IF LOVE KNOWS NO TRIBE, Y THE NEED TO CHANGE THE WOMAN NAME INTO AISHA OR AMINA ETC?

IS SHE UR CHILD OR ARE U HER PARENT?

THE WHOLE PURPOSE OF MARRIAGE IS TO COME TOGETHER AND HAVE KIDS AND POSSIBLY STAY TOGETHER TO RAISE THE NEXT GENERATION.

IT IS NOT A MECHANISM FOR CONVERSION OF RELIGION OR TRIBE.

MY SISTERS SHINE UR EYES AND BE VIGILANT OF THE INTENTION OF THE MAN.

MAKE SURE HE HIS NOT SEEING MARRIAGE AS A TOOL FOR CONVERSION.

^^^ has lost it

Bumbae1:
^^^ has lost it

See the way ur eyes just dey shine, like say na morning.

letsbepieces:

See the way ur eyes just dey shine, like say na morning.

Lol no be morning its 12:50 AM
Witches are up

Do we have Dating/Relationship platform here on Nairaland where mature man + lady can meet for serious courtship

Bumbae1:

Lol no be morning its 12:50 AM
Witches are up

no make me run leave this thread O!
i too sabi run, after i find trouble finish.

In this matter we should all seek God, coz he is
the founder of marriage and he knows the suitable partner for us. Howbeit man has erred and resulted into choosing for himself, thus, bringing a lot of problem we encounter in marriages and breakups. This isn't God design for marriages.

My 1cent advice is that we all seek God leading in this matter...

Also, let us stop promoting sex before marriage or any form of uncleanness before marriage...

Marriage is sweet, lovely, enjoyable when it is pure.
Marriage is honourable in all and the bed undefiled, whoremonger and adylterers , God will judge (Heb 13:3)

Don't be in a haste to have sex with her as this can influence your decision making and reformat ur perception of her. And because u are emotionally connected, u'll be emotionally blindfolded to observe some little things abt her u should have observed during courtship.

I have three points to make.

1. For those of us who have best friends. Its understanding that has kept you guys going that long and not love. Love creates the bond, Understanding make it last for ever.

2. Health compatibility was skipped. Even if you love her to the mercury, dont bring in a kid to suffer a short life span because you refused to do the needful. Love with your head + heart.

3. Sexual compatibility: For this reason, i find the OP's post incomplete. How can you talk about marriage and not talk about the No.1 thing that has broken so many home? If you aint sexually compatible with your partner, forget it. The person with the higher libido would cheat with time.

In all God first and every other thing follows. All the best.

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Is not the matter of size how urgly or beautiful you are is matter of moral and mannerism ladies pls go borrow sense cos you are the one who brought all the to us in Nigeria all this frivority to us in Nigeria

the only point i'll agree with the OP is number 2. The best is to seek the face of God (not your pastor oh) because its God that creates a man's wife from the rib of of the man (Genesis chapter 2). if the woman that was created from your ribs dont have the physical qualities you're looking out for? one may end up with the wrong woman, that's why we see failed marriages all over the places. Ask God to reveal your life partner because he knows better than you

Love is blind. So you can list out so many things that we need to consider. But when it comes to that time, all that things didnt mean anything
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fav444:
May God give us our heart desire...

let try, maybe

Bumbae1:
Number 2 make sense

hmmm, women

walesalak:
well said. choosing a life partner isn't an easy something especially with fake life ppl live wth this days... God help us in discerning d right person. .

Spot on. May God make it easy for us, Amen. People not being sincere and stingy with the truth. @Op thanks for this

Even love is not enough in marriage. It's hard work. Real work

Bumbae1:
Number 2 make sense

Yes, because that is where some lazy and not-ready-to-work ladies' hearts are.

op never even marry
funny

Go marry first!

YEA, THANKS

[b]3. Social Compatibility:
I keep telling my friends that my future wife will be my best friend as soon as we get married. She will be beside me anywhere i go and asides being my confidant, she will be my gossip mate. All these can only be possible if you two are socially compatible.
Imagine telling your partner that Donald Trump, the President of America has
shut his boarders against foreigners and she/he be like, "Has George Bush been changed?”. Social compatibility matters a lot. Person wey never make him own choice see how successful it is, Is here advicing people? Guy leave marriage matters especially counselling to married people.

walesalak:
well said. choosing a life partner isn't an easy something especially with fake life ppl live wth this days... God help us in discerning d right person. .

That is when prayer comes in

This is actually interesting. But what about "good cooking". because as for me I really don't fancy eating outside. So she much be a good cook. Even though I'm a good one, but she must beat my cooking skills o.

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CzarChris:
Guy you are kidding right? Don't let the ankle long skirt wearing, black thread hairdo, ear covering headscarf deceive you. Some of the most promiscuous and talented bedmatic/bedroom dynamics girls I've ever known attend deeper life. I have dated some of them, I know.

Simply put,it is not about the name of the church.

mountainidea:
Go marry first!

Exactly my point. You can't give what you don't have. Kids telling grown men and women about marriage. He no legal and moral right to talk on marriage. He should be condemned for it. He could mislead a whole lot of young people out there especially now that our youths are so gullible. A lot of relationships will crash instantly as a result of this post from an inexperience kid. Youths jump at any theory and apply them these days not knowing who is behind them.

Nice

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They can disguise ,
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chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.