luminouz:

But ur d one in front naw!!!
Me is tryn to helep u with a solution ooo.....

no, thanks

Oyindidi:
no, thanks

Kk babe

herlarho:
talk to her first..............






if she doesn't change...............




talk to her again.................






if she doesn't change again.....................











just bring 1 side chick home and buy sex enhancing drug......................






now f**k the side chick like life no day tomorrow....................








when she hear the moans...........









her brain will reset.................







u will surly thank me later............






am just 15 u may think I can't advise u.........

all dz small boyz... wetin u d do here sef. #icanhearthetrumpet

do you still do the things you do when you were dating to newly weded? these changes didn't happen overnight.
take her to a nice restaurant (rooftop if possible), some place with a romantic setting and talk to her about it. if the talking doesn't work, go see a counsellor first and along the line you both do.

Op, do you chew garlic?

Op its your own sex life that is dead, not her's as you've been cockolded in your own marriage. You have kept your side of the bargain as the gate keeper of relationship (resource provider). But your wife has failed in her duties as the gate keeper of sex and this has created a void. Its the biggest sign that she has lost respect for you and Now there has to be consequences as your needs must be met either moral or amoral.


The best solution is to get two or three side chicks and start having the fun of your life. Forget your wife for now. Cohabitation is the biggest killer of passion. When she regains her senses, you bang her with the tenacity of a hungry bulldog but she must be made to work for with.

Lastly, you must never fail to keep two or more in the kitt as a man with options is a man without needs. All those telling you to negotiate desire by talking to her are dumb as a box of rock. No one talks you into acts on a primal level.

feelgoodInc:
OP if you have the patience read this and solve your problems

https://illimitablemen.com/2016/01/15/tuition-from-tragedy-bens-story/?_e_pi_=7%2CPAGE_ID10%2C1084542396

and I'm not even up to 30

Thanks for sharing.
The write up has just re-wired my thought processes on relationship

Oyindidi:
I'm here to learn. Having similar problem. Not even the least urge. I'm more like a guy

Sis you mean he doesn't have the urge or you don't have the urge

Talk to her.

She's depriving you of your conjugal rights as her husband.

Then draw up a timetable.
3 times a week, but it's negotiable 2-3 times a week.

It may not be the most romantic gesture, but sorry your wife no just send, but at least it will ensure you get some regularly.

While at It, you can learn ways to make her also enjoy it.

But I know a lot of women close up because they're tired of the marriage. They're just tolerating, and have probably given up on it. So you may want to explore deeper issues in your marriage.
Maybe a marriage counsellor could help?

Meanwhile, there are also some libido boosters for women if she doesn't mind and she's open to it.

Once had similar issues with my wife. Had to report her to my elder sister whom i know she respect very well. She called her to order.
My wife thereafter sought for advice from her own elder sisters who were very vehement to tell her to be careful not to drive me out. According to them, there were a thousand and one girls begging for such opportunity and once i resort to them, they (my wife's sisters) told her not to complain.
I came back from office the following day and my wife begged me to forgive her that it wasn't intentional. She said she wasn't just filling any drive for sex. i told her not to worry but that night turned out to be just like our wedding night. Thence from, we'd always had the best of times when ever nature comes calling.
Just handle your wife with care and you will definitely enjoy her again... .
Never resort to side chick. It will destroy your marriage sir

Dandiaz72:

all dz small boyz... wetin u d do here sef. #icanhearthetrumpet

am just moving about

jhydebaba:
Get a second wife, her brain will reset to factory setting




So you mean anybody under 30 is not matured, SMH for you.

your first sentence answers the question in your second sentence.

porchster:
Take her on a trip away from your vicinity... Like going to the beach, cinema etc.. Try initiate romantic conversations, while playing and laughing touch her sensitive part... And mind you, don't think of going back to your house. Just lodge in an hotel for two to three days

The first day of ur lodging should be for cuddling (no sex) the second day should be for intense romance(still no sex) Am telling you the last day of your staying she will be the one to initiate the sex I BET YOU.

even before the last day, she would have grab your boluku sharply for a quickie.

Note: But make sure you sex her well to reach both orgasm and climax. This work like fire. You can thank me later.

This will actually linger on in her memory. And try to make it a surprise routine every 6 months.

I guess the problem is your manner of approach. Maybe you are showing Daddy and Mummy approach.

Nice comment!
Can you be more explicit with your dope approach pls?

category:
Once had similar issues with my wife. Had to report her to my elder sister whom i know she respect very well. She called her to order.
My wife thereafter sought for advice from her own elder sisters who were very vehement to tell her to be careful not to drive me out. According to them, there were a thousand and one girls begging for such opportunity and once i resort to them, they (my wife's sisters) told her not to complain.
I came back from office the following day and my wife begged me to forgive her that it wasn't intentional. She said she wasn't just filling any drive for sex. i told her not to worry but that night turned out to be just like our wedding night. Thence from, we'd always had the best of times when ever nature comes calling.
Just handle your wife with care and you will definitely enjoy her again... .
Never resort to side chick. It will destroy your marriage sir

A dope approach in an even dope comment

Thumbs up sir!

loshybab:

Nice comment!
Can you be more explicit with your dope approach pls?

Having dry conversation (no form of sexual chemistry and connection) before going to bed or in the bed.

herlarho:
am just moving about

Get a life kid

porchster:


Having dry conversation (no form of sexual chemistry and connection) before going to bed or in the bed.

Rotfl.......that's really funny! Now I get your point.

Dandiaz72:
Get a life kid

man get out of life..........

SmellingAnus:
Sis you mean he doesn't have the urge or you don't have the urge

Me, as in I feel something is wrong with me. I don't even think about it not to talk of feel like doing it.

Oyindidi:
Me, as in I feel something is wrong with me. I don't even think about it not to talk of feel like doing it.

sense fall on you

robosky02:



sense fall on you

Bosky, bully

If as a man your wife don't like sex or don't feel the urge is as simple as she don't find it intresting with you!!!Now let solve this problem together!!


Sex is about so much more than just, well, sex. It’s
the slow buildup, the kiss you exchange at the
beginning of the day. It’s prioritizing touch to show
your spouse the attraction is as strong as ever,
Nelson said.
“Focus on physical touch and affection every day and
don’t jump into sex too fast, “Sit next
to her on the couch. Hold her hand. Rub her neck.
Don’t make her think that you only want to touch her
to have sex.”
When these things go on between you both her germ will start growing to have sex with you,have you ever touch a lady and she tells you she feels frozen,?when these things happen it brings out that urge from her directly before u know it,she starts say naughty words

@oyindi are you married with kids?if you will require the answer's here no problem but if you will like to talk private you can email me via my signature!!!thanks

Oyindidi:
Me, as in I feel something is wrong with me. I don't even think about it not to talk of feel like doing it.

some girls are like that, I have met someone like you, maybe even worse than you... Apart from the fact that she doesn't have the urge, she has never reached orgasm in her life before... But I guess with time it may be corrected...

SmellingAnus:
some girls are like that, I have met someone like you, maybe even worse than you... Apart from the fact that she doesn't have the urge, she has never reached orgasm in her life before... But I guess with time it may be corrected...

Yeah, I became worried lately cos I noticed its affecting me negatively.

Oyindidi:
Yeah, I became worried lately cos I noticed its affecting me negatively.

don't worry much.. you will get better and you will be surprised that you will be the one to be begging for it... Seriously, it will happen o .

SmellingAnus:
don't worry much.. you will get better and you will be surprised that you will be the one to be begging for it... Seriously, it will happen o .

Hmmm...Amen. When are you visiting your Church?

Oyindidi:
Hmmm...Amen. When are you visiting your Church?

it's you I need to see... Haven't made up my mind yet... Missed you... ...

SmellingAnus:
it's you I need to see... Haven't made up my mind yet... Missed you... At least I should be sleeping on you when I come...

honestly, I need some reassurance from you brother. Momsy make me vex like mad. I will be waiting.

Oyindidi:
honestly, I need some reassurance from you brother. Momsy make me vex like mad. I will be waiting.

sorry love... Don't worry, I will make sure I come very early and spend the whole day and leave by 6.p.m.

SmellingAnus:
sorry love... Don't worry, I will make sure I come very early and spend the whole day and leave by 6.p.m.

That will be nice, we have a lot to gist about I pray I'm not shy that day

Oyindidi:
That will be nice, we have a lot to gist about I pray I'm not shy that day

if I hear shy... I will just invite my friend that will kiss your lips if you try to be shy