ednut1:
marriage aka poverty allievation program for some gals. dunno y dem dey rush. immediately afta grad na marriage no job hunt or skill acquisition. by d time they are 30 frustration sets in. assets don depreciate, oga dey look outside and they keep enduring shit. as oga knows ur a liability smh

at least dem get oga. D ones wen get skill wen get job wen no de gree hia word for house, you fit marry dem? Na job and skill go keep her warm at night. What is use of pursuing what society no send you. With all your money no respect by society cos you can't perform your basic function. Get a man to keep the human race going. Instead you de poshu Wetin no lost. Who send dem career

kretoz:
I don't know why we ladies are still deceiving ourselves, Initially, I was of the idea that Men must provide everything for their family, Not until I came across a write up on Nairaland that says Anyone above 15 should be working, The next day, I woke up from bed and started my job hunt, I got one very close to where we live and my salary then was 8k monthly lol, You need to see the way My parents laughed at me whenever I'm on my way to work, In fact, they was a day my Mum sat me down to tell me that I was disgracing her by doing such job, The truth is that I'm not from a wealthy family but we are comfortable to an extent, however I didn't give up, I decided to engage in other jobs such as home lesson for those that want it and that was how I started making 18k monthly, I later resigned when I got admission and wrote my final exams last month and when I got home, I find difficult staying at home doing nothing, I decided to go job hunting again, I got a job of with salary more than five times higher than my first salary. I got it with out my certificate, just O Level, Why did I share this story, I want ladies to know that the era of "Oriaku "has gone, this is the era of "Osodozie aku" Husband and wife will both bring and arrange their finances together . I find it difficult to stay at home all day that was why I decided to work in the first place despite the fact that my parents provides all my needs, You need to see how my Mum was hailing me when I got this my recent job, telling me that she is proud of me, She said that no man wants a liability and that If Husband and wife both contribute to the table, the family can never starve, And that is why I want to tell ladies that are dependent to please look for a job, try and establish your self and believe me it's only a lady that is working that knows the value of money, if not, the lady will want to eat everything she sees on the road and will always complain her husband does not give her much even if she was given 100k monthly for house up keep, please ladies learn to work educated or not, get something doing if not sweetie you are in for a long bumpy ride

Gbam

UIA04:

Before marriage?

Yes.
House and plots of land.

Merry Xmas!

Rapmoney:
So you mean a man will marry a lady who is a medical doctor or one who is into exportation of some commodities even before marriage and force her to sit at home? I don't think that's possible. Read the post again. I'm talking about the status of the woman even before marriage; she needs to be engaged and productive even before marriage.

100 percent possible. I have seen a case of a medical Dr.

B4bestbrain:


Yes.
House and plots of land.

Merry Xmas!

Merry Christmas

Why Not

UIA04:


Merry Christmas

Why Not

Thé thing is fearful somehow.
Is It not an overload on one's head?

B4bestbrain:




Thé thing is fearful somehow.
Is It not an overload on one's head?

Who's?
Husband or wife

UIA04:


Who's?
Husband or wife

D man naah.

B4bestbrain:




D man naah.

No its a blessing

UIA04:


No its a blessing

Which Blessing?
If i want to sée Blessing, i go to their Clinic. She is a nurse. By thé way, she's called 'anti ble'

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Same to you

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