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I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend / She Cheated With Her 'Cousin'. I'm Finding It Hard To Forgive Her / My Girlfriend Confessed That She Cheated On Me And Begged To Be Forgiven. (2) (3) (4)
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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by TinaAnita(f): 5:19pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
lefulefu: Nice submission. But is it possible or simply put, can one find someone who doesn't double date or cheat in a world where cheating is now the order of the day? I'm just thinking out loud. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by ipain: 5:21pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Yul025: You cheated on him and you still want him to take you back? Lol. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by pocohantas(f): 5:22pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine: Very correct. At first, I wanted you to reconcile with her, I thought it was emotioal cheating. Then I saw you took calculated steps to cheat and go visit the other guy...telling you he is her brother. That to me is deceit. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Arobake: 5:30pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Op, in case you missed the attached. Think on the full post very well as you consider the other "advises". Who feels it knows it.... 1 Share
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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 5:45pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Ur taking advice from social media concerning your relationship.. I feel for you.... women forgive men who cheat, some even live with these men(husbands) and are still happy. So many people on NL have not got relationship experience, talk more of knowing what love is all about. My brother follow your heart oo! |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
TinaAnita:of course! ...its just that many of the so called relationship we have in nigeria today are actually not relationship but bootycalls. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by zicoraads: 5:56pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Why do I have a feeling this is either Naijaboiy or Tosyne2much? This feels so much like them Seriously man, is she a Calabar girl? On a serious note. They've all said everything. But in the end, you'll probably still do what's in your heart. I just hope and pray you make the right one. Cheers! |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by zicoraads: 5:57pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
luswitz:This is that type that thinks it's the man's sole responsibility to cater for a lady's financial needs. They usually can't hide |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by zicoraads: 5:59pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
TinaAnita:So you cheat on your man? |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by placeofallure(f): 6:02pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Escabado: Ha ha! 3k! Owo kini? God knows I can never date anyone like you. It's not good to be a cheating partner, it's also not good to be stingy-stingy. Wetin I wan take 3k do na? E no even do to buy recharge cards, all these chewing gum boyfriends on Nairaland, no dey teach people bad things for here abegi! |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
luswitz:how are u sure such women are happy with a cheating unrepentant husband? cos they upload pics on facebook and snapchat? |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
zicoraads:.. 1 Share
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Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by tosyne2much(m): 6:12pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
zicoraads:Me ke? Why you talk so baba? |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 6:42pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
pocohantas:thats right. my only question is how she is able to keep away from me now. i dont even feel she is hurt. she didnt beg for long at all in my own reckoning. i dont want to see people in the light i am seeing this girl because it may not be healthy for me in all my relationships. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 6:43pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Debbime:i think of you as a sadist. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 6:44pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
luswitz:so in your opinion i should contact her? |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by TinaAnita(f): 6:48pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 6:48pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
placeofallure:funny |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by akpur1(m): 7:02pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine: I have passed through this, but i had to forgive my Girlfriend because she told me she cheated and she was very sorry. if you check my profile you will see the topic that was posted. So many people will say you should move on but if she really loves you go back to her and settle your scores. Man is unforgiving when i comes to cheating, but i take guts to listen and forgive. ask her why she cheated know what you're lacking in your relationship and work to fix it. Because it might not come directly from her but you. Take care and it will be well with you |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by placeofallure(f): 7:06pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine: It may look funny but it actually isn't. I've had boyfriend furnish my apartment, I've had another place me on salary and other things too numerous to mention here. The thing is cheating is in the DNA of some people. It's not the money you were giving her that made her cheat on you. It's just her own character flaw. I don't ask men for money, it's a rule. If there's a need or gap, you as my man should know and just fill in the gap. If you ever find a good girl again, (don't go back to this cheat) be nice to her, don't break the bank to satisfy her just be natural, if she's yours she'll stay with or without the funfair. I salute your resolve not to go philandering though. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 7:33pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
akpur1:i saw it bro. im sure you forgave her because she came up with the truth. here, she tried to deny until i showed her an evidence that i snapped her phone. she has stopped begging anyway. this is one week now. so its as good as by gone |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 7:38pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
placeofallure:funny you say cheating is in DNA. i wonder about that. if you see my post, i mentioned the material things on passing because i was trying to give credit to my earlier statement that i have been a stingy guy to girls. im not of the opinion that money made her cheat, after all, i never gave her 100k, it was small things just to support, laptop wasnt new, techno was the phone, i basically didnt give her what i cannot normally give my male friends. i just wont be spending on ladies because its not a sign of love. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 7:46pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:I am not in the position to tell you what to do, if you heart tells you so, then go ahead, keep pride aside. Dear ur d one wearing d shoes oo! I have seen relationship that had worse issues than yours ending up perfect... so its up to u. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 7:54pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
lefulefu:its in d Dna for most men to cheat but women still marry them knowing what they are up for, a man can cheat,beg and expect a woman to forgive him but its difficult on the part of a man... what I actually meant by 'these women happily live with a man after he had cheated because they always believe in second chance. Yes you are right some of this ladies aren't happy. . Bro I dont know u, but I can bet u have either cheated in ur relationship or made an attempt to.... |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by ladyF(f): 8:00pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine: Lol... Nothing will happen. But for the fact that she "begged and begged", it shows that she felt her relationship with you was worth saving. She obviously makes you a happier man and everyone makes mistakes. I feel you should reach out to her sha. That's just my opinion... |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 8:04pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
zicoraads:its so unfortunate u dont know me in person, I have male friends who I lend cash on regular basis, and with your statement its obvious ur a dumb as* cos u would av noticed my comment was solely on the cheating aspect, so bro go and work ur intellect, so that u can be able to comment intelligently. |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
luswitz:cheat if i am in a serious relationship? why would i? like i said before some ppl mistake bootycalling for relationship. u meet a girl in a club today u chyke her and tell her she"s preety and maybe she smiles and says ty. for the guy mind he now think he"s dating and he now expects her not to talk to another guy just because he told her she"s beautiful.it doesnt work that way . |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
ladyF:she can still beg if op"s her meal ticket abi? .imagine op is d one sponsoring her in sch.u think she wont roll over and beg even if she has no feelings for op 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 8:16pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
Kokaine:people are different in reacting to issues... let me use me as an example. .. I love deep, when I mean deep I mean it. but I also believe in letting go and allowing nature take its course. If a man tells me he isn't interested in a relation, I don't even believe in begging not to talk of begging for long. I take it thats how life wants it and I move on.. doesn't mean I am insensitive or never loved him... thats it, people are different... in other words someone can beg and beg, and still come back to repeat that act or be worse.. thats life. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by luswitz(f): 8:21pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
lefulefu:your reply isnt in line with my comment. . Pls can you reply accurately. ... |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Nobody: 8:31pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
luswitz:ok lemme reply to ur post.there are certain reasons a man might cheat.if he"s inborn womaniser there is nothing u would do to stop him from cheating.also if he has no attraction for his wife he would go for the lady he"s attracted to behind his wife"s back.hope u do know some men get forced into marriage with ladies they dont like.if u have a wife that u love,u sexually compactibale with...whats the need to cheat? |
Re: I Broke Up With Her Because She Cheated, Now I Want Her Back. by Kokaine(m): 8:58pm On Jul 17, 2017 |
ladyF:hahahahahahahahahahahahahaaha never!!! my ego supersedes my emotions. |
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