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I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend / She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her / My Girlfriend Confessed That She Cheated On Me And Begged To Be Forgiven. (2) (3) (4)

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Homeboiy: 11:47pm On Jul 16, 2017
Na u fvkup

If to say u don FCK her well, e for no pain u
best advise, try bring her back, fúck her 23timez in 11days

u will never be pained again
I did it n it worked for me

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 11:53pm On Jul 16, 2017
What if he gets stuck
Homeboiy:
Na u fvkup


If to say u don FCK her well, e for no pain u

best advise, try bring her back, fúck her 23timez in 11days


u will never be pained again

I did it n it worked for me
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 11:55pm On Jul 16, 2017
Nice talk,cos u wont benefit anything rather he will hurt himself more
chidekings:


Everyone always claim to be a playboy.

Move on. No love lost, no love found.
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Homeboiy: 11:58pm On Jul 16, 2017
lala45:
What if he gets stuck
stuck how? pregnancy?

Bro if na me I don't give a fūck

No girl can trap me with Belle

I no get smiling fce oo

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Alphamale2017(m): 12:03am On Jul 17, 2017
pocohantas:
You'll be fine.
It's only normal you feel this way, considering you loved her...



This is where the trouble started, you were just too in love to notice or act on it. Some women could be very smart...or should I say cunning? The worst thing that can happen to you in a relationship, is to show a bad partner you can't do without him or her...you become predictable and less spontaneous. An emotional pushover and wreck. Such partners have a way of making themselves 'indispensable'... grin
So, when they eventually strike, they expect you to forgive out of fear of being alone or finding someone like them.

Some men go ahead to marry such women, and they will almost steal trying to satisfy her. Na God save you. My brother, move on. Next time, use your senses. Don't love a woman and buy all her problems. All those uncontrollable demands was her way of testing the efficacy of her juju in your life...learn to say NO to unnecessary demands!!! You deserve better...someone better than a cheat.

pocohantas, #correct spot on. I love u .

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 12:10am On Jul 17, 2017
Homeboiy:
Na u fvkup

If to say u don FCK her well, e for no pain u
best advise, try bring her back, fúck her 23timez in 11days

u will never be pained again
I did it n it worked for me
lol badboyz....
but on a serious note love is different from sex sha
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 12:11am On Jul 17, 2017
Not pregnancy,he might fall in love more and d girl will do more annoying things.once I offend a guy,no matter wat I dont go bk cos I feel hes coming fr revenge,even if I go bk,will hurt him over n over again,and I will make sure I don't sleep wt him again.so he should let d girl be.quote author=Homeboiy post=58530232]

stuck how? pregnancy?


Bro if na me I don't give a fūck


No girl can trap me with Belle


I no get smiling fce oo[/quote]
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Homeboiy: 12:14am On Jul 17, 2017
Kokaine:
lol
badboyz....

but on a serious note love is different from sex sha

bros chill

see wen I noticed that my useless gf was seeing her ex, I increased my fcking rate

initially I was fúcking her 2_times a day, I then increased it to 16times in 1week

till I was tired n let her go

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 12:15am On Jul 17, 2017
Every thing isnt just all about Bleep
Homeboiy:


stuck how? pregnancy?


Bro if na me I don't give a fūck


No girl can trap me with Belle


I no get smiling fce oo
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 12:19am On Jul 17, 2017
Who lost?even if u like Bleep her 100 times a day,u will still be hurt,the best thing is to call it a quit.if u want her to die,go to her female friend u know they are close,that one hurts more than fire
Homeboiy:


bros chill

see wen I noticed that my useless gf was seeing her ex, I increased my fcking rate

initially I was fúcking her 2_times a day, I then increased it to 16times in 1week

till I was tired n let her go

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Homeboiy: 12:21am On Jul 17, 2017
lala45:
Every thing isnt just all about Bleep

Falling back in love with her is a lie

Pretend ur in love as a guy , sleep with her countless times and move on
wel ur a lady, u won't understand

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Homeboiy: 12:24am On Jul 17, 2017
lala45:
Who lost?even if u like Bleep her 100 times a day,u will still be hurt,the best thing is to call it a quit.if u want her to die,go to her female friend u know they are close,that one hurts more than fire


Ur last sentence is the best


but I don't like any of her female friends

D other just returned from prostitution from Dubai, d other a thief n d other a dirty runs girl


I don quit sef, a born again traditionalist

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 12:32am On Jul 17, 2017
Or anybody she talks to even on fb,so they will gist about u and she will get hurt more
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 12:38am On Jul 17, 2017
Bf anything happens,u will always see the handwriting on the wall.Am a very quiet person and observant as well so I study guys even on a ist date and know how to follow dem.
Kokaine:
i thought youre a guy. you said youre dealing with guys. its bad. cos they could ruin your relationship in the future.
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 12:47am On Jul 17, 2017
Begging a guy is to do more harm,cos wrn she is forgiven,she will continue to do it and she will treat him like a piece of rag
MissCuppy:
She was feeding your ego by continuously begging you and you were busy forming, now you are feeling lonely and missing her.


Not every woman will beg you, if she manage to do so, try and forgive her, she put her self esteem on the line by begging you at the first place.

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 12:49am On Jul 17, 2017
Am a girl bt I think like a man,dont really mingle wt my fellow girls,have so many male friends,i know how their discussions go,
lala45:
Bf anything happens,u will always see the handwriting on the wall.Am a very quiet person and observant as well so I study guys even on a ist date and know how to follow dem.

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 1:20am On Jul 17, 2017
My bro,pls dont be unserious towards the next girl u will meet cos she might feel something genuine fr u and u will judge n conclude based on yr past relationship.there are still so many good girls outthere
Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.

I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.

of all the girls i ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when i date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. infact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, i was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasnt all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime

the trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. i mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didnt know.

brothers and sisters! when i opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! i copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.

for the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.

she begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just dont know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, im thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. thanks so much. one love!
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 1:35am On Jul 17, 2017
Don't mind me,i was joking ,no gain.Many relationships these days are ungodly.try as much as possible to keep yr body holy cos yr body is the temple of God.
Homeboiy:



Ur last sentence is the best


but I don't like any of her female friends

D other just returned from prostitution from Dubai, d other a thief n d other a dirty runs girl


I don quit sef, a born again traditionalist
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lala45: 1:45am On Jul 17, 2017
Was kidding o
Homeboiy:



Ur last sentence is the best


but I don't like any of her female friends

D other just returned from prostitution from Dubai, d other a thief n d other a dirty runs girl


I don quit sef, a born again traditionalist
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by jhudit(f): 8:06am On Jul 17, 2017
Pls move on. She begged you, you didn't forgive.
Not like forgiving was the best thing to do sev.
Lalasticlala, day av break.

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by ipain: 8:11am On Jul 17, 2017
Escabado:
That's why is very wrong to be giving girls money and everything she demands now she see you as a mugu and she has nothing to loose as u broke up with her . she benefited alot. U for dey stingy wit her. she never loved u and she can never love you , she is with you because of the money and things she gets from you . I'm sorry but 90% of Nigeria girls nowadays cheats and they don't love anymore . But this time make this new girl know that u have the money but don't be giving her money . Girls like men that shows money without giving them or u give them a very small portion and if she do any how just kick her out . Girlfriend is not wife


Respect...

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 8:28am On Jul 17, 2017
MissCuppy:
She was feeding your ego by continuously begging you and you were busy forming, now you are feeling lonely and missing her.


Not every woman will beg you, if she manage to do so, try and forgive her, she put her self esteem on the line by begging you at the first place.
hmmm.

im sure you think its very easy to forgive infidelity.

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by timsonpreye(m): 9:01am On Jul 17, 2017
Kokaine:
Hi nairalanders. i came under this moniker because i want to be discreet.

I met this girl some months ago, we became close, and one thing led to the other, we started dating.

of all the girls i ever dated, this one came closest to my heart. I'm ordinarily stingy to girls when i date them, especially the ones i feel don't really love me for any other reason than what they hope to benefit. infact, my last relationship ended because of how tightfisted i was with her. But in the case of this girl in question, i was so free, i gave her easily, it got to the extent that my cousins and closed friends started suggesting that she put a hex on me. i really loved her. my whole life changed when she came in, i became very happy, always wanted to be with her, for every contract i took, i shared a small part with her and she was happy, whenever there was a misunderstanding, she apologised, she was never the type to climb a high horse. I wont lie i saw her demands for material things increase uncontrollably, i became responsible for everything she wanted and needed, her cream, her clothes, phone, laptop, subscription, even ordinary airtime! haba! airtime oh!!! but i wasnt all that disturbed because i felt i could endure the burden just because of how happy and lively she always made me feel, practically the same addiction my neighbour has for weed even if its with his last dime

the trouble started when i went to her place one day and she was not around, my phone was almost dead, i decided to charge it in the abokis place near her house. then i saw what looked exactly like her phone charging. i mean; her phone cover is very spectacular to me, looks like rabbit ears with lights that come on whenever you touch it. i asked about it, he told me it was hers. God so did it that he allowed me to check the phone, i had known her pattern a long time ago but she didnt know.

brothers and sisters! when i opened this phone, and saw her chat with someone whose name she saved with "miracle" she was obviously cheating! i copied the number and dialled it on my phone with truecaller, i saw the complete name, i opened facebook and checked that name, it was a guy, he was on her facebook too. she had been seeing this guy. the dates on their whatsapp chat confirmed that certain times she left my house and said she was going to her brothers house, that was where she actually went.

for the first time in my life i was broken, i had to break up with this girl. but i wanted to think about it thoroughly because i feared loneliness and the loss of happiness that breaking up with her will bring me. i did anyway.

she begged and begged promising to break up with the guy, i just dont know why i refused, i told her we could be friends, but now as i type this, she seems to Have moved on, she has never called me again nor sent any message, neither have i, but everyday that passes by, i gradually see myself going back to my old state of mind, you know one that makes you lonely even in the midst of people. i really miss her now, im thinking i should have forgiven her, but then i know i have to be a man, i see her posts on instagram, she is still so beautiful in my eyes, i cannot hate her however i have tried, this is very unlike me, i want anyone who has ever experienced this to tell me how he did it. thanks so much. one love!
on a very serious note, u shouldn't av allowed ur emotions take control of u, it's painful to see someone u love dearly cheat on u but for d sake of love u should av jst called her to order and make her understand she shouldn't be cheating, but since wat av happened av happened and since then she av not called u, bro move on as well, from ur story she's only there for wat u re giving her.... Jst move on...

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by timsonpreye(m): 9:02am On Jul 17, 2017
lefulefu:
op save yursef all this hearache.go and get urself a spare or assistant gf.she cheat,u cheat and equation bcomes balanced.
am inlove with this particular post grin grin
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by timsonpreye(m): 9:57am On Jul 17, 2017
lala45:
My bro,pls dont be unserious towards the next girl u will meet cos she might feel something genuine fr u and u will judge n conclude based on yr past relationship.there are still so many good girls outthere
so he will be used again abi.... Bro don't mind her, fvck d nxt gal n move on.
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by babyfaceafrica: 10:14am On Jul 17, 2017
timsonpreye:
on a very serious note, u shouldn't av allowed ur emotions take control of u, it's painful to see someone u love dearly cheat on u but for d sake of love u should av jst called her to order and make her understand she shouldn't be cheating, but since wat av happened av happened and since then she av not called u, bro move on as well, from ur story she's only there for wat u re giving her.... Jst move on...
so a faithful partner should forgive a dishonest and cheating partner because of love?..thunder fire love..love is reciprocal..if she loves him..she won't cheat!!!!...... He deserves someone better!!

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by pweetiedee(m): 10:23am On Jul 17, 2017
Dlordsamurai:
A cheating lady do not deserve forgiveness, no matter how sexy and beautiful she is. Bro pls i beg you stop behaving like a child that just experience his first love. "You gave her all you could offer and she still cheated on you codedly. Had it been that you did'nt found out, she still would have pretended and got married to you while still cheating on you. Bro you should thank GOD that you found out about her cheating activities, what you should do is to move on with your life, get engage with other activities to drive loneliness and sooner or later,you will find love again. "a pretender is dangerous, pls move on and forget about her because its obvious that she was with you for the money.

A cheating partner please, not a cheating lady.

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 10:25am On Jul 17, 2017
pweetiedee:


A cheating partner please, not a cheating lady.
lol its the partner not a lady?
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by lonelydora: 11:26am On Jul 17, 2017
One thing in BT forgive anyone is cheating. Girls of nowadays do it as if there's nothing wrong in it.

The world is going haywire people.

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 11:30am On Jul 17, 2017
Kokaine:
i would normally have taken this option if this happened many years ago, but now, and at my age, i want to be a committed person, i want to be a responsible family man.


Sorry this happened bro..so sorry..I'm speechless...don't have anything to say..Take heart, heal and take care of yourself

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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Chukazu: 11:30am On Jul 17, 2017
Don't rush on having her back..

It's normal thing to still have liking for her but the best thing is to maintain a line of friendship with her and see if she too feels like coming back, but don't too forward
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by bbbabes(f): 11:31am On Jul 17, 2017
Come, let me make u my side guy

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