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My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by igwegeorgiano(m): 6:12pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Fellow NLs how we dey. hope we all had a swell time at our respective places of work/bussinesses? so sorry to bother you with my relationship issues i just need advice that will calm down my nerves right now before i will rashly take decisions i may regret later I just got a phone call from my babe asking for my permission to allow her hang out with another guy. she made me to understand that the said guy has been a very good friend back in their uni days but no string attached. furthermore, she said that the guy came to her office to take her home after the day's work. Friends what do you think? am a jealous perso but not possessive. my babe and the guy have actually fixed their outing for sunday. am really feeling upset right now because am seeing the intruder as a threat to my relationship. pls i need your candid advice on how to handle this unfolding ugly scenerio. thanks |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by pasqal09: 6:22pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by professorfal: 6:24pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
There is this Yoruba saying "once debe always debe" anyways, from your story it doesn't look like she asked for permission but informing you she has a date she can't turn down because the dude was a good friend. dude just say no you won't be fine with it even if you say you would. 15 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 6:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Tell her to go And then You know what to do , the fact she came to ask, means she must think ur a Be wise my brother be wise .... his dropping her home ( shows intentions) can't she go home herself Anyway like u stated they already booked d day meaning she never needed ur approval in the first place .. ...... 24 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by MJBOLT: 6:30pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
should we fry beans |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by ikp120(m): 6:30pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Why not? Ask her for permission to hang out with a very sexy girl in ya hood. If she doesn't agree with yours, then don't agree with hers either. #BumperToBumper #ShiitForShiit 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 6:32pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
So sumbori cannor hang out with friends again because she's in a relationship... 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by 7footre(m): 6:35pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
She's already fixed a date and you say she is asking permission? She is only informing you bro and if you are not down with it, nows the time to put your foot down 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by McBrooklyn(m): 6:35pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by onegig(m): 6:37pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
igwegeorgiano: Why do ladies always do this? Always seem like plausible deniability. Trying to make you give authorisation to something they know can be a bit discomforting. Maybe there are still trustworthy girls out there, but once a lady starts making such requests, there's more than meets the eye and when you consider the era where we are in where youths have loose values and morals. "Friends" of opposite sexes might mean different things and much more especially when those friendship are not clearly defined or are friendship that started because one of them tried to woo the other and due to time or circumstances got friendzoned. Tell her she should do what she feels right. I would advise you to tell her she's an adult and should be able to make decisions based on what she feels is right and not to put you on the spot as regards things. No man would be comfortable having a non-relative opposite sex "friend" around their partner especially when this so called friend is not someone you have met, know and approve of. She knows she's walking into unchartered territory but needs "your validation". This is one part of ladies i can never understand. Feels like i was ranting ...whew.. 14 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Pchikaodili(m): 6:39pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Mayb she is testing ur level of jelousy ...we call it SHIT test, reply her as a good-bad guy your reply will be "No problem, u can go, but i will also invite one girl to keep me company that sunday" watch her reaction 15 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 6:40pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Bumbae1:Ive been in his shoes.. with my ex. Lets just say that was the beginning of the end 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by ghost3040: 6:44pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
lets wait for the elders...Abortionss,lefulefu,queensuccumbus,...et al..ur attention is needed ASAP |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 6:44pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY:Leave him His waiting for to ask him to bleep d guy too |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Splinz(m): 6:47pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
igwegeorgiano: Threats of this kind can only stems from low-self esteem. Yes, it is when you begin to feel that the said intruder is a better person than you, that you can perceive him as a threat. So what...? Simple. Let them go on with their outing. You gotta keep your head high. You're better than your perceived enemy! You're the boss! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Justbeingreal(m): 6:54pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Sombori will just use e own hands to invite heartaches men relationship is stressful been single now after my breakup n biliv me my mind cooleeee Shuuu Some ladies ehn which kind nonsense permission be this, if u do same how would she feel |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:01pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
igwegeorgiano: A thr-ee--so-me date will be fun ,join them and spice it up |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by deparagon(m): 7:08pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
A Girl Friend that wants to hang out with another niqqa, is that one a Girl Friend To me dat'll b a very big slap to ma face, only mayb u both r nt in a crious rlatnshp. my opinion tho. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
The comments on this thread show what a perverted generation we are. Why can't 2 friends hang out and catch up? The fact that she considered your feelings by letting you know of her whereabouts shows she has respect for you. This is a case of low self-esteem on the part of the op. Or a guilty consious on your part op because you are a cheater and expect the same treatment. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Davidgrey: 7:11pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1:I see! |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by SmellingAnus(m): 7:26pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by firstking01(m): 7:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
igwegeorgiano:Call her and tell her to councel the date or berra still let her chose between you and him, else, start counting your days with her after the date. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Davidgrey: 7:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1:It would be immature of him to tell her not to go(she would go either way) He should allow her go but.......He should choose the time that the outing will end(this way he is exhibiting subtle jealousy and manliness) He should not call her during her "platonic date" (let her enjoy your trust) She told him which signifies the fact that she respects him I don't see anything wrong with that. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Cutehector(m): 7:31pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1:please keep quiet.. Will u allow ur boyfriend to hangout with a girl prettier Dan u? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:35pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Davidgrey: Everything was going so well until you said that he has to tell her when to be home! |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:37pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Cutehector:The question isn't for me but YES |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:38pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Cutehector: I don't allow or disallow an adult to do what they want. It's natural that I would have feelings of insecurity but I'd share those feelings and he would reassure me and we'd get past it. That's what adults do. But what would a broke lil boy like you know about adult affairs? |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Cutehector(m): 7:39pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Aderola15:why u dey lie like this.. Ok what if they flirt with each oda .. And Smth happens.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Cutehector(m): 7:40pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
LeView1:broke lil boys like me still have what it takes to bed rich big girls like you.. 7 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Is Asking For Permission To Hang Out With Another Man by Nobody: 7:42pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Davidgrey: Where have you been all my life? 1 Like 1 Share
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