Before you decide to fall in love there are some boxes you must tick .

E.g where does this person live

tobianthony:
Before you decide to fall in love there are some boxes you must tick .

E.g where does this person live

looool

in the abroad looool

Talk2Bella:


loool

skata ke

yes o.
you no see d negative review you give long distance due to your own lack of judgement.

Liar, me and girl friend stay very far from each other and we are always together, we talk not less than six time aday and we change too. I ve paid the pride price very soon wedding will follow.
Those girls that are sexually active can never survive long distance relationship.
My 2kobo.

Talk2Bella:



looool

in the abroad looool

Truth is we like to fantasize and not keep it real with our selves .

All these relationship issues could be avoided if we are all honest with ourselves on day one .

But then again the truth is staring at you but love won't let you see it .

I would never advice anyone to be in a long distance relationship . Not even for cheating reasons . That's normal nah .

Would you quit your job and relocate over there just like that . Or would the person come back to you where ever you are ?

Anything you wouldn't do in business try not to do in your relationship ...easier said than done right .

Me before I decide to fall in love I will tick the boxes .

For those of us saying use your head not your heart which figurative organ tells you to stay and not leave your relationship ? It ain't that easy for some .

I've learnt to be honest from day one it could save you some resources .

@ talk 2bella ....like I always say we go look all these things and laugh one day .

Talk2Bella:


my longest relationship was long distance for two years at the end of the day he couldn't come back so I moved on

couldnt come back, they arrest am for lybia?

Kenshinmunac:

couldnt come back, they arrest am for lybia?

hahahahahaha

pillan:
Honestly, I'm beginning to think it's a waste of time..from experience

nice DP

It's not a waste of time for me

Talk2Bella:


hahahahahaha

I have someone I really like a lot but she's in first year and am about to graduate. I wanna do the long distance thing but the stories I have heard around are crazy. I don't think there's anyone like her, she's the physical manifestation of all I have hoped and prayed for.

tensazangetsu20:

I have someone I really like a lot but she's in first year and am about to graduate. I wanna do the long distance thing but the stories I have heard around are crazy. I don't think there's anyone like her, she's the physical manifestation of all I have hoped and prayed for.

then go ahead

as long as she's in the country and u can wake up any day to go see her

Talk2Bella:


then go ahead

as long as she's in the country and u can wake up any day to go see her

Not in the same country o. I school in Ghana and am seriously hunting for a job here so we can be together but it's not been fruitful, if it doesn't work out I will have to come back to Nigeria and she will be here and my profession is something that will take me away from home. I have even tried volunteering but haven't had any luck.

tensazangetsu20:

Not in the same country o. I school in Ghana and am seriously hunting for a job here so we can be together but it's not been fruitful, if it doesn't work out I will have to come back to Nigeria and she will be here and my profession is something that will take me away from home. I have even tried volunteering but haven't had any luck.

I wish you luck with your job hunt

the key to a distance relationship is steady communication trust endurance and patience and constant visitation

Ghana to Nigeria is workable so fear not lool

If my babe dey stay mainland for Lagos and I dey stay Island, shey na long distance relationship be that na? I dey ask

Honestly speaking it very hard I understand what you said it extremely hard,sometimes I fear it but at the same time,
Since you don’t have the benefit of in-person
time together, daily communication is a
must. Whether you prefer text messages, IMs,
emails, telephone calls, or video chatting,
keeping in touch is the most important thing
you can do in a long-distance relationship.
There are even smartphone apps that allow
long-distance couples to share photos, videos,
send voice messages, and more. And don’t
forget good old snail mail! A cute handwritten
letter or small unexpected gift goes a long
way to making your LD partner feel loved and
appreciated. Just be sure to agree on what
forms of communication you’ll use most. If
you hate phone calls and your partner prefers
to chat that way, you may set yourself up for
disagreements if you don’t work it out ahead
of time.hmm


Keep the Lines of Communication Open
In addition to keeping in touch, be sure to
foster an open and honest dialogue with your
partner. It’s tempting to not bring up things
that are bothering you to avoid confrontation
—especially in a LDR, when you really want to
enjoy every bit of time you have with each
other (online or IRL). However, it’s especially
important for long-distance couples to
discuss any issues they may have. It’s easy to
misinterpret an email or text or get annoyed
if you feel your needs aren’t being met.
Working on keeping the lines of
communication open is a must in order to
keep your long-distance relationship in good
shape. It’s better to discuss a small problem
now than to let it turn into a big issue down
the line.

u r beautiful bella