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I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend / She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her / My Girlfriend Confessed That She Cheated On Me And Begged To Be Forgiven. (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by wonyin(m): 11:56am On Jul 17, 2017 |
according to u she has moved on,so wat re u still for bro... in fact dnt onli move on fly over sef,let her see dah u can be dahm good wifout her in her life suggestion thou |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 11:57am On Jul 17, 2017 |
I really don't bother dropping comments when a thread goes beyond the second page but let me break my rule for you. How on earth did you come to see dating as your entire life? You fear loneliness because you've somehow decieved yourself that a girl "completes" you. Haba! She's moved on, she's having a life; You, too, can. Forget the feeling of wanting to jump into another relationship. Are you so inadequate and scared of your own self that you've defined your happiness as "dating a girl" No, Bro. No! 13 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by sod09(m): 11:58am On Jul 17, 2017 |
respect ma wish i can like this times 100 pocohantas: |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by SmartyPants(m): 12:01pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine: You should have given yourself time to get over her in your heart and mind before breaking up with her. Now, listen to me bro... there is always someone else just as special as the one you just lost. In 2012 i almost got married to the person i thought was the love of my life. Till today i still think i could have had a happy life with her, but right now i have someone else that i wouldn't trade for anyone in the world. But if she messes up, i'll move on sharply. No one is too special for you to let go. Deal with your emotional neediness. Find someone else. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by bigass123(m): 12:02pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Really Tell me something I don't know Her self esteem How can a lady be jumping from bed to bed and still be talking about self esteem. Self esteem or Why am I even finding your comment weird sef ... Isn't that the dirty games y'all hoes play? It's the same reason ladies are avoiding to comment on the thread. Cos it's something y'all do. Y'all or I'd say 90% of you girls are the same. Fuckin everything Bleep.able and playing smart in relationships.. The 2 important words in ur lives are To the OP, I wish I can see you in person.. You need a factory reset slap to exorcise you of her juju. The only solution to make your brain function normal again is a correct slap on ur face and trust me you'll never remember the olosho you were calling your girlfriend. MissCuppy: 4 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by TheRealestGuy(m): 12:05pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine: My question is what does she do? What's her background like? Were you absolutely faithful to her too all the while? Some girls by no fault of theirs are in a position where they can't afford things in life especially as students, if she's one of those, it's understandable that you take care of her for the time being until she's done and can take up a job no matter how small. Some girls also come from problematic backgrounds and have serious financial and emotional problems, which they cannot solve by themselves but need someone to help them overcome. If you've also not been faithful why the hypocrisy? She may have known and had feelings for that guy before you came along so it shouldn't be a big deal. Bear in mind always that until you pay a girl's bride price she's never truly yours and you shouldn't feel heartbroken when she finds someone else and wants to move on. I hope you catch my drift, I've got no advise to give, just guidance. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by HARDDON: 12:06pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
You are your own undoing. Right from d start, you messed it all up. She got your emotional switch, she knows it, n boy! :How she tuned it ever so switfly. From lil lunch to airtime to fixing of hair to buying of shoes, cloths, accesories, phones etc.... As a siggy reads off here, u cant see clearly in crimson red. she aint here for luv, no, just the dough n u know it. That was why u stuck to ur guns n let her go the first time. All she does is collect. Neva gives n no matter how hard she makes u happy, something aint just right. U finally were lead right n saw stuff that broke d camel's back. I read that part n i was very happy, thinking how lucky u r, ur eyes got opened. Some guys aint this lucky, end up marrying these kinda gurls n turning woman wrapper all d days of their miserable lives. THen i read the annoying part of you wanting to go back n i smh in rage. Do yourself some sexy gud n move on with your freaking life! There are way beta gurls out there. You can check my siggy for more 6 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Baabs(m): 12:13pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
The truth is you sudnt hav checked her fone, u can't monitor a ladyies. Only dem can monitor dem self. The moment u start invading into her privacy is d moment u start seeing wat hurt u more. Lady is only ur dat moment u r her togeda, den u can call her my wife, but d moment u step out or she does, she's not urs anymore, dat moment u see her as ur love, not ur wife. Another tin I will want to ask u, sinx u guys started dating, haven't u cheated on her? If yes, jst see it as karma, karma is real. U r not married to her yet, so it happened outta marriage. Despite another guy out thr, does she denied her duty wen demanded? She stil open leg for u, giv u styles... so why worrying urself. ? My suggestion, he she givs u happiness, hold on her, be more of good to her, giv her all d reason to see u r better dan who so ever she's dating. The time u quitted wasn't d best time. Had similar experienced... 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by TheRealestGuy(m): 12:17pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
SmartyPants: And if you mess up by cheating on her and she funds out you'll be glad for her to move on right? Why are most men hypocrites when it comes to cheating? This baffles me cos women are also humans with hormones and get Hot even more than guys. I weak o. No matter what ppl will always cheat either physically, mentally or emotionally. Even in marriage bro, your wife will definitely cheat on you in one of those ways. The question is does she throw it around in your face? Is she willing to immediately cut off such thoughts as they come? Is she willing and determined not to follow through on whatever thoughts she had or has? People's imagination can never be controlled and trust me, we'll all cheat on our spouses in one of the three ways, it's human nature. So my point? If she throws it in your face or you find out you have every right to end the rship. But what if you don't find out and she never throws it in your face, you move on with life, what you don't know won't kill you. We can't go about living with paranoia all cos you're in a rship, turning to FBI agents cos she's your wife. Don't let anything give you high BP bro, live a free life. Peace out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by engrgerald(m): 12:17pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 12:18pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
lefulefu:where? You know it not stamped on d forehead 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Uchefame(m): 12:20pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Remove or unfriend her from all your social media accounts, delete her contacts and pictures in your phone finally, stop staying alone for now until you recover from the heart break 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:Just have it in mind that anyone is capable of cheating, no matter how innocent and loving they might seem... That has always helped me deal with heartbreaks. Forget the Lady, and try to b a less mugu/maga in your next relationship. Airtime fa?! What's d money u give to her used for? Anyway, I better person will come along. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by TheRealestGuy(m): 12:22pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Baabs: This is exactly what's in my thoughts bro! If you've cheated too and she seems to have been truly sorry, and you'll know this by her words and actions and further checks, why can't you forgive her? Or men are permitted to cheat but women aren't? That is hypocrisy at its peak and trust me, you one can hardly forgive himself when you lose a good girl cos she made a mistake which she may have realized and changed for good, meanwhile you were also a cheat yourself. What guarantee do you have that the next girl won't be same? |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Bros! This lady is just testing how much you love her. From ur story l can see she truly loved you. The things she asked for and how she later cheated on you are ladies' way of showing love. She wants U back too, but you just av to convince her. Buy a full bottle of Sniper, call her to meet up. While in her presence, gulf half of d undiluted Sniper and watch how she wud run back into ur waiting cold arms and lifeless body. The moment she realises that you are the most stupid man on earth, she will neva leave you again. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by SmartyPants(m): 12:24pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
TheRealestGuy: Why jump to conclusions about me? We are not talking about emotional or mental cheating, we are talking about sexual cheating, which basically is the act of acting on ones infidelous emotions. Its a completely different ball game. Secondly, she was caught cheating. She did not quit or repent of her own volition, and she was doing it on an ongoing basis. This means that (i) she cannot be trusted and (ii) she has something she wants to get outside her relationship. This means such a person would certainly continue to cheat, but would only find cleverer methods of doing so. Thirdly, this is a relationship, not marriage. Once in marriage, some things have to be borne and work through, but it is wise to abort once you notice the signs of a serious problem while in a relationship. Fourthly and most importantly, note that i never said he should move on because she cheated! I only advised him on how to go about moving on in a way that preserves his sanity, since he himself decided to move on, which he is entitled to. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
MissCuppy: When she was spending his ego(money) Straffing anoda guy , she did not know ba How do we know she wouldn't have done it again Op abeg run ooo If u finally marry this girl You go father your neighbour , gateman et al pikin oo 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Idiot...y are u hiding ur real moniker These are the type of girls guys like Taking the faithful ones as fools Ur headache jare 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Zirah: 12:31pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine: Trash. Your previous relationships didn't work simply because you didn't love any of them, not because they were materialistic. This one you love doesn't love you in return. Serves you right. Deal with it. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
TheRealestGuy: Abeg summarize |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 12:31pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
LePrezident:Million dollar advice. This advice will have saved me a whole lot of trouble some years ago but I had no one to give them to me. Well I learnt the hard way. 3 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Skmoda(m): 12:32pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
MissCuppy:what is this one saying now? Nonsense sha. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 12:36pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Dont try that nonsense op. you will just end up giving urself unnecessary pressure over girl that will keep cheating on u |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by ChiefSweetus: 12:39pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:Even the best of us have been there (duped by a dubious love). Nothing to be ashamed of. It is a learning curve and rite of pasaage. Let it hurt. It is natural. But be stronger than your pain by not succumbing to the temptation of relapse. Your future kids deserve better than a heaux mama. So embrace your loneliness and see it as a good thing. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Ife oma di n'iru. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by mirrakk(m): 12:42pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
she just used you. guy my advice is to man up, get another girl, you are even lucky you are financially buoyant. this shows you that if you don't have as much cash she would never have been with you. she is not at loss. that is why I advice guys to always have a spare girl in place in case. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by blackyd: 12:45pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Well to my own perspective,ladies cheat more then men. Happiness count in everything relationship. Bro,I will not tell you to go back begging nor otherwise. Just follow you heart. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Ayibaba1: 12:45pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Man and woman are different in their emotional composition. In a break up for whatever reason, the woman becomes emotional wreck for few days and moves on there after, while a man seems to have moved on but two weeks or more later, becomes emotional wreck himself. Just man up. What you are feeling is emotion and not love. Disengage from anything or activities that will bring up her memories. Unfollow her, delete her contacts, look up and move on with your life. Cheating don't come by mistake, it is an habit formed over the years, and trust me, habits die hard. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by pocohantas(f): 12:46pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
mirrakk: You advise guys to have spare girls? And you're criticising someone for having her own spare guy. You're hilarious. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Freeman59: 12:54pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
chukkystar: Op you should listen to this poster. But come on man, you want to go and beg her to come back, or what?? Are you serious It's like going back to tell her, baby come back to me, cheat on me if you want but just be with me. That's sick bro. Look I know it's not easy but just move on. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Chyxki: 12:55pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
I think you should move on...she's obviously doing well without you (after two months no begging). Let her go if not she go wreck your life at a very bad time 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by fetrillion(m): 12:58pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
[quote author=MissCuppy post=58529468]She was feeding your ego by continuously begging you and you were busy forming, now you are feeling lonely and missing her. Not every woman will beg you, if she manage to do so, try and forgive her, she put her self esteem on the line by begging you at the first place.[/quote see talk ooo its Berra u didn't comment..birds of d same feather. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by barristerzinny(f): 1:05pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:I dey my situation too |
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