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Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by illusion2: 7:27pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Another reason ,women should learn to zip up ! As my peeps would say - O NI SE RU E MO ! But seriously,few guys (i.e MEN),brag about sleeping with women,what happens like I have found out is that you(guy or babe) tell one VERY CLOSE FRIEND, & swear them to secrecy. They in turn tell JUST ONE VERY,VERY CLOSE FRIEND of theirs & swear them to secrecy. . . .and so it goes ! So you believe ," I only told my really tight friend & s/he promised on thier mother's grave not to tell" . . . but there you go ! I doubt people deliberately kiss & tell (except teenagers of course,where canning may be equivalent to a conquest ) . |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sagamite(m): 7:48pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
ibkaye: Smart girl. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by eldee(m): 7:53pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
@poster Your friend is a demented idiot. For bleep's sake is that what people do in the choirs these days?? S.h.a.g each other and abort babies?? I'm sure she's one of the 'lift u holy hands' people. I've never seen any more justifiable case than this. [b]You judge a man for telling his friends about what he's done when you can't keep your legs shut?? [/b]Ladies are a joke sometimes. Sorry guys . . . excuse my French. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sauron1: 7:57pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
eldee: These ladies have turned our Churches into a shagg[i]i[/i]ng ground. You are more likely to find a LovePeddler in the Church these days than on Allen Avenue.
Buncha hypocrites!!!! |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by eldee(m): 8:06pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
~Sauron~: I know . . . it's these same people that call themselves worship leaders/praise team. They're meant to be examples for people like Ibkaye that go to church every Monday, Tuesday, Friday and Sunday ~Sauron~: I saw four pages of bashing and I decided to read the story. So one chorister sha[i]g[/i]s and eliminates a life, and the badguy is the one that told a friend?? They can't shut their legs but they expect us to cover their secrets for them . . . fuc[i]ki[/i]ng whores. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Nobody: 8:08pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
eldee:Pffffft! |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sauron1: 8:09pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
eldee: MINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She was expecting the dude to cover up the murder of an unborn baby. The same chorister is the one telling us to always follow the Lord's commandments. Tell you what. . . . . We are in a bottle. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by luvbooks(f): 8:16pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite: I just turned 19. If i was sleeping over in my boyfriends house, yeah of course i would tell her just in case there was an emergency or something and she needed to get hold of me. But there are two things involved here . Telling your friends that you are sleeping over, and then there is actively boasting to your friends of the guys you have or haven't slept with. The latter is what I am strongly against. Also, some guys take it too far. They say that they've slept with a girl even though they haven't. And among my friends, everyone knows that they are allowed to keep some things private. Your sexual or non sexual life is your business. But then I'm quite a secretive person so if someone started asking me too many questions, i would just blank them after a while. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by ChiBabe2(f): 8:18pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
ayo84: This much is true, you can never talk about a person and brag about intimate things without the listeners getting curious. They might even want to take on the guy/girl subject by seduction also--to see if the good sex gossip is true. Somebody always has somebody else they trust to tell a secret to! Both guys and girls are guilty in my opinon I just think its the level of respect you have for that person you slept with that determines how much you will spill. Everyone is made of the same flesh, all sinners that are capable of making bad choices. People that go to church or hold positions there are obviously not heaven sent virgin angels. Come on!! |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sagamite(m): 8:20pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
~Sauron~: eldee: Chei, na so? I dey go church next sunday be that. Abeg wey that my fine good boy shirt make I iron am. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by eldee(m): 8:21pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
~Sauron~: Infact, I think I need to visit one of these Nigerian churches. I was wondering why you suddenly got extremely interested in church and 'house fellowship' ibkaye: Weren't you the one inviting me to Prayer Meeting the other day?? Just promise me you won't join the choir |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite:And the vicious cycle continues eldee:I joined already, quit after 2 weeks |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sauron1: 8:26pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
eldee: U don't wanna miss those hugs on Sunday evenings. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by luvbooks(f): 8:29pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
~Sauron~: Especially for new comers . . . " Welcome in the name of the Lord!!!!! " |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sagamite(m): 8:29pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
luvbooks: Thanks for clarifying. At least I can say I never roll with guys at that level of thinking (boasting or lying). My guys are very open about when they are successful and when the girl plainly says no. There is no shame there between us. They say it as it is and "No" that is most likely outcome anyway. What we do is that we sit down, conduct a detailed step by step analysis of why he was unsuccessful. Brainstorm on likely mistakes, develop a root cause analysis map, exchange ideas on previous success in similar types of scenarios, we throw out individual advice, consult some female friends to review and validate points and he goes out to practice what he has learnt armed with new tactics. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sauron1: 8:32pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite: MINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by jaybee3(m): 8:33pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite:all dis cos una wan enter game of jigi jigi? na wa oh. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by luvbooks(f): 8:33pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite: Chai . . . you really broke it down like you were going in for the kill . . . " Armed with new tactics ". Na war ? |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sauron1: 8:34pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
jay bee: This is BUSINESS. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by eldee(m): 8:35pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
ibkaye: Hehehe . . . as long as you didn't go to any rehearsal session, I'm aiite with that. Those guys have turned church into sumn else. ~Sauron~:Is it me or are those choir chics in Lighthouse just hotttt?? And it's almost like they don't know especially with the way they say 'I love you, darling' every second. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sagamite(m): 8:41pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
luvbooks: Na war when some of these guys are going 2 months without o. At that point dem dey hold WMD (Weapon of Mass Destruction). Just pray say no be you dem woo o. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by eldee(m): 8:42pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite: I nominate you to take the role of the manager for the Super Eagles. This is exactly what ladies don't understand. After bringing about ten experiences together, you can begin to form correlations and recurring trends. It's just logic, that's why guys that grow up around loads of brothers and cousins are generally good with ladies. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Favormi(m): 8:43pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
~Sauron~: |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by parislomo(f): 8:46pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
@ poster: Kindly console Miss Gloria to go do restitution instead of the adventure of Inspector Bediako she's embarked on! Fornication and abortion. . . Minister in song. . . On the 'kiss & tell', I don't quite understand that! |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by luvbooks(f): 8:47pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite: I assume you are one of those guys . . . . It cant be me sha. I've learnt my lesson. No more chewing - gum boys . . . a .k. a Uni undergraduates. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sagamite(m): 8:52pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
luvbooks: Me ke? I no get game o. I suffer from Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder (HSDD), so that type thing no they happen for my life. And thanks for thinking I am a Uni undergrad. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by luvbooks(f): 9:03pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite: U no get game abi? Liar!!!!! IF you are not a uni undergrad, what are you then? |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sagamite(m): 9:14pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
luvbooks: Me, I am a bit slow with chics o. What made you think I was undergrad in the first place? |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by luvbooks(f): 9:18pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Sagamite: Lol . . . part of being a student i guess . . . u just automatically assume that everyone else is. Especially if you don't know them from Adam. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by amefi(m): 9:21pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
To me it is not a matter of guys kiss and tell, God used him and maybe you to expose some immorality in your church----choir or praise department. God cannot condone such act as fornication, Heb13:4. God inhabits the praises of His people, you and your supposed guy being sanctuary or altar members, that involve in the worshipping of Almighty God could go into such sex escapades or exploits, besides, you in particular being a minister's daughter, would have played a lot of Achanic roles in your father's ministry, Joshua7:1-26. I would like to tell you that God wanted to bring deliverance upon you and the entire church, hence the outburst of your supposed guy. What you need now is to repent of your sins and probably rededicate yourself to God again if truly you were born again before the act and you will be glad you did (2Chronicles7:13-14). this year is going to be tough, but to the righteous, holy and obedient all round prosperity, mark my words, Deut32:13, Isa1:9,Deut28:1-13, Dan11:32b,, if you need help on spiritual matters contact the Bible, good luck. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by Sagamite(m): 9:28pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
luvbooks: OK, student days are long behind me. Awa naa tin dagba. |
Re: Why Do Some Guys Kiss And Tell by yeswecan(m): 9:29pm On Jan 27, 2010 |
Why do some ladies kiss and tell? |
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