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Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Blackfire(m): 3:41pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
Kaysalas: wickedly enough telling me he is the best of all creation... huh. I will take Nikki minaj over him anyday. 1 Like |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by BraniacX(m): 3:43pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
Kaysalas: You can read and write yet he calls you illiterate! bwahahahaha! Typical quota system beneficiary! 1 Like |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by nkwuocha: 3:48pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
. What a thread!! |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Emanodimo(m): 4:33pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
Religion & their culture needs to be check. I don't think feminist or political power can wipe out that which has no room for reason. 1 Like |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by tmgold007(f): 5:14pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
[quote author=nextprince post=54357118] See points. More amusing is even the English/Pidgin and spellings. [/quotel] Lolzz understanding matter most...as far as you get my points...leave the matter for mathayas |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by nextprince: 5:15pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
[quote author=tmgold007 post=54361744][/quote] Sharrap, go and learn English and 1 Like
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Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by tmgold007(f): 5:34pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
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Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by tmgold007(f): 5:35pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
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Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by nextprince: 5:37pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
[quote author=tmgold007 post=54362249][/quote] Small afonja, is that what you have been reduced to? So, you are scared of writing even in Pidgin now? Eyahhh. 1 Like
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Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by nextprince: 5:38pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
[quote author=tmgold007 post=54362297][/quote] Small afonja dey fear to write again. 1 Like
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Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by tmgold007(f): 5:42pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
nextprince:Have told you am not here to argue with you...have made my point you can keep barking...i dont have time for basket full of rotten mangos |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by nextprince: 5:57pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
tmgold007: Hehehe, the small Afonja is gathering some courage with the usual Iya Basira English. Small Afonja, go and learn English and stop embarrassing your fellow Afonjas. 1 Like
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Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Kaysalas(m): 10:03pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
^^^^ so you still get mouth to dey talk for this thread! So u sabi pick fight with some people RUN leave others! Now you leave substance and you are chasing shadow. Shame on you! Keep insulting your so called small afonja friend it doesn't change the fact that you are the ignorant one here. You lot think we are baselessly insulting mohamed, we are actually saying all we have said based on facts. Your prophet is a murderer and paedophile per excellence. Deal with it. Hope you don't loose sleep tonight. With love cheers 1 Like |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by ephi123(f): 11:38pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
This thread has been on my mind all day. Very sad, and so unfair to all the young girls who with no voice or choice of their own have been subject to this evil act. |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 11:49pm On Mar 07, 2017 |
The parents who attended the wedding and saw the girl visibly shaken are sick! The man who married her is also sick; ditto his cousin. Land of mentally sick people. |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by 9jakool: 1:12am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Ehhh another one, I thought underage marriage was illegal in Nigeria. Today they marry children old enough to be their grandchildren, tomorrow they kidnap a teenager, force her to convert and then hide behind the walls of their kings. BTW, this is one of Boko Haram best known practices just saying. This is no surprise because some of their politicians and beloved emirs practice the same thing. Many so call authoritative figures who don't live by example. There should be one legal system for every Nigerian. I often wonder why the illiteracy figure is so high in the country. Here you have it, the source of illiteracy and many of the problems that plague Nigeria. Child marriage means a child is forced out of school. The parents of the child usually will sell out their child to an older man with the highest bidding price. The child may not even know that her destiny is already determined or she's getting married until the day of the wedding. While the child sobs on her wedding day, her family and the family of the groom wipe her tears, assuring her that she will eventually learn to love the man. Keep in mind that the child would already have gone through FGM before getting married to ensure that she is "pure" for her husband. Child marriage is why many of these girls (*ahhhem children) develop fistula, since they cannot physically carry a baby in their womb (I wonder why). Complications develop from childbirth can be severe and result in reduction of the bladder or stillbirth. There are cases where some of these children are trapped in labour for a week because the pelvis could not expand enough for the baby to come through. The complications that develop from childbirth causes holes in their organs meaning that some of them cannot control their urine or even feces. So how does society see these children? Well, witches or cursed or something. Ironically these girls are cast aside by their family and ostracize by the same society that forced them to get marry in the first place. 23 states have taken steps to ban child marriage, but somehow 13 Northern states haven't. The rate of child marriage is 76% in NW so while this one case garner a lot of attention, the issue is more prevalent. There are too many religious fanatics who are so ignorant. Don't make religious or cultural arguments to support this inhumanity. Cultural practices change and evolve, simple! This is why infanticide is seen as a crime in today's society, but it was practiced by some communities back in the days. As for the religious argument, must you marry and destroy the future of a child before you can please your God. Education can get you anywhere, even space is not the limit. Lack of education will only get you garri and groundnuts (extreme poverty). |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Nobody: 5:13am On Mar 08, 2017 |
BraniacX: Good for you. Unfortunately the same cant be said of your brothers all around the world. |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 10:46am On Mar 08, 2017 |
italo: He never had sex with her at 9 I don't even know where you heard that lie |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 10:48am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Nigayoyo: Oooookkkkkayyy if that's how you feel about God then fine |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 10:50am On Mar 08, 2017 |
BraniacX: If you want to insult someone's religion go and do it behind closed doors not I front of the whole world because you would be starting a war |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 11:03am On Mar 08, 2017 |
tmgold007: First of all bokoharam are not real muslims they claim that they are but they are not even the prophet Muhammad (SAW) stayed peacefully with Christians so that one is not relevant Secondly as I said again those who beat the corper to coma claim they are muslims but they are not so again not relevant Thirdly what are talking about corruption? Do you even know what you are saying, hmm don't even start with that topic As for the 7 year old girl it's not our fault that the guy is old school And how sure are you that those who killed the 70 year old woman are muslims and even if they were it's not like all muslims are saints just like not all christians are saints So please tell me again how 90% of muslims are evil 1 Like |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 11:05am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Kaysalas: Look what I am trying to say is One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago. Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history. Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those ‘girls’ infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly. |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 11:05am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Kaysalas:Hmmmmm please enlighten me why |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 11:06am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Kaysalas: I am not innocent I am just trying to tell you One must first understand that 1400 years ago was very different than now, times have changed and so have humans. 1400 years ago it was something very common to marry young girls, in fact they were not considered young girls, and rather they were considered young women back then. It is a historic fact that girls from the ages of 9 to 14 were being married in Europe, Asia, and Africa, in fact even in the United States girls at the age of 10 were also being married just more than a century ago. Yet with these facts no historian claims that all these people were sick perverts, historians would call anyone who made such a claim to be arrogant and very stupid who has no grasp or understanding of history. Even in Indo-Pak Sub-Continent girls used to be married at 12-13 even 50-60 years ago. And those ‘girls’ infact raised much better families. There were less family problems then. A simple analyses of the divorce rate then and know would certainly make it clear that maturity level earlier used to be different i.e. people used to come of age rather quickly. |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Thatgirl457: 11:10am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Kaysalas: I am not innocent I am stating the facts you guys don't understand our religion you have never even taken the time to read the Quran you just believe what the haters say about Islam or you just go to some unreliable website where a person post false accusations about Islam |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Kaysalas(m): 11:13am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Thatgirl457:Indeed u r very ignorant. U av typed this lame argument here like 4-5 times. Can't you think of any other thing to write. Stop making silly excuses pls, so because murder and robbery had always been the norm, therefore that makes it right abi? Mohammed did all these, u had better started taking him for who he really was: murderer, rapist, thief, liar, conman e.t.c Note: I am not insulting him just saying the truth about him. Go figure |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Kaysalas(m): 11:17am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Thatgirl457:see y I called u innocently ignorant? Mohmed actually did. Go read your hadiths or just use google |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Kaysalas(m): 11:21am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Thatgirl457:My dear! All we have said abt Mohammed aren't false, he actually did all those things. Read your hadiths and Quran very well. As a matter of matter of fact, p.m me and I will send some materials to u on this issue. Open your eyes, you were born into a LIE , Now is the time to break free from it. |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by phillsayo(m): 11:41am On Mar 08, 2017 |
Yesterday, when I saw the picture of a little girl being married off to one man in the North, I became weak. I looked again to see if it were animals that attended the wedding. When I discovered they were humans, I became weaker. Then I began to imagine a lot of things. That night, the man will place the girl on the bed and order her to perform some things on him or he performs some things on her. The girl would cry and he would either pet her or order her to keep quiet and do her marital obligation in peace, that soon she will get used to it or perhaps begin to enjoy it in 7 years time. And the next morning, to atone his conscience (if he has any), he will put the girl-wife in school so that he gives her pencil by day and penis by night, education by day and ejaculation by night. Let me assume those things do not happen, that the marriage was only to book the girl down for future purpose. You take away the childhood of the girl-child and entangle her with a man she has no definite affection, you emburden her with the psyche of a wife. This troubles me, I hope it troubles everybody. Paedophile! You validate your debauchery with religion or customs? Paedophile! You eye that girl that comes to play with your daughter, so that when nobody is around, you tell her to pull your beards so that soon, she will begin to pull something else. Paedophile! When you hear the voice of that little girl that passes your street, your ears stretch like that of a rabbit, your eyes bulge like a owl and you begin to scheme. Are paedophiles not meant to be in the bush together with beasts of their kind? Ogashub: |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by BraniacX(m): 5:08pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Thatgirl457: A war? Between me and you? Hell yeah! Bring it on, i choose my crib as the battlefield On a serious note......... I as a christian find it absurd that a muslim will declare their prophet Muhammed as holy and insist i comply with that assessment of theirs or risk a war! I will take a war over peace on exclusively your terms so screw any muslim that says if i don't accept muhammed's holiness they'll do me in! To them i say bring it on!!! |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by Nobody: 5:10pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
BraniacX: Oyyyy! Your god too was a ped.ophile was he not? Your holy ghost was a pe.dophile was he not? Joseph too was a p.edophile. |
Re: Northern Man Marries An Underaged Girl (Photos) by BraniacX(m): 5:11pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Ersan: How's the stench from your festering cesspit? Of course, that'll be heaven to you seeing as you're a maggot! Enjoy yourself |
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