davidylan:

Nah its too late . . . we've both moved on.

lol not at all, i got over it already. You win some you lose some . . . the truth is experiences like this make you treat relationships very seriously.
The downside is . . . you keep looking for attributes of the one you lost in everyone else you find.

if you do this then you are not over her.  Maybe you should bend down and not be to haughty to look back, though it further complicates things when ure already in a relationship. 


_{aww David has a heart}

Ayettymama, I have never cried for a gal, but I bet u if I dont meet u i am gonna cry so bad. Pls make yourself

available to me online. thanks dear

I remember when my big sister beat me mercilessly when we were kids and tore my clothes to shreds.
I cried until tears ran out of my eyes. . . . .  .

She can't try it now tho . . . . . .

Davidazzle:

you only cry that much when u really love the girl, 4 me i cried once 4 a girl, but i trained myself 2 be stonehearted, so right now, no Girl can make my laser eyes drip urine

Never say Never!  

platinumnk:

if you do this then you are not over her.  Maybe you should bend down and not be to haughty to look back, though it further complicates things when ure already in a relationship. 

_{aww David has a heart}

You never get over people like that . . . you learn from it and move on. I have bent down, looked back, begged . . . all to no avail. There are other girls who could be better.

platinumnk:

if you do this then you are not over her. Maybe you should bend down and not be to haughty to look back, though it further complicates things when ure already in a relationship.


_{aww David has a heart}

Stop petting David. A man that says he insures his heart by keeping 'mild girlfriends' on the side and won't accept it if his girlfriend does the same, deserves not to be petted.

chamotex:

[b]I remember when my big sister beat me mercilessly when we were kids and tore my clothes to shreds.[/b]I cried until tears ran out of my eyes. . . . . .

She can't try it now tho . . . . . .

This reminds me of my bullying days.

Ofcourse,l did.That was last year.Some girls re hrtless when they find out dat u rely luv them.l was broke financially she asked 4 money 2 settle her bills.l told her l dont have.she cursed n cursed,saying she il dump me 4 anoda man who fit settle her bills.l cried n begged her nt 2 leave due 2 d fact dat l luv her much(and she knows that.2 cut d story short,l made a vow that nothin in shirt il evd make me shed tears of luv.

All those guys saying they'll never cry because of a girl. .I believe you've not truly loved a woman. .

Was saying goodbye to a certain girl at the airport. .held hands with her till the last moment, knowing I wouldn't be seeing her for a long time. Had to let go and proceed with the check-in process. .

I still had her in my view as I moved away from her. .then I could feel the tears coming as I realized how much I'd be missing her. I choked them back successfully.  

Then I saw her lift her phone as if typing a message, lo and behold, a text popped up on my phone moments later. After I read the message, I could no longer hold back the tears. .

Funny thing was that I had to shield my face from the guy in front of me (on the queue) who I'd been having a conversation with. .he didn't seem to notice as he was just rambling away. .

And I wasn't even in love with her. .We just enjoyed each other's company with no form of intimacy involved. .

davidylan:

Nah its too late . . . we've both moved on.

lol not at all, i got over it already. You win some you lose some . . . the truth is experiences like this make you treat relationships very seriously.
The downside is . . . you keep looking for attributes of the one you lost in everyone else you find.

Dosen't sound like it to me!  

Anyway, I understand what you mean.

I had an ex who hurt me real bad. I still have feelings for him, probably always will. Years after breaking up with him, I still try to date guys that are just like him. But will I take him back if he comes crawling? Nah!

Recently, he tried to get back, said he'd settle for 'just friends', but there are some things you just don't forget. I think of him and all I can think of is how much he hurt me . . .

Now if that guy is my 'The one' . . . .  I'll prefer to take my chances with a 'non-the one'!  

stillwater:

Stop petting David. A man that says he insures his heart by keeping 'mild girlfriends' on the side and won't accept it if his girlfriend does the same, deserves not to be petted.

when you find one that you TRULY love . . . other girls wont matter to you. You wont even notice they exist.

davidylan:

when you find one that you TRULY love . . . other girls wont matter to you. You wont even notice they exist.

You could have said that yesterday.

stillwater:

This reminds me of my bullying days.

So you are like that?
I thought you were the quiet one

Ujujoan:

Dosen't sound like it to me!  

Anyway, I understand what you mean.

I had an ex who hurt me real bad. I still have feelings for him, probably always will. Years after breaking up with him, I still try to date guys that are just like him. But will I take him back if he comes crawling? Nah!

Recently, he tried to get back, said he'd settle for 'just friends', but there are some things you just don't forget. I think of him and all I can think of is how much he hurt me . . .

Now if that guy is my 'The one' . . . .  I'll prefer to take my chances with a 'non-the one'!  

Exactly . . . i will always have a soft spot for her. But she's with someone else now and she has a principle of never breaking up with whoever she's with no matter the circumstance. We've been through the whole come-back stuff before . . .
She waited 2 yrs for me to come back . . . she tried and i really cant ask her for more.

there's life afterall . . . i guess like you she's also prepared to take her chances with a non-the-one. Cant say that i blame her.

Mehn, i cried when it dawned on me that the girl i fell in love with for the first time in my life was leaving. . . jeez, what a day it was.

Didn't even know when the tears rolled down my cheeks, that was when i realized that feeling are strong, and no matter how tough a man say he is, he is still like butter in the hands of a woman that he truly loves, u just find yourself melting away.

Zequisha. . . . . .  . . . . . . . .  . . . . , really miss you.

chamotex:

So you are like that?
I thought you were the quiet one

Why won't I be quiet now when my brother is now bigger than me.

desthan:

no matter how tough a man say he is, he is still like butter in the hands of a woman that he loves

True that. .

desthan:

Zequisha. . . . . .  . . . . . . . .  . . . . , really miss you.

@ topic

sorry, can't cry over a girl

@ oyato
ehn! ehn!!, shebi u dey find my trouble.

This thread has just reminded me of what my mind is tryin to let go of. It aint easy mehn. . . .She meant the whole world to me

stillwater:

Why won't I be quiet now when my brother is now bigger than me.

You scared?  
Seems like you and my sis are in the same situation, she dare not try it now.
But I still will never hit her though but the respect is there now . . . . more like she respects herself

yessssssssssss

Cry? That'll surely be categorised as wasted tears!. . .
Two timing daughters of Saphirra!

r231:

yessssssssssss

C'mon hun, spill the details!

stillwater:

Stop petting David. A man that says he insures his heart by keeping 'mild girlfriends' on the side and won't accept it if his girlfriend does the same, deserves not to be petted.

davidylan:

when you find one that you TRULY love . . . other girls wont matter to you. You wont even notice they exist.

u read my mind David. Thats exactly what i was gonna say.

well david if ur lucky maybe you will see her again.

chamotex:

I remember when my big sister beat me mercilessly when we were kids and tore my clothes to shreds.
I cried until tears ran out of my eyes. . . . . .

She can't try it now tho . . . . . .

hahahahahabwhahahaaha! I remember fights with my lil brother but i never beat him up that badly

Ujujoan:

C'mon hun, spill the details!    

oh oh
i am still crying over you till now lol

at d birth of ma lil girl when i was suppose to be holding d mother's leg too bsy crying cus its scary

Where's 190?


He recently cried ova a girl
lol

r231:

oh oh
i am still crying over you till now lol

LOL

You no well oh . .

platinumnk:

well david if your lucky maybe you will see her again.

She'd be married by then.

r231:

at d birth of ma lil girl when i was suppose to be holding d mother's leg too bsy crying cus its scary

LOl! Macho man no reach that one abi ?  

Ujujoan:

LOl! Macho man no reach that one abi ?  

there is nothing wrong in being a lil emotional sometimes

I actually cried over a girl last month. . . she died.
I don't know if it counts though, cus we weren't in love or anything. . . we just grew up together.

Was trying to be the man and consoling her sisters, and then I literally burst into tears . . .hehehehe.

I guess you just forget how masculine you're meant to be in some cases.

It is something i dont like to remember, Lost her in a terrible car crash in 2002, I cried for days RIP Sweet One

For me my guy the truth is that i have cried some many times uncountable