soberdrunk:
My brother you need to wake up ooo!!! This is 2017!!! Women have become more adventurous sexually, infact i think "congratulations" is in order because you found a woman that helps herself and not one that jumps up and down "seeking help", at least now when you are out of town you can have rest of mind that if the feelings" come she will help herself and not "seek help". Abeg where is the wedding location and "gulder" go dey?

TonyeBarcanista:
If your partner doesn't sexually satisfy you, please do tell him so that he can improve on his bedroom performance.

Cheating on him whether through another guy, object or emotional cheating is irresponsible, betrayal and a slap on his person except he permit it.

Our sisters should stop complicating our already complicated lives.

OP I know how you feel, but please take the most sane decision.

If I were you, I'd have...

cummando:

Tonye sense bar.....100%
But them go hear?

soberdrunk:
My brother you need to wake up ooo!!! This is 2017!!! Women have become more adventurous sexually, infact i think "congratulations" is in order because you found a woman that helps herself and not one that jumps up and down "seeking help", at least now when you are out of town you can have rest of mind that if the feelings" come she will help herself and not "seek help". Abeg where is the wedding location and "gulder" go dey?

myfantasies:
Maybe you are not satisfying her in bed

TonyeBarcanista:
And is that justification?

What kind of society is this? What stops her from telling him that she's dissatisfied with his bedroom performance and help him improve? If a girl that I plan to end up with try this stunt with me...

God help the brothers

myfantasies:


Nd do you know if she has talked to him about it but it's still d same old thing?

TonyeBarcanista:
Are you the girl that told him or a witness when she was saying it?

My Dear, there is NO justification and can never be.

The guy may likely call it off (which is a welcome development).

myfantasies:

Well whatever floats dere boat

Damitism:
You want to call off your wedding because of intimacy gadget?!! OP is just seeking attention. You created two topics between 7:43pm and 7:51pm. The other thread is https://www.nairaland.com/3642588/im-ready-act-nu.de-given

soberdrunk:
My brother you need to wake up ooo!!! This is 2017!!! Women have become more adventurous sexually, infact i think "congratulations" is in order because you found a woman that helps herself and not one that jumps up and down "seeking help", at least now when you are out of town you can have rest of mind that if the feelings" come she will help herself and not "seek help". Abeg where is the wedding location and "gulder" go dey?

TonyeBarcanista:
Help herself by bruising him? What she simply mean is that he wasn't good/man enough in the other room.
No man/brother will ever be cool EXCEPT for a few.

soberdrunk:
My brother you need to wake up ooo!!! This is 2017!!! Women have become more adventurous sexually, infact i think "congratulations" is in order because you found a woman that helps herself and not one that jumps up and down "seeking help", at least now when you are out of town you can have rest of mind that if the feelings" come she will help herself and not "seek help". Abeg where is the wedding location and "gulder" go dey?

SweetWJ:
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And i guess u dont know what she might do after marriage when the man is away. It might be houseboy, gatekeeper or driver. She needs deliverance.

soberdrunk:



My brother 'female sexual satisfaction" has "absolutely" nothing to do with "man enough", knowing how to satisfy your woman sexually is not something you learn overnight, it takes time, patience, practise and commitment, the young lady might just be using the tools as a temporary measure till he can provide her with her required level of sexual satisfaction.......

soberdrunk:



My brother 'female sexual satisfaction" has "absolutely" nothing to do with "man enough", knowing how to satisfy your woman sexually is not something you learn overnight, it takes time, patience, practise and commitment, the young lady might just be using the tools as a temporary measure till he can provide her with her required level of sexual satisfaction.......