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Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by jayluvesella: 1:54pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Nobody: 1:54pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Raine80: True 2 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by oluwabishop: 1:55pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Rapmoney: Baba a you are wise. 6 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Slickest(m): 1:55pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Laveda:True |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by joanana(f): 1:57pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
TEVLI: The woman no contribute for the marriage. Its no longer his marriage, it is our marriage and wedding. Anyway God will see him. Through this though times. All is well bro |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by nonjebose(m): 1:58pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
I believe many ladies are at one level of financial independence or the other. They should be given credit for that. Some are into some form of biz, while others are salary earners in both private and public work place |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by joanana(f): 2:01pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Laveda: When he has used the provision for the wedding nko? Abeg leave that thing some ladies are not considerate their concern is the wedding not.marriage. To have a flamboyant wedding forgetting that there's life after wedding. Wedding is a day while marriage is forever 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by solidman59(m): 2:07pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Rapmoney:Good morning bro 2 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by UIA04(f): 2:09pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Rapmoney: Coincidentally my mum just told me of an uncle who gave his WIFE to be instructions to resign her teaching job as he waNted a full housewife, they've been married almost 40 yrs We even have a neighbour with same example |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Aystarz: 2:09pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
joanana:Finally a girl on the thread with sense! 8 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Agimor(m): 2:10pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Benita27:Having a degree doesn't really count these days as one in every family is a graduate. What really count is the delivery. 2 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by solidman59(m): 2:11pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Laveda:Your last line is true but it already states the obvious. The op has already acknowledged that fact. what he's trying to say is that ladies should also show some initiative, bring something to the table too 3 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by safarigirl(f): 2:12pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Rapmoney: this your topic get as e be. I have a lot to say on it based in real life happenings. The beauty about life is, most of these things we say online are error-filled, when you get to that point in life to test your theory, you'll realize that talk is cheap and fantasy is different from reality. Me sef no dey do relationship advice again, you don marry? wetin you sabi? 8 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Nobody: 2:12pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Is it wise for women to have visible assets like houses, etc |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Diplomaticbeing(m): 2:14pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
There's nothing wrong with a lady who's unavoidably financial dependent talking about marriage/going into marriage - so long as her partner is financially able. Inadequacy of money doesn't automatically make a lady (person) visionless or lazy. In fact, if left with an option to choose between a greedy/covetous lady (who's buoyant and at the zenith of her career) and a visionless/lazy lady I would sure go for the latter. So far so good, I like a lady who's ambitious but not greedy/covetous/lazy/visionless one. Perspective not immediate financial status is what defines one's exeptionality or lack of it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Laveda(f): 2:16pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Goldenheart: Broke fella spotted. |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by dahmie2013: 2:19pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Dis is d best thing I have read in 2016. Op, dis is SPOT ON! 1 Like |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Nobody: 2:20pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Laveda:see yo ugly face, no go find work 9 Likes
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Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by UIA04(f): 2:20pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
safarigirl: True |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by delishpot: 2:20pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
TEVLI: So you believe the wife made him broke and not the projects they are undertaking as a new family drained the money? Abeg, list the things your uncle bought for his wife that got him broke. Since he gives her his pay check every month end leaving him with nothing and she is just sitting there draining your uncles purse. Its people like you that would marry and have kids and refuse to take care of their needs because you wantbto maintain your bachelorhood fantasy of having all your money to yourself. News flash, raising a new family costs money, raising kids, costs money, living as a couple, costs money, a man can not be married and have all his money to himself. 2 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by mediocre(m): 2:24pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
ikp120:Fixed |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by UIA04(f): 2:26pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
B4bestbrain:Before marriage? |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Nobody: 2:27pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
solidman59: I was listening to the radio some months ago . The author of the yellow sun ,that lady ,can't recall her name said something during this interview : Nigerian male children are brought up to believe that you are not a man if you can't spend money or have money to provide for a woman ... Well , a lot of us if not all of us have this mindset . If you accept to bear all financial responsibility during dating ,your partner will feel that you should continue this responsibility solely for the rest of your life . On a date some women will ask what's our budget can we splurge ? Some wetin concern them order away . Others will offer to pay part of the bill .... If you do not talk about your financial ideologies before marriage ...it could create problems . Anyway we men to are partly to blame to ... For this . There's nothing wrong in being materialistic as far as you are willing to work and acquire these objects ...its when you sit down @ home and demand that your partner give you these things ,without wanting to at least play your part that issues will manifest ... 4 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by InvertedHammer: 2:36pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Laveda:/ I can provide opportunities. Does that count? \ |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by no1madman(m): 2:38pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Laveda:And vice versa! |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Laveda(f): 2:39pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
InvertedHammer: What kind of opportunities? |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by HMZi: 2:39pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Marriage like most good things in life comes with its own special thorns that brings on discomfort but its a wonderful institution.The financially independent ladies don't lack vision,the simply want to feel whole, and fulfill a desire....Its more or less a thing of desire rather than vision Merry Christmas |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Debra911(f): 2:43pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
I really love this topic, let's be factual. From Adam, a man s meant to provide for the wife, cos it not easy; the wife carries his baby for 9months, go through rigorous task in giving birth to the child, trains this child to make sure, he/she doesn't go astray cos wat this child becomes in future will be traced to the family background, thesame wife must take care of husband, do the house chores... All these are enough reasons for the hubby to take care of the wife, that's why sometimes, Islam don't support their girls to go through western education, according to them, they are meant for the home , all these are logically true but today, 21st century, everything has changed, the economy is no more favourable, wat if the breadwinner(hubby) dies along the line? what if the breadwinner lose his job due to the economy meltdown? it'll be more difficult for the wife to raise her poor kids, because of these reasons, women are forced to take up the challenge of being a mother and also a breadwinner at the same time. women are called to be independent, to be strong cos they've got to take up two challenges I.e being a mother & at the same time to be financially independent, inorder to become a helpmate to her spouse in d 'rainy days. Any lady who s not ready to take up these challenge can not survive in the real world. 2 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by no1madman(m): 2:44pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
These r d reasons y we always say African women dey more expensive to maintain than oyibo. . . |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Iceeydee: 2:45pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Laveda:This is not an issue. No guy goes into marriage when he's not ready to cater for his family. Isn't that even the reason why most guys marry late? Why are you trying to raise a point that doesn't even exist? Except of course the provision you're referring to is different from the normal basic needs a man is responsible for. 2 Likes |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by no1madman(m): 2:48pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Debra911:On point! |
Re: Financially Dependent Ladies Who Talk About Marriage Lack Vision by Iceeydee: 2:50pm On Dec 24, 2016 |
Raine80:So true, So sad. |
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