lol-no my above answer was the correct one!!!

Either way your welcome to the nuthouse . This place is all jokes and laughs and should cheer you up

I havent been eating very well since it happened-i just have an appetite but cant find the will to do anything about it.

its understandable but you need your strength for your kids Maybe some soup?

i will eat something-i had weetabix for breakfast and a couple of yoghurts for lunch.

There are no guarantees in love. Today is bliss tomorrow who knows. focus on your kids and take time off dating to evaluate all what happened so that you can learn from your mistakes

It is well, your appetite will come back in due time. Just think of your kids and how much they really need you to be strong for them

its weird i just laughed at the children in need show thats on BBC(its Children in need day in the UK-raising money for children)-and i thought-wow i laughed, How much of a complete stupid cow am i-its not like someones died-but i just keep crying on and off-since last weekend-i went to an appointment with my sons headteacher and i just burst out crying!!!what an idiot

Girl its understandable you will be alright, time is a great healer _{I know its easier said than done}

BoredAtWor:

sounds like you may have a hygiene problem.
Guys dont normally complain about things like this, it tends to be the ladies. The face that he mentioned it means there is a big problem.
YOu need to sort yourself out.

I concur!!

Different people can't put up with different things.
If I were in his shoes, I'D be pissed over such repetitive little bad habits.

Sorry about being dumped. Like some1 said . . . .It shall pass.

he didnt give off the impression it was a life or death problem-had i had known i could have either changed or been aware so it wasnt such a surprise.it was said with a smile on his face-i didnt no.
I was with an abusive man for about 9 years-apart from the abuse he also had horrible habits and if i mentioned them for himto rectify them he did nothing to make it better.Had he have said-oh sorry-and e.g-put the toilet seat down-i wouldnt have minded.
If ever the guy that just dumped me commented on anything-i would rectify it,

just get it out of your head and feel it's one of those things that sometimes come and go, feeling ur pain

I hear that engaging in outdoor exercises help *i have not been dia so i am not so useful to you right now*

Im not trying to rude here, but let me give it out the way i see it


When will you whites get it into your skull that 99.9% of the nigerian men do not really date you cos they want you but because they wanna use you or get something from you

for goodness sake you lot should have learnt lessons from eachother, everyday a white woman is being dumped by a nigeiran man, still you refuse to learn, why do their dciks keep bringing you lot back

honestly

michelin89:

You can't be good and date a Nigerian man. You must be baad!

Being nice,loving and a "non-heartbreaker" has nothing to do with nationality.


@Poster work on yourself,concentrate on your family(children),pray,do not isolate yourself,make new friends(be careful as u can b vulnerable right now).since u bliv he isnt coming back,get a new life.be you be free.enjoy life as a single mother for a while,mix up.I will send you an e-book later.Be good.Takia

is it the father of your kids that dumped you or your boy or man friend?

This thread is hilarious.

no hes not the father of my kids-that ended 6 years ago.

WHY IS A GROWN WOMAN ON NAIRALAND? SERVES U RIGHT!!!

NOW, go and screw the 1st guy u see, u need ur self esteem back, why do ya need a man, PATHETIC old bizatch!!!!

he sent me an email yesterday -something my kids might like, i just replied a basic message regarding the email-nothing to do with him and i.
this afternoon he called me.its weird, i had a feeling hed call me and we were chatting for about an hour about random shit and getting on like we normally would do-cos we do get on well.
at the end of the conversation he said-well (my name) i just called to hear your voice and to check if your ok-i'll call you some other time,
i said take care-bye.
in my mind i'm thinking what could he mean by that-but-i dont want to be analysing everything he says when he calls me, i think its not going to do me any good having these conversations with him.

I had a friend like you am not sure if she still in the relationship though. Good luck !

oh my goodness-is there an age limit to this forum?
i dont think being personal against me is necessary,

uhhhhhmmmm, YES MA"AM, the age limit is 30yrs and under, NOW GO BACK AND ATTEND TO UR KIDS,,

THANK YOU!!!!

my kids are asleep thanks for asking.
when i see proof of any reason i should not be allowed on this forum i will willingly leave-

gingeranny:

my kids are asleep thanks for asking.
when i see proof of any reason i should not be allowed on this forum i will willingly leave-

@Madam. Do I know you somewhere. Yes or No. Just curious that all.

do you know me?we are both from the united kingdom so who knows!!!!!!

DEJI & GINGERNANNY - i dey see 2 of u oh, ASHAWO no get part 2, lol, carry go

tryna be sleek with that whack line "do i kno u from somewhere",

hope its not disrespectful but i didnt understand the last post-i dont think i know you though!!

well, Good luck and stay strong.

Don't mind riversman you are free to use the thread. Many on the thread are older than 30. Sistawoman should be over 40 and she is good.
As to your broken=heartedness, give it time. Concentrate your affection on your kids. You will find happiness with them.
Cheers.

@ Alxmyr - na who invite ur dirty mouth inside conversation, hiss!!!