Ishilove:

Sowee

EmperorLee:


. After you don spoil my market for American wonder woman side

Ishilove:
Control freaks are not limited to ethnicity. It is a function of temperament.

If you think Yoruba men are controlling then you haven't met Urhobo men. They are control freaks!

Gosh, I just can't deal abeg. Nothing like a control freak to bring out the worse in me

BLeshea:
EmpereLee lol sorry taken by the controll freak

Ishilove:

My dear Optional, see me see wahala o. He doesn't know me that's why he thinks he can talk to me anyhow. Dem never born the man wey go physically or verbally abuse me.

Imagine him telling me I am not up to the women he has dated in the past? Why? Because I never build house.

Na so I see red o! My dada scatter. I had to restrain myself so as not to go nuclear on him.

Kai, Urhobo men ehn

BLeshea:
Yes, he keeps telling me about manners... I will try, But manners beside.. Are Yoruba men always controlling like this? Maybe it's just his personality and has nothing to do with where he's from. Idk just confused.

Omoluabi16:
ishilove no be lie. urhobo men are domineering, very traditional and so lazy.

BLeshea:
Is he a boy... We're both 27 you be the judge.

EmperorLee:



Honestly, I didn't read your story buh all i can say is that you should dumb his sorry ass.




And Marry me

Ishilove:

It is his personality. There are really sweet Yoruba men out there, although promiscuity is deeply ingrained in their DNA.

temitemi1:
smh

Sanchez01:
Someone opens a thread to share her experience and everyone has made it an Urhobo affair. Never knew we were this popular

EmperorLee:


That kind of guy is only with you for a reason, am sure there's something he wants from you. Think about it.


Buh me, I just want you to be mine for now and always. I want to show you real love like you have never seen before. A trial will do more than convince you. Your call


Sheybi ur head no wan correct for you ni. Na the advice wey you dey find, na hin you go get. Radarada.

Aderola15:

Kwantinu, don't stop ooooo

optional1:




you better leave her.....

na here we go dey wen she go come dey cry say dey don scatter....

EmperorLee:

Oloriebi o ba ku, ko kan grandfather mii menh.

Omoluabi16:
ishilove no be lie. urhobo men are domineering, very traditional and so lazy.

optional1:




abeg meaning jor?

Sanchez01:

Here's the thing, he truly loves you but his upbringing does not necessarily exhibit Titanic. He believes the only way to show these things is by doing the things he does.

Unfortunately, you don't really know him. A handful of Nigerian men don't enjoy their ladies looking too extravagant or extremely noticeable. I guess this explains the witch part. He does not really know how to convey his thoughts, and you don't really understand the Nigerian way. We spend two hours asking our ladies the same question every day - 'have you eaten?' If he wants you to talk to his mum everytime, then he means business with you.

His approach is a bit crude but fear is also a factor. He fears you might leave him.

EmperorLee:


Worri... Worrido
Someone cannot play withu ?

EmperorLee:


Chaii na exam you wan gimi so jaare.

E just simply mean say e no concern me if the guy brutalise or dump her

Ishilove:

Na lie jor. He is over-possessive and controlling

BLeshea:
EmpereLee lol sorry taken by the controll freak

BLeshea:
Okay, first off, I'm an American women. & I know my culture is in some ways very different, some ways not so much... Like dating, same thing I believe everywhere. My issue is why doesn't he want me to wear make up, leave the house without telling him where I'm going, why is he always checking my phone, and when he introduces me to his family here I always have to stay close to him?? I have to talk on the phone to his mother every time he calls her even though his mother doesn't speak English well so we say the same things. (Not that I have a problem with his mother, she is a wonderful woman) It's like he's scared I'm going to run away.. He also keeps telling me I'm a white woman, in which I'm biracial so it gets on my nerves, because here I'm considered African American, but he doesn't care. When I tell him about himself he just tries to throw in my face about all these women that want him. Then he gets mad when I tell him to call them and tell them I personally said they can all fucking have him. I guess I should be concerned about him leaving but, I could really care less, besides every time I try to leave he gets all emotional and begs me to just marry him... I don't get it!!! I love him but, I'm not the one to just beg a man to stay or not to have relations with other women.. I don't care if he does, but I tell him if I find out I will drop all his shit off wherever he is and they can deal with his controlling ass! I just don't understand why he thinks he can do whatever he wants and I'm just suppose to go to work and stay home. I can't wear makeup around others because he says I'm already pretty and he doesn't want others to get any ideas about me, whatever that means. Oh and when I wear makeup anyways he calls me a witch. Wtf is that about?? Should I stay with this man and marry him or will it only get worse? So confused.