she send you go abroad?

8. Nah she dey feed you.



Nah wa for you if all the answer is no



Get your a$$ up and move on.

[/cooooreeeeect!!!! Gbam!!!!]

dimexy247:



Thanks bro

There are some situations one finds himself and needs no advice just like this your case cos it's too evidently glaring that you are the side guy...fvckingly move on and never dare to look back

[quote author=dimexy247 post=51567485]There's is this girl I've been dating for less than 2 years, I traveled abroad and came back mainly because of her just to start preparing for our wedding. I hit a little setback and there was unplanned delay. Just a week ago, she sent me a message that she needs break for a period of time and stated that no call or text is appreciated. Just 5 days after, she posted a picture of a guy on her WhatsApp. Now I'm really down and so heartbroken, should I let her go or what? Besides, how do I deal with this heartbreak. Matured minds only please. Thanks if I can do it am you you can do it....easy man!!

If I can do it you can...easy man!!!!uote author=dimexy247 post=51567485]There's is this girl I've been dating for less than 2 years, I traveled abroad and came back mainly because of her just to start preparing for our wedding. I hit a little setback and there was unplanned delay. Just a week ago, she sent me a message that she needs break for a period of time and stated that no call or text is appreciated. Just 5 days after, she posted a picture of a guy on her WhatsApp. Now I'm really down and so heartbroken, should I let her go or what? Besides, how do I deal with this heartbreak. Matured minds only please. Thanks.[/quote]

vchykp:


how long did you both date before your travel.. pls be patient to ans me and be sincere your reply will help me advice you..

We dated for less than 2 years before I traveled and we had no issues then. I came back within the period I promised her I would be back.

Nma27:
A new state? Its like one asking me to leave Abuja or stop whatsapping and Nairalanding just because a guy broke my heart! Hilariousity ryt there

the advice is not my type. I hate such advice.

dimexy247:


We dated for less than 2 years before I traveled and we had no issues then. I came back within the period I promised her I would be back.

How often do you communicate with her when you where away..? and did u loose communication with her at any point?

vchykp:


How often do you communicate with her when you where away..? and did u loose communication with her at any point?

Thier should be a reason for her acting up, if you dont know her reasons, then you never took the relationship serious.

misshoree:
Heal ur heart...she is not meant for u.



Btw,dont rush into another relationship to get bk at her or to ease yourself of emotional pains,it wouldn't last


Build urself and heal ur heart and memories

You're so much right, the flashes of memories are what is killing me most.

Thank you so much, I appreciate this. God bless you

vchykp:


Thier should be a reason for her acting up, if you dont know her reasons, then you never took the relationship serious.

I asked her, all she said was she wants a break up. I managed to persuade her for at least, to get closure but I couldn't get anything off her

dimexy247:


I asked her, all she said was she wants a break up. I managed to persuade her for at least, to get closure but I couldn't get anything off her

i asked you a question previously..

Brownzola:
Bros nawa 4 u ooo.


Lemme ask u some question.


1. Do you have any disabilities? I.e blind, deaf, bad leg or hand.

2. You get small money for account to run your life? Meaning you are financially gallant.

3. Are you good looking. I don't mean u must be Mr Nigeria or have six packs. Just average looking nigga.

4. Hope you good dress sense?

5. Her punny get gold inside or ac?

6. Nah Buhari, dangote, dele momodu aughter?

7. Nah she send you go abroad?

8. Nah she dey feed you.



Nah wa for you if all the answer is no



Get your a$$ up and move on.

[/cooooreeeeect!!!! Gbam!!!!]

Thanks so much bro, this really got me cracking, I appreciate your input.

vchykp:


How often do you communicate with her when you where away..? and did u loose communication with her at any point?

Yeah we communicated frequently while I was away, though there was a temporary break in transmission at a point but I got back and explained which she understood.

dimexy247:


Yeah we communicated frequently while I was away, though there was a temporary break in transmission at a point but I got back and explained which she understood.

ok then.. you already lost her since but u just realized, i sense u where not serious about the relationship until now, you knew you had her, she was just there to fill the space, no adequate attention was given to her, you know we men, when we feel we've won a womans heart, we start showing less attention.

I believe duribg your period of non-challancy, she met someone that could give her better attention, someone more serious and commited, as a woman she had to move on, she may have fears or trying to respeect your emotion, that must have been her reason for hiding it from you all along.

I will advice you to keep away from her to avoid insult of any kind, you have burnt your chances of been with her, you guys where never meant to be tho, just believe shes gone for good, move on and forget her, BETTER DAYS AHEAD..!

dimexy247:

You're so much right, the flashes of memories are what is killing me most.
Thank you so much, I appreciate this. God bless you

uwc

vchykp:


ok then.. you already lost her since but u just realized, i sense u where not serious about the relationship until now, you knew you had her, she was just there to fill the space, no adequate attention was given to her, you know we men, when we feel we've won a womans heart, we start showing less attention.

I believe duribg your period of non-challancy, she met someone that could give her better attention, someone more serious and commited, as a woman she had to move on, she may have fears or trying to respeect your emotion, that must have been her reason for hiding it from you all along.

I will advice you to keep away from her to avoid insult of any kind, you have burnt your chances of been with her, you guys where never meant to be tho, just believe shes gone for good, move on and forget her, BETTER DAYS AHEAD..!

Thanks bro, appreciate ur analysis.