worworgirl:
Op , your are too obsessed with this your wife that you keep posting her pictures all over your NL . I thought Indian wives are conservative and shy away from infidelity

that's what their movies tell you.if you take out time to read the all those actor's and actress's personal life you will be amazed

Peachbloom:
So because your wife is talking freely with her father in law, she's sleeping with him! Jesus!! OP you need to take care of your insecurities before you really use it to ruin your happiness.

Stop imagining things and trust your wife! Myself and my father in law talks easily like I relate to my own father, so why can't she.

Deal with your insecurities!

Insecurities my foot....so because urs is perfect means he shouldnt be concerned about his?.....any man who isnt ready to imagine the worst in a marriage is no man....

@op....if u suspect something go for it nd stop being a sissy...there is a 50/50 percent chance......just challenge her verbally as kaffytope has said nd her countenance would giv her away if guilty nd if not apologise....but know this even if she has the intent in the future who knows?...she already knows u have ur suspicions.....

boss1310:
that's what their movies tell you.if you take out time to read the all those actor's and actress's personal life you will be amazed

As in.....i was surprised when a friend told me indians act porn......i had to google search...nd alas there it was

worworgirl:
Asians in general are not good at Speaking and writing in English....Indians dey try sef, Koreans worse

Koreans wey no fit speak na hin go com write...dose ones worse die

worworgirl:
Asians in general are not good at Speaking and writing in English....Indians dey try sef, Koreans worse

Koreans wey no fit speak na hin go com write...dose ones worse die

asksteve:
Op, do u trust d woman u call ur wife at all?
U jus rubbished her n ur father.to d entire world. Has she or ur father done anything to deserve dis?
How have u lived with her 4 5yrs with this level of insecurity?
If u r looking for a reason to divorce her say so n stop casting aspersions at her.

I wish ur father was younger n sees this post, i 'm sure he'll b proud of d idiot he has for a son.

As in ehen. He actually just rubbished them and embarrassed himself. Some idiot too are saying its okay for him to think that way and suspect his wife. As in. Some people's mental state needs to be re examined. If him wan divorce, he should do so honorably.

So i can be free that nothing is going to happen in between them ?

I know i might irrate some people by posting this,but this is my true story,but believe me its true story..i trust both of them but at the same time worried too,my english may be wrong but my story is true believe me..i need advice..what percentage are chances they might end up doing sex...in my absence...is.it possible..given my father is a widower..and i spend my 12 hours in office.and she is with him for all day

Jeffboi:
English sha. ( R I P )



Bro since your mother is died 3yrs ago and your wife does not wanted your father to stay with you guys but later changed her mind, am sure she must have put her self in that old man condition, she will be like........one day I will get old too

Na indian guy
Their english de murder

edimolu:

Koreans wey no fit speak na hin go com write...dose ones worse die

The ones wey know english for korea, the accent the funny die
If u watch the man called god u go sabi wetin i mean

Op- I don't understand you. You wanted your wife to be nice to your dad. She accepted, obviously made an effort, from being distant to being nicer to your dad probably because she has come to know him better as an easy going man. Yet here you are, with your very dirty imagination running wild. What do you truly want?

Guy, just stop the obsession pls.

There's no way in hell your father, who's still mourning your mom's "expiration" by the way, will start sleeping with your wife just like that

stop posting their pics all over the net, you never can tell who might be seeing this. besides, in these day of google face-searches etc, you may not be so anonymous after all

and stop asking dumb pained questions all over the place too.

The real concerns however may be:

Your wife: was she loose before? is she the sleep-around type?

Your dad: was he a randy goat (because being a ladies man does not even come close to pouncin on relatives anyway)i.e. does he lack moral boundaries? does he drink? is he emotionally stable etc or the type who could just do anything under the influence of a drink, depressed/excited mood etc and start regretting later?

Yourself; What atmosphere did you set in your home? what standards did you set for yourself, your wife and what vision of your joint futures together have you infused her with? How does she see you? Are you caring, romantic, attentive or are you the tongue-tied emotionally-repressed type? How have you been handling issues? Are you mature enough for her to see you as both her husband, guide, mentor, team-leader and friend? (because am sure, you must've brought her to Nigeria via marrying her)?

Like someone said above, make arrangements to secure a better alternative arrangement for your dad.

Listen more to your wife. Really Care for her as a person. And stop distrusting your wife to the point of this your demented obsession.

Just stop before you hurt the only families you have here.

N.B
I wouldn't even have typed a dot for you considering you guys socio-cultural idiosyncracies, your "lording" over your ladies, aggression&crime against women records and your recent unfounded xenophobic bvllshyt attacks against Africans in your countries despite being our resident parasites of many decades here who even live better than indigenes...

but...just so that you don't go and do something silly to hurt that woman or ur dad so we don't go all Indonesia on ur ar.ss; this na Naija, you harm that ur wifey, we most certainly are gonna kill ur ar.ss, so get your head check and fly straight!

M i doubting them unneccesarily

amar3664:
M i doubting them unneccesarily

it all left in your hands to play! if you think your wife is cheating on you then you definitely cheating on her! U can jokingly ask her what her and your pop c been planning !

you can just ask her "Has papa been doing well ever since he came , you know i have not been around" with a cheeky smile.

if she changes her face or try to make it a quarrel - then you are right about it !

or you can ask her "if papa is trying to force her to get a male child" just to initiate that convo of what they been talking about.

finally, stop assuming ..

Whenever i ask her about the conversations she haid with my father,then she tries to change the topic and says talk was normal

amar3664:
Whenever i ask her about the conversations she haid with my father,then she tries to change the topic and says talk was normal

try ask her indirectly . twist the question !

Once i asked her,that u must take care of father,then she told ok...whenever i ask that what conversation takes place between she and him,then she says conversation is normal,and wife wife some times becomes angry on me and says that,dont u trust me ?while i m in house she spends 40%of her time with father and remaining time with me

What behavioural changes she will show if she has sex with my father ,,what kind of behavior it will be ?which of my actions will lead my wife to go closer to him

amar3664:
I stay with my wife and and my daughter,my wife is 28 yrs old,my daughtet is 2 yrs old and i am 35 years old,we had been married for 5 years,i work in a private company..now from last 10 days my father has comefrom village to stay with us for 4 months as he is here for a medical treatment..earlier my wife used to talk less with my father,but from last 2-3 days i see change in her ,and she talks more with father,what it was before 7 days,my father is 55 years old and is a widower..i feel jealous now?as my mother is died 3 years ago,so when my father was about to come here 10 days ago,my wife does not wanted my father to stay with us,but because of family and social obligations shr agreed with me to allow father in house..esrlier she used to talk very less with father,but now i see she talks more with father,what she used to talk before 7 days,i have always asked my wife to respect and take care of my father as she is daughter in law,and also because my mother is no more...what are chances my wife end up doing sex with my father in my absence,what % are chances of sex betwen them,my wife is beautiful and sexy..hereby i attach my wife pic..

op ibu ewu Gambia. Av u ever caught ur dad cheating on ur mum bf she passed away ? So why will u think such a thing ? Don't come and spread ur dirty linen here plss. Do this for us ( nairalanders) either u send ur father away or ur dad . Does anyone agree with me?

So if ur mother inlaw were to be there u would av had sexual intercourse with her ?

What behavioural changes will be ,if she cheats on me with father in law