nwabuking5:

my brother full depth i toth am talking with a senceble girl self i dont know that the girl no get sence self. she said she wan give her house boy paint to wash for her. i dont know how i wested all my time talking with this kind of girl self. while every body in japan here is enjoying there sleep is 5.24am here. am talking to an senceless girl like this who dont want to chenge. let me go to sleep. please do urself a favor and go and rest because that girl still de far.

nwabuking5:

any thing man can do u can do as well. go and clamb parm tree and cut something from the top of it

TheSeeker:

If you can take off your woman's undies, lick her pusssy, what's wrong with washing her undies? Point one.

If you eat from the same plate she washes, eat the same food she serves with them and drink from the same cup she washes, matter of fact, use the cutleries, what's wrong with you washing them just for fun? Point two.

There are lots of ways to gain respect in your relationship and declining to do certain things doesn't make you vulnerably stupid. I understand why some guys might feel restrained from doing these things: because most times, men who do this back in Nigeria are called names, fools, stupid and weak - but that's long gone with the wind now.

The way you present your woman, the way you treat her, the way you make her feel all the time, dictates how she sees you and respects you. If you don't act right, she won't bother rather, she might just elope with a new man that treats her good or makes her see every reason not to be with you.

Washing dishes or undies for your woman doesn't make you lose your respect, it only shows a lot of other things about you which includes: caring, carefree, free, kind, helpful and a lot more - it doesn't - in my opinion - by any means make you stupid. In a relationship, there are lots of stupid things we do that makes the respect and regard in our relationship burn out fast, and doing chores isn't exactly one of them.

If you ask me, yes, I will wash dishes for my wife. . . . and if I have to wash her undies, yes, I will. . . but when she crosses my path, believe me, she'll have the most stubborn man in the world to deal with.

cantell:

@platinumnk,
Climb down from that your high horse cos you're going nowhere. If you continue like this, you'll end up a single mother. Its just a matter of time. No offense meant of course. Just a simple truth.

cantell:

@The Seeker,
Na for that your side you hear? No be for here. I no say you go fit suck sh*it out of your wife nyansh but we wey dey for naija get our ways of doing things.

TheSeeker:

This isn't a matter of the way things are done in Nigeria. Are you seriously trying to tell me that people don't do that in Nigeria? That Nigeria isn't exposed enough to see this as a new wave to treating women equally? It all comes down to one thing - appreciation. Some will appreciate it and some won't and it should lie in your discretion to find that woman who will appreciate you in every way even when you're being stupid and arrogantly unreasonable.

When you say you love someone, it means you're ready to do just about anything. It means going the extra mile that her male friend will never venture going into. What do you think will happen to you, if she - for instance - goes on a trip and she falls ill that she can't wash and all of a sudden her male friend was there to wash for her, you think she might object to that? No, I don't think so.

In as much as women want to claim they're old and matured, they still want to be treated with care and kindness like a 5-year old child. They want someone who will be there to help them even when they can do whatever themselves, and that's how a relationship should be. Look at it this way, if you can't do these things for her, what makes you different from her male friends? Sex? Then that shows how imbalanced your relationship is or can ever be. Think about that.

Now, one final statement (and no disrespect please): if you come in one day to find your dad washing dishes for your mom, would you by any chance think your dad is stupid or will you smile and wish that someday you treat your wife that way, especially if you see the blooming smile on your mom's face?

full depth:

Me?? do the dishes with u??
what kind of stupid love is that one??   Imagine her telling me that i have to do the dishes wif her??

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@gabry, I will only when she's away on a journey or sunthin as such,
but, if she's home or around, forget it !! A woman ought to take care of the home, dontcha gerrit??

ask your man if he really likes what he's doing? im sure u threatened him,

cantell:

@The Seeker,
Bros you're a sweet talker. I pity any babe wey go near you. Chinekem eh. But i still stand by what i know.

cantell:

@The Seeker,
Bros you're a sweet talker. I pity any babe wey go near you. Chinekem eh. But i still stand by what i know.

platinumnk:

keep on sliding backwards while i run towards men like theseeker

cantell:

@The Seeker,
Bros you're a sweet talker. I pity any babe wey go near you. Chinekem eh. But i still stand by what i know.

Gabry:

it shows that you dont know TheSeeker at all. . . He is far more better than that. I know him too well and whichevr lady whom ends up with him is a lucky girl 

na2day?:

so u mean, any girl that ends up with me is lucky?

stillwater:

Bush thread.

stillwater:

Bush thread.

sexyLeamon:

theseeker, thank you very much you have answered it all. let me just add mine.@poster, there is absolutely no reason why a man can't help out with washing dishes or housework in general. If he lives there, eats, makes a mess, needs clean dishes, he should be able to pitch in and help when needed. As we know modern times keep us racing around like rats in a maze and it's difficult to find enough hours in a day to do everything. Now, wouldn't it be wonderful if you helped your partner out and then it would give both of you a chance to sit down, actually get to communicate and get more closer.