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NaijaBlend:

50 years ago, there were no books, no tutorials, no lectures, tips about marriage yet marriages lasted with love and happiness. Today, we have all sorts of guidelines, tips, tutorials, counselling before and after marriage, yet marriages are crashing like the Nigeria economy under some people!

u gave d perfect answer to d op

I think say na toks or tosyne2much dey write this topic

That no 3 is very essential Mahn, I can't deal with girls that ain't updated.

3. Social Compatibility:
I keep telling my friends that my future wife will be my best friend as soon as we get married. She will be beside me anywhere i go and asides being my confidant, she will be my gossip mate. All these can only be possible if you two are socially compatible.
Imagine telling your partner that Donald Trump, the President of America has
shut his boarders against foreigners and she/he be like, "Has George Bush been changed?”. Social compatibility matters alot.

Imagine telling your partner that Chelsea just scored and this response pops up..."na drogba score?....he is a very good defender"

Habeyy:
To sum up what d op write....its like saying am looking for sexy,religious,buttylicious ,God fearing,educated,nice job,rich family mad ass curve,good accent ,good voice,knows d bible fro head,can twerk ,can speak in tongue ...guys stop fooling ursef,,,quote me if am wrong...dere is nothing like complete package on earth,what d op wrote was d bane of our thought while still an undergraduate ...no single girl will ever have what u wrote,marriage has little or nothing to d with ur write up (ask true christians) will I live my wife that has 95 % good modest and better character because she no get yansh,or because she 's a little bit over my shoulders. ...all this are d trait u look for in a girl fend and not in a wife. ..I pray when u get dere you will know how to cross the river...when it comes to wife issues,...u choose base on ur need more than ur want...peace out

This is the deal.

chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.

U don spoil

Are they good peeps out there?

number5:
Op u forgot one


She must like football

Well, for me anyway..

I cant Imagin me gisting with friends abt football den my wify comes in and is like "who scored the loosing goal"?

Sacluxpaint:
I think say na toks or tosyne2much dey write this topic

No be me write am ooo egbon

Goldenheart:

Number 7 killed it....

where you see number 7... Mbok

Please friends don't ever buy into this lie of the devil that you must taste your wife because marrying her... Dis lie is to make us all a fornicator and people who will never ever want to marry until they have taste every girl on earth... That wat devil turn people into(Womaniser) they never ever get satisfied.... DAT is d spirit... Until died one day and find himself or herself in Hell that when the devil will be fulfill and you will know that you have done yourself a big big Wickedness

Please friends don't ever buy into this lie of the devil that you must taste your wife because marrying her... Dis lie is to make us all a fornicator and people who will never ever want to marry until they have taste every girl on earth... That wat devil turn people into(Womaniser) they never ever get satisfied.... DAT is d spirit... Until they died one day and find himself or herself in Hell that when the devil will be fulfill and you will know that you have done yourself a big big Wickedness

Headlesschicken:
Sexual compability, always taste d product before buying,some ladies do not last in bed,always complaining dt dey r tired,wen yuh just getting started,buh dia fada go gv u long note wen u come for dia hand in marriage, buh dey cnt even stay 4 three rounds smh....

Women who say that are with partners who don't know what they're doing in bed. Instead of saying you're terrible, they'll say they're tired. This can also apply to women.

chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.

Now I'm interested......compatibility is calling.

And both should remember to get an STD/STI test and a blood test.

OP ALL DIS COMPATIBILITY WOULDN'T WORK. HOW DO I NO COS B4 I GOT MARRIED I TRIED IT. N MEN, I NEARLY REGRETTED IT. D SOLUTION ONE HAS WEN LOOKING 4 A LIFE PARTNER, IS TO PRAY. TELL GOD U NEED A WIFE OR HUSBAND. HAVE AN OPEN MIND, U BE SURPRISED D BEAUTIFUL REPLY HE WILL GIVE TO U. MOST TIMES D PERSON GOD BRINGS IS NOT ALWAYS WAT WE EXPECT. BUT GOD ALWAYS BRINGS BIG SURPRISES IN SMALL PACKAGES.

kinibigdeal:
You can only find a good partner in deeper life

Guy you are kidding right? Don't let the ankle long skirt wearing, black thread hairdo, ear covering headscarf deceive you. Some of the most promiscuous and talented bedmatic/bedroom dynamics girls I've ever known attend deeper life. I have dated some of them, I know.

Devil don't want anyone one of us in this 24th century to be a principal(Ruler,Master,Leader, over all things)that why he his releasing easy and sweet lie or deceit DAT sound so sweet and get us to believe it at all cost,so that we can all be a principles breaker because he knew from d beginning that we created to be a principal over all things,now doing everything to A Slave over all things instead of being a principal over all things and at end make sure we all burn in hell with him.. This is d Assignment of d devil on earth over all of us....I beg us all let agree together to give devil d biggest disappointment of his life, so that Jesus(our Heavenly Father can be happy and so that we can all reign with him at last) this is d desire of our father to us

chibabe259:
Working dick should be added.

Few people will understand the importance of this comment. I know of a marriage currently on the brink of ruins courtesy of an inactive dick.

God please i want this girl to be the last bus stop for me .

Trust me when I said that the devil is at war against our destiny, is not those girls doing those things, they devil has possess them to do wat they are doing and you also are taking advantage of the opportunity, so u see we all in deep shit,y cos somebody is on assignment to destroy us and take our inheritance... That the plan of d devil... So are we continue to let this evil prevail over us...let say no and repent of our sin and truly return to Jesus, Holy spirit,God by giving him our whole life,soul and body and making him our lord and he will save us from this wickedness

cr7rooney10:
That no 1gangan

Guy you no well at all,your meme na fire.


Weldone sir


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Trust me when I said that the devil is at war against our destiny, is not those girls doing those things, they devil has possess them to do wat they are doing and you also are taking advantage of the opportunity, so u see we all in deep shit,y cos somebody is on assignment to destroy us and take our inheritance... That the plan of d devil... So are we going to continue to let this evil prevail over us...let say no and repent of our sin and truly return to Jesus, Holy spirit,God by giving him our whole life,soul and body and making him our lord and he will save us from this wickedness

Mehn at this point, na only God hand the ish dey. Plenty chics come & go but I never still find wetin I need. Even parents don dey panic give me.

Family background alone has made it impossible to marry just anyone. Education things, cute sisters n wifies who are very smart n well to do & Yankee based from a-z. I no fit fall hand @all. There's a certain caliber of girl I need. Beautiful, homely and reserved but well exposed, brilliant, resourceful, soccer & a 90's hip-hop lover..but where is she

Funjosh:
Genotype and Blood group very important.

This is the most important rule.


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danchuzzy:
@OP you didn't mention intellectual compatibility...

Very important...I can't compromise this

6. Don't Limit Your possible Choices:
Some people for one silly reason or the other have sworn that that they can never marry outside their tribe, country or race. Thing is we are all human and some of us have our destinies tied outside our tribes,countries and races.
Do away with the eyes of a tribalist or racist when choosing a partner, love is the ultimate and paramount reason.

DONT MIND THE OP, TRIBE, NATION AND CULTURE ARE CENTRAL TO COMPATIBILITY IN EVERY MARRIAGE, UNLESS U WANT TO SACRIFICE YOUR IDENTITY AT THE ALTER OF MARRIAGE. .

IF HE IS MUSLIM, HE WILL CHANGE UR NAME TO AISHA OR FATIMA.

IF NOT, UR NAME MIGHT BE AMAKA BUT UR SON WILL ANSWER KOLAWOLE OR MUSA.

I HOPE UR UNDERSTANDING, BECOS THIS IS THE REALITY, NOT THAT FANTASY HE WROTE.

ifeanyimartins:


only to you and the likes of you

Orisirisi so u dedicate ur first quote to moi
U get time o whalahi u get time

femi4:
you and Money

Have to retire before 30 na must

My next partner must be the mother of my kids and my best friend[color=#000099][/color]