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Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by KevinMATTHEW346(m): 8:44am On May 07, 2017 |
Conclusion is women should work hard to be independent,
not look for men to depend on..and also stop acting desperate. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Mujtahida: 8:46am On May 07, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1:We are naturally pagans-dynamic, natural, wild, good and bad but religion tries to put us into an artificial straitjacket and imposes a fake garment of goodness on us. Religious people suffer so much in their inner life and that again makes for a poisonous and toxic atmosphere in marriage. The man who can be naturally good beyond the commands and dictates of a dead code written in a book is the man who is truly good. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by humilitypays(m): 8:47am On May 07, 2017 |
This lady did not even make any meaningful point as regards why most good girls marry late or don't marry at all. The reasons why good girls marry late or don't find suitable partner are: 1. They pretend a lot 2. They form hard-to-get a lot for genuine guys and fall easily for Church boys who are not ready to marry 3. They don't go out; and when they go out, they are too boring, too cold, too rigid and too shy to even flirt or listen to a guy asking them out 4. When good girls finally meet a genuine guy, they stress him so much before they say yes to him and before they visit him, in the process, the guy looses interest and one bad girl takes over 5. When it comes to sexual fantasies, good girls are too rigid and shy to fulfill their man's sexual fantasies (every man have wild sex fantasies; including religious men, some fantasize about 3some not cos they are bad but because they are men!) 6. Good girls are not usually lively....in trying to abide by their family religious doctrines, they dress dull, talk dull, act dull, have poor communication skill, poor knowledge of what's happening in the world and hardly contribute interesting things during discussions with their partner, this bore many men and make them see the girl as dull and not fit for a wife. 7. Good girls fantasize a lot about perfect marriage as they watch on TV and read on novels but will never make move or adjustment to bring such to reality, they keep waiting for God to mold one perfect man and send to their Church or School or wherever they wish to meet him, while bad girls are free, mingle and when they meet a man, they bring the man's fantasies to reality, why won't the man marry her 8. Good girls most times are not successful in their career due to their slow nature of wanting everything to be perfect while bad girls succeed in their career and chosen field due to the fact that they have mastered how the world operates and they know how to use their feminine power (not necessarily by sleeping around) to get whatever they want from men in power, politics, career management, etc while good girls keep waiting for when an angel will send the perfect job, perfect business, perfect connection....bad girls go for the job, biz, etc and men of today love successful women, so men end up marrying the bad girls who are usually successful in their career or business! 9. Good girls don't usually look HOT! Because they believe looking hot and sexy will make them bad girls! Bad girls know how to dress and keep themself looking hot and sexy! And what attract men first to a woman is "good looks"! No matter how good your character is, you need to look attractive to attract a man first before he can see your good girl character! WARNING TO LADIES: Forming hard-to-get is no longer in vogue, you better throwaway that old mentality, this is 2017! If you meet a guy u like, don't stress him...make it easy for him but yes don't be too available aways, but whenever u are available for him, make it memorable that he will keep fantasizing being with you! Only broke guys and playboys with plenty other side chicks can wait for you for too long while u are playing hard-to-get just to ensure they get u to massage their ego not because he really wants u o. Don't be deceived...hard-to-get has reign and gone! No financially buoyant guy will keep chasing u for months or years unless your father na Buhari or Tinubu and co lol 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 8:50am On May 07, 2017 |
Realist2:that's not even the issue cos this days aunty A tend to be more careful with her health because she knows her type of business but aunty B will be doing the good girl thing and be trusting her boo not knowing that her boo may be another person's boo thus there maybe high rate of STD in the case of A than B.but that's not my ish.. the reverse might also be the case. we just pray and hope for the best |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 8:54am On May 07, 2017 |
dominique: The "Norm" is being addressed by posters here, not the "Exception". |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 8:58am On May 07, 2017 |
Kingsleytobe: It's a cosmic law! You attract what/who you truly are. Exceptions to this rule of nature are very rare and when they exist, of you take time to really investigate the issue, you'd discover the rule holds true. Ever wondered why those knuckleheaded actresses are always been beaten up by their monster husbands? 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by rakabuba001(m): 9:00am On May 07, 2017 |
MissCuppy: Just imagine this mentality..that was how a lady disgraced one Corp member after approaching her like a gentleman...the girl come dey para Like say she be him LGI...ma guy just waka jeje shaking his head. Even the ladies felt bad for him. I just pray that lady learn her lessons the easy way. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 9:00am On May 07, 2017 |
djkall: Thumbs Up! |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by neutrotoba(m): 9:02am On May 07, 2017 |
auntysimbiat: That girl on your profile pic ehn.... Make i no talk |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 9:05am On May 07, 2017 |
Joavid: The issue is not about getting married BUT "staying happily married". It hardly if ever, works with the Aunty A gal scenario. The question females should be asking is what kind of married life they want. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nackzy: 9:21am On May 07, 2017 |
Aunty A is a prostitute in simple terms... If u exhibit Aunty As attribute ur a prostitute...Aunty B may God bless you n ur unborn daughters cos they will Never be like Aunty A...... Aunty A is a hub of STDs..... Mary ..Amaka.... Ann... Ofonime...ehiz... Favour..... Gift..... Amarachi...... If ur against this write up.....its obvious ur Aunty A |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 9:31am On May 07, 2017 |
judgedredd22: Thank you, good morning happy Sunday |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 9:37am On May 07, 2017 |
sekxy: Don't believe she implied that. There's no gain in that (though females never realise that...maybe they think the money they make in the process is gain...) |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Kei144(m): 9:39am On May 07, 2017 |
eezeribe: That is a lie. Good and pretty girls marry first. Good and ugly girls may marry last because beauty is the first thing that attract men before goodness. As for other aspects of life, even including marriage, the spiritual problems or enhancements that a person has plays very vital role. I write from personal experience. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 9:40am On May 07, 2017 |
donJ2: Nah, Bro. The girl comment vex me ehn. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 9:49am On May 07, 2017 |
mykel25:. Here is wisdom. Let he that hath wisdom, listen to what the spirit is saying to the churches. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by mzkissabella(f): 9:55am On May 07, 2017 |
Archangels2: Hear, hear... We don't have to conform simply cuz society is trying to make a norm of a wrong orientation. I'm down to trying new things and/or getting freaky with my husband if that's what he desires buh I don't have to be that way with every tom, dick and harry just to garner experience in advance. 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 9:55am On May 07, 2017 |
4C2215131:didn't say there's gain in it bro.as a matter of fact.I don't even care..I still believe in good riddance. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 9:58am On May 07, 2017 |
sekxy: Good riddance? Good riddance of what? Don't understand what you meant by that statement. Could you please break it down. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 10:00am On May 07, 2017 |
4C2215131:check ya dictionary. .... |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by 4C2215131: 10:03am On May 07, 2017 |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 10:04am On May 07, 2017 |
4C2215131:warever |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by loswhite(m): 10:08am On May 07, 2017 |
Safiaa:the problem with the Internet is that everybody is an expert |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by loswhite(m): 10:09am On May 07, 2017 |
MissCuppy:same applies to a lady |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by elampiro(m): 10:13am On May 07, 2017 |
Safiaa:Truly nonsense. What she said doesn’t make sense to me. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by mamachizzy(f): 10:35am On May 07, 2017 |
koning:I did not say she is 100% right. be u a man or a woman, u should never ever be always available. though u are dating, u are still individuals, u got things going on for ur self as an individual. ur job ur career. so there are times when u are just not available. besides no man in his tight senses will want a lady who will just stay home, cook, clean and Bleep in this economy |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by jellea(m): 10:36am On May 07, 2017 |
The truth is girls are yet to understand that men don't really need them apart from sex. As a man, I know I don't like disturbance nor drama. This is what girls don't understand. If you see a good guy worried about a girl, then know that the girl offer him something more important than sex. Again, a guy that likes helping people; pity type, are the next in line to worry about a girl. Not because of love, but because they care.To be sincere 99% of girls act the same way. the remaining 1% is different because of their family background. There are so many things girls don't know about men. Im not saying we don't love. but God knw what he did by making us sex slaves. If not, guys won't be talking to girls. Bt that's beauty of nature though. If a girl wants to tie a man down, he should offer him something he can't get elsewhere lastly girls think men( real men) likes wen they stay over in there place.. its a huge expenses and trouble. but they will not understand. They always conclude that you are seeing other girls. That's my opinion. I have seen many girls and im very convinced that they are 100% cause of their problems. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by solomix10(m): 10:43am On May 07, 2017 |
its not all about getting married
Its all about staying married |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 10:51am On May 07, 2017 |
henryhemon:You sound so pained, you life is pathetic. |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Nobody: 11:05am On May 07, 2017 |
iamadonis2: You are just like me bro. Am busy working on my live to have time for any nonsense attention seeking lady. I have only 2 people I chat on WhatsApp. My girl and my close guy friend. Finish! 1 Like |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Bigsteveg(m): 11:08am On May 07, 2017 |
PapiSmith:You nailed it |
Re: 'Why Good Girls Don't Marry First' - Nigerian Lady Explains by Bigsteveg(m): 11:12am On May 07, 2017 |
MissCuppy:I think it depends on the guy, if a girl doesn't give me attention I walk out immediately. Even if I meet a lady and I call her, if her response is not welcoming I'll sharply let her go. Study the guy u are dealing with because we are different . What works fo Mr A might be a piss off for Mr B |
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