Pharoh:

Interesting thread

So whats the solution if i may ask? I would like to hear from the ladies what solution they have for a difficult woman or a woman that has a taunting and bad mouth.

There are better ways to handle issues than to resort to violence,one of it is patience and addressing issues maturedly.If a woman is looking for trouble the easy and logical thing to do is to walk out,and in cases where the woman blocks the road well you just have to try and calm down and use your number 6.It is needless to hit or resort to violence,but try to avoid trouble as much as possible.But like the bible say:It is better to live on the roof of a house than to live with a contentious woman,take that advice if wahala too much,walk out.shikena

Pharoh:

I get you brother and i would also not take it likely with someone that hit my sister as well but i just don't want us to be blind to the issue behind why a woman should hit a man first?

If we continue looking at the solution from the male angle then we are not helping the female side of this issue. I answered those questions because i would have addressed this issue from the source. Lets address the cause of this hitting in the first place. A woman should control her emotions and a man as well should not provoke a lady to loose her emotion.

If we can sort that out then we will all be fine because we live in a complex society where there is no standard for addressing such issues. Just take the case of rihanna and Chris brown.

If i may ask you what is the best punishment for a murderer?

My brother no vex abeg.

ekitikan:

Maxidoe:

I feel u, no shaking, for me,death should be, don't compare it with a woman hitting u first, lol,

agathamari:

its called chivalry.  something which is lost on nigerian men

bawomolo:

everyone has a right to self-defense.  It doesn't matter if it's a man or woman attacking you. 

men shouldn't hit women but women shouldn't use that as an excuse to start drama.   violence should be avoided regardless of gender


you do realize the concept of chivalry means women lose their right to equality right?  You either want equality or to be treated as some fragile toy.

duality:

people would always bring sentiments to issues like this  thats the problem

a female commissioner for education in a state n the south south region gave a slap to a man for not complying with her instructions and funny, it was taken lightly.in fact she was called action lady, disciplinarian , strong woman etc bt a man would be crucified for doing 1/10 of that

well, not all women need to be hit, but some deserve to be corrected physically where necessary.

blackspade:

While I agree that a woman shouldn't put her hands on a man, women are on average weaker than men, and a strike from them does not warrant a much stronger counter-strike from a much stronger man.

Ranks007:

In my own view, hitting a woman can be correct if she is your wife, a wife and a carpet are the same you beat them once in a while to keep them clean!!!

bbngozi:

to answer your question SIMPLE AND SHORT. THE ONLY REASON WHY A MAN SHOULD NOT HIT A WOMAN IS IF HE SEE'S THAT HE'S SUPERIOR AND THAT THE WOMAN IS DEFENSELESS. BUT ON THE OTHER HAND, IF THE WOMAN IS THE ONE HITTING HIM AND HAVE NO INTENTION OF STOPPING, EXCUSING ME FOR SAYING THIS BUT I WILL " PLZ SLAP THE LIVING HELL OUT OF HER!!"