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Poll: Do we marry to make other happy or to be happy

Make me happy: 41% (21 votes)
Make mate happy: 19% (10 votes)
For the fun of it: 7% (4 votes)
To make my parents happy: 13% (7 votes)
Not sure: 17% (9 votes)
This poll has ended

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Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 6:05pm On Nov 20, 2009
@ topic

To have control over him.
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 6:06pm On Nov 20, 2009
^^^^ NOT FOR LONG. He will soon shine his eyes.
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Busybody2(f): 6:22pm On Nov 20, 2009
[size=14pt]Why do people harp on the one part where God said people should marry and ignore the other two parts where he said it is better for a man to remain single to aid his relationship with God and prevent distractions undecided [/size]
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 6:29pm On Nov 20, 2009
^^^^ because they need to explain why they have sex.  Whether people deny it or not, in the end, it all boils down to SEX.

It is an ABOMINATION in the Nigerian culture to have sex when u're not married----- so people see what they choose to, and use it to explain their rationale.  The only place where SEX is justified is in marriage. Outside of this its a sin---- s[b]o you can't tell a Hot Nigerian-[/b]-- MALE or Female the part about the "remaining single" grin grin
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Busybody2(f): 6:41pm On Nov 20, 2009
^^^ Hmmn, my lips are sealed grin lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Nov 20, 2009
@ Obvious

You are mixing culture and religion like they were the same thing as in taking it for granted that all Nigerians are Christians. As far as I am concerned I don't need a sheet of paper to have sex.

I need it for control.
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Busybody2(f): 6:56pm On Nov 20, 2009
michelin89:

@ topic

To have control over him.


Or over his asset you mean, well thats what I'm in it for cool cool cool
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Nov 20, 2009
Everything I can lay my hands on. cool
Re: Why Do We Marry? by mamagee3(f): 7:04pm On Nov 20, 2009
^^Greedy girl/lady. tongue
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Nov 20, 2009
It's simply knowing and legitimating what is yours.
Re: Why Do We Marry? by mamagee3(f): 7:28pm On Nov 20, 2009
No, it's called grubbing money leaching. grin grin grin
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 20, 2009
It's not money. It's him I want. He is my property, a no go area and if he misbehaves I can deal with him with the law by my side. cool
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:36pm On Nov 20, 2009
michelin89:

@ Obvious

You are mixing culture and religion like they were the same thing as in taking it for granted that all Nigerians are Christians. As far as I am concerned I don't need a sheet of paper to have sex.

I need it for control.

There's no mixing here--- religion is part of culture. Muslims don't believe in premarital sex either.

What "control" do u speak of ?
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:36pm On Nov 20, 2009
Busy_body:


Or over his asset you mean, well thats what I'm in it for cool cool cool

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Nov 20, 2009
I am a Nigerian and I am neither a muslim nor a christian.
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:41pm On Nov 20, 2009
^^^^ people like you are less than 5% of the population---- most people are either Christians or Muslim.

btw, what control do you speak of ?
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Nov 20, 2009
Control over his body and mind. cool
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 7:46pm On Nov 20, 2009
LOL ----- GL. grin grin
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Fhemmmy: 8:00pm On Nov 20, 2009
I think finally the truth is coming out
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 8:06pm On Nov 20, 2009
^^^ the truth has always been out---- the reality is no one wants to accept it. grin grin grin


Everyone is pretending alooong!
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Busybody2(f): 8:11pm On Nov 20, 2009
OBVIOUS:

^^^ the truth has always been out---- the reality is no one wants to accept it. grin grin grin


Everyone is pretending alooong!


You included, hence the reason your eyes nearly popped outta your head cos you are not accustomed to seeing the truth grin
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 8:13pm On Nov 20, 2009
Busy_body:


You included, hence the reason your eyes nearly popped outta your head cos you are not accustomed to seeing the truth grin

Whaaaat! explain further---- undecided undecided undecided
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Fhemmmy: 8:14pm On Nov 20, 2009
Busy_body:


You included, hence the reason your eyes nearly popped outta your head cos you are not accustomed to seeing the truth grin

But most people has been saying it is cos of God and this and that, now Michelin has said it is cos she can have 110% control over the man and his money, and i love her honesty
Re: Why Do We Marry? by OBVIOUS(m): 8:15pm On Nov 20, 2009
do u mean that people marry for money and assets--- well if they are lucky to have a rich sucker fall for them--- all is fair in love and war--- tongue tongue
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Fhemmmy: 8:15pm On Nov 20, 2009
OBVIOUS:

do u mean that people marry for money and assets--- well if they are lucky to have a rich sucker fall for them--- all is fair in love and war--- tongue tongue

Hahahahahaha.
Ana Nicole Smith marry for love, i guess wink
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 8:16pm On Nov 20, 2009
@ Fhemmy

Not his money because we'll have a joint account, mine and his.

I want his body and mind all for me and under my total control. But if he wants to give me all his money, I won't refuse.
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Busybody2(f): 8:21pm On Nov 20, 2009
OBVIOUS:

Whaaaat! explain further---- undecided undecided undecided


This https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-351884.64.html#msg4966389

Why ya eyes wan commot for socket, I am right it is because you are not used to seeing the truth on NL innit grin


Fhemmmy:

But most people has been saying it is cos of God and this and that, now Michelin has said it is cos she can have 110% control over the man and his money, and i love her honesty


Michelin is one of the 1% on NL that has no problem keeping it real kiss
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Fhemmmy: 8:30pm On Nov 20, 2009
michelin89:

@ Fhemmy

Not his money because we'll have a joint account, mine and his.

I want his body and mind all for me and under my total control. But if he wants to give me all his money, I won't refuse.

And what do u wanna do with his mind, remember what they say about a man's mind?
Busy_body:


Michelin is one of the 1% on NL that has no problem keeping it real kiss

that is nice
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Nov 20, 2009
A man's mind, a woman's mind. Mind na mind and I nor mind! grin
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Fhemmmy: 8:54pm On Nov 20, 2009
michelin89:

A man's mind, a woman's mind. Mind na mind and I nor mind! grin

u only wish, they said that a man's mind is all about sex, so what do u wanna do with his mind?
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Nov 20, 2009
Then there is no problem. If I have his mind, I have his penis and if I have his penis, I have his pocket.

Perfetto!!!!
Re: Why Do We Marry? by Fhemmmy: 8:57pm On Nov 20, 2009
michelin89:

Then there is no problem. If I have his mind, I have his penis and if I have his penis, I have his pocket.

Perfetto!!!!

thief tiv

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