whitelexi:

Why not?? When person no fit wash him abunna, wey everywhere go dey smell like fish wey mud, which kind person go gree enter for there??

Secretz:

See your mouth. Granted the lady has some habits she needs to errr, fix. However, the guy does sound a bit too much.

jay bee:

u don reach here?

Secretz:

See your  mouth. Granted the lady has some habits she needs to errr, fix. However, the guy does sound a bit too much.

whitelexi:

well, sorry to dash anything, but some people no dey like that kind thing. . . Na thing wey go happen only once, but e go just disorganize and demoralize and totally discourage person. . . e go just lose interest for anything wey concern u.

I dey try create mental picture, say my babe enter house, see small chicken for table - e no wash hand, e just start to chop the thing. . . Then when him finish the chopping, e no go wash hand, na to wipe hand for him jeans My whole body go don dey tell me say time don reach to fast forward to another levels sharply!!

Secretz:

ROFLMAO!! I understand you wella.

adolfe bad:

I perfectly undastand d guy's mind frame n i must tell u he wil neva have u back~
wat u need now is a good CRY
somtimes u nid 2 cry hard 2 PURGE your SOUL n move on to d next stage in life

gingeranny: he has ways of doing things that he says are as important as breathing-well they were my words which he agreed with.
if i sat on his bed i would occassionally forget and put my slippers on there, i kept a tissue i'd used next to me before i put it in the bin-what else-i forgot to wash my hands once when i came in from outside and ate,i wiped my hands on my trousers-i dont know why-after i ate.
what made it worse-and this is quite personal i had an all over shower but didnt wash myself in, a place, because i didnt have a flannel which i would normally use.its not like i never wash-i am a very clean person but for some reason i cant really answer i didnt-this freaked him out and he said he cant trust that i ever properly wash myself-or words to that afffect.
if hes with someone and they are going to be close to him he has to know that he can be free around them and he doesnt feel that way anymore.he no longer feels safe around me.
he said his sexual desire for me has decreased and it may come back but he doesnt know but i can keep in touch with him
in the last day i stayed after this happened he couldnt sleep because he said he cant get the thoughts out of his head-that my hygeine is low-and he has regularly been "close" to me-he wouldnt kiss me or even really touch me-it made me feel like a leper and it hurt so much.
he is one of those people that -well you cant change his mind-and i wish he would but i dont think he will.
On the way back-what made it worse was i had bought him a keyring and i couldnt get the other part as it was never in the shop-the first bit he had-i walked past the shop and ironically they had the 2nd part of the keyring there.i feel so bad.

gingeranny:
he has ways of doing things that he says are as important as breathing-well they were my words which he agreed with.
if i sat on his bed i would occassionally forget and put my slippers on there, i kept a tissue i'd used next to me before i put it in the bin-what else-i forgot to wash my hands once when i came in from outside and ate,i wiped my hands on my trousers-i dont know why-after i ate.
what made it worse-and this is quite personal i had an all over shower but didnt wash myself in, a place, because i didnt have a flannel which i would normally use.its not like i never wash-i am a very clean person but for some reason i cant really answer i didnt-this freaked him out and he said he cant trust that i ever properly wash myself-or words to that afffect.
if hes with someone and they are going to be close to him he has to know that he can be free around them and he doesnt feel that way anymore.he no longer feels safe around me.
he said his sexual desire for me has decreased and it may come back but he doesnt know but i can keep in touch with him
in the last day i stayed after this happened he couldnt sleep because he said he cant get the thoughts out of his head-that my hygeine is low-and he has regularly been "close" to me-he wouldnt kiss me or even really touch me-it made me feel like a leper and it hurt so much.
he is one of those people that -well you cant change his mind-and i wish he would but i dont think he will.
On the way back-what made it worse was i had bought him a keyring and i couldnt get the other part as it was never in the shop-the first bit he had-i walked past the shop and ironically they had the 2nd part of the keyring there.i feel so bad.

BoredAtWor:


sounds like you may have a hygiene problem.

gingeranny:
I said yesterday to him-well i text him to say i would improve the way i do things-we can keep in touch and maybe meet up and see how things go.
All he said was-just keep in touch.
This is the same man who used to send me the most lovely messages-couldnt get enough of me up until Sunday-he used to compliment me all the time.

whitelexi:


Why not?? When person no fit wash him abunna, wey everywhere go dey smell like fish wey mud, which kind person go gree enter for there??

whitelexi:


well, sorry to dash anything, but some people no dey like that kind thing. . . Na thing wey go happen only once, but e go just disorganize and demoralize and totally discourage person. . .  e go just lose interest for anything wey concern u.

I dey try create mental picture, say my babe enter house, see small chicken for table - e no wash hand, e just start to chop the thing. . .  Then when him finish the chopping, e no go wash hand, na to wipe hand for him jeans  My whole body go don dey tell me say time don reach to fast forward to another levels sharply!!

gingeranny:
he has ways of doing things that he says are as important as breathing-well they were my words which he agreed with.
if i sat on his bed i would occassionally forget and put my slippers on there, i kept a tissue i'd used next to me before i put it in the bin-what else-i forgot to wash my hands once when i came in from outside and ate,i wiped my hands on my trousers-i dont know why-after i ate.
what made it worse-and this is quite personal i had an all over shower but didnt wash myself in, a place, because i didnt have a flannel which i would normally use.its not like i never wash-i am a very clean person but for some reason i cant really answer i didnt-this freaked him out and he said he cant trust that i ever properly wash myself-or words to that afffect.
if hes with someone and they are going to be close to him he has to know that he can be free around them and he doesnt feel that way anymore.he no longer feels safe around me.
he said his sexual desire for me has decreased and it may come back but he doesnt know but i can keep in touch with him
in the last day i stayed after this happened he couldnt sleep because he said he cant get the thoughts out of his head-that my hygeine is low-and he has regularly been "close" to me-he wouldnt kiss me or even really touch me-it made me feel like a leper and it hurt so much.
he is one of those people that -well you cant change his mind-and i wish he would but i dont think he will.
On the way back-what made it worse was i had bought him a keyring and i couldnt get the other part as it was never in the shop-the first bit he had-i walked past the shop and ironically they had the 2nd part of the keyring there.i feel so bad.