Bro am in d same shit too..been dating this girl for 3 months now....am doing good but things been slow lately

She. Has. Been so supportive in everything that pertains to me....but she got ego and pride cos she is from a rich family...she just got a 2 years visa to yankee....

She would not wanna apologise each time she is at fault....and. She wld act like all. Is well...I wld apologise each time am at fault....


last wed...she insulted me and and. I took it up with her...he'll no..I wount take this anymore...she refused to apologise since wed...she refused to call or text me....i really do love her...irrespective or that I wount take any shit...what you don't want you don't watch....broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.....if she no call me..i no go call her....soldier go....soldier come


Irrespective of anything a woman should be subissive and we guys shouldn't abuse the priviledge

Bro let her go....i hate to have third parties involved in my relationship even my parents
If she loves and value you..she wld do anything to keep the relationship make any girl no feel she is doing a guy a favor by dating a guy

You will be fine bro..you will meet someone better..dont loose your self esteem..i know how it feels

#peace

beetown:


Seems you're right about the insecurity, that could be the reason she always checked my WhatsApp... When I do what she likes she'll compare me to either her father of elder brother

Does she have any reason to be?
Are you cheating?

shege45:
i wonder y pple stil stay in relationships dey dnt enjoy

as in relationship Na do or die affair?

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?

She is not made for you. So let her go

SEARCHED FOR THE GIRL'S AGE TO SEE IF I CAN HELP BUT SEE NOTHING. IF YOU DON'T HAVE ENOUGH MONEY AND BIG DICK..... BREAK UP SHARP SHARP (IN ABOKI VOICE).

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?

I hope this is not about a lady I know because this sounds familiar. Anyway, the issues are these:
1: she does not trust you enough. So, all you need to do is to earn her trust
2: She hasn't fully made up her mind about dating you / how far you can both go together as a couple
3: She's still getting to understand your kind of person.
4: You're both in the storming stage of this relationship. Give it more time and you'll both get used to each other's likes and dislikes.
5: Give her sometime off. Give her some space. Guess she feels choked. After about a week, call to say hello and note her reaction. If she responds and relates in a cold manner, please move on! You're not meant for each other.
6: Only daughter's love to be treated with care. Treat her like your younger sister.
7: Pray about the situation and let God direct you.

Remain blessed

That gurl is not 4 yours. Take away love mata and cool down.... believe me u will really find your SoulMate...... Dat gurl is just a blockage to You..

beetown:

Please if it's cheating, she isn't that type of girl...it's her attitude that I can't deal with

See the Mumu I was talking about the other day. Ur so called friend is fvcking ur hoe doggy right now as we speak since the weather is cold

I bet u, ur age difference is wide and dats y she feels insecured, dat u may be doing some hidden things. try and make her trust u

beetown:

Please if it's cheating, she isn't that type of girl...it's her attitude that I can't deal with

He's telling you that she is cheating on you and you're here insisting she aren't.




Fear Women they aren't loyal... My friend is currently slashing a girl that is already betrothed. What baffles me most is that she is not flaunting her engagement ring but she is even dying for this my friend matter. So bro forget women matters trust none.

beetown:
Hello Guys.

This will be the first time I'll be asking for relationship advice on here since I've been on Nairaland

I've been dating this girl for some months now,I really love her a lot but she has some issues

Lemme explain, when we started dating she was the perfect girl until after about a month, I noticed any time she was with my phone she would go through my WhatsApp. Any time I confront her about it she'll accuse of me of cheating and hiding things from her and because of the that we had a big fight, I tried calling her to apologize but she avoided my calls,it was not until she got into a fight with one of her friends because she was checking his WhatsApp that she apologized and we settled.
Now to the latest,I observed that she loved reporting every little issue we have to my friends,which I don't like (I like my privacy) she actually reported our relationship to a friend of mine who I'm not in talking terms with, in the course of the guy trying to intervene, he insulted me so much, he called me a liar so many times and I couldn't do anything cos my girlfriend was the one who involved him. After the chat I got in touch with my girlfriend and told her politely that I didn't like the way she carried our relationship issues to my friends, that my friends' girlfriends never reported their issues to me they way she did to them and she exploded, she called names,she started crying saying I should give her space because I'm making her regret getting into the relationship. Now she hasn't answered my calls since then.
She doesn't respect me at all,she makes me feel as if I'm maltreating her, she doesnt take anything i say and does anything she sees fit. please should I continue with the relationship or not.

PS: she's the only daughter of her family, could it be the reason she acts like this?

bros....end it up with her....both of you are on different levels....going to different directions... you just forcing yourself to accept this relationship.... and you can see how much you're hurting....

How old is your girlfriend? I can see that she is behaving childishly. Please be patient with this girl, she will gradually outgrow her childishness.

A girl that doesn't like you,wnt be afraid of loosing you,except you are rich,you should make her understand the relationship between you and ur friends and stop giving her reasons to doubt your faithfulness

supersystemsng:


I clap.

Ode!!!

Follow that silly advice and see your life ruined.

A beautiful relationship ll have its own issues but not as much as this.

Both of u need councelling, what is wrong if ur babe check ur watapp message. U are infidelity in d first place

Egbon, get your ass in reverse gear and scoot outA d relationship. Save yourself d emotional headache

beetown:

Please if it's cheating, she isn't that type of girl...it's her attitude that I can't deal with

Attitude! That's the word. If you can't cope now, shake her off. She can only get worse.

Marry a lady you can live with not those "I can't live without you".

Coldfeets:


Of course.

She's taking you for granted.

You know why?

She knows that you love her.

In fact, there's every possibility that you even love her more than she loves you and she knows this.

Now, it's time for you to turn the game around.

Tone down your love for her. Stop calling her. Stop arguing with her. In fact, stop reacting to any of her shenanigans.

Start focusing on yourself. Get into real personal development. Read good books. Get into physical fitness. Do anything that will take your mind completely out of her and her problems.

Once a girl knows that she's no longer number one in your life; there's every possibility that she will start to struggle to reclaim that very position.

Lest I forget, you can also start shopping for another girlfriend, you know...?

Just in case.

True words
I learnt this the hard way two years ago and now am better for it.
I loved this chic like she was my life and bae started acting up and doing nasty stuffs. We quarreled constantly, broke up everytime and she was always insisting it was her life n I can't control her.
I changed gear. I forgot her. It wasn't easy but I found away to do it. I don't call. No SMS. She tried making me feel jealous with on or two guys,i didn't flinch. Now she does the calling and texting. She books the date.
Even at that the love I had then for her is dead and buried

Lloydfolarin:


Ode!!!

Follow that silly advice and see your life ruined.

A beautiful relationship ll have its own issues but not as much as this.

Okay Sir

OP you read my mind and situation but as a boss I am I layed her off.. . I think the problem in relationships these days is external influence of any kind... But the good thing is you can find love anywhere

beetown:


She's 22

You ever see anything,girls of that age range are insecure and most of them are not yet matured.They don't really know what they want and she will definitely fraustrate your life.If you really love her its either you marry her now or discharge,if not she will keeps on fraustraing your life and you will regret your action.Talkong from personal experience.

Make ur life easier and break up

ikukuhero:


I hope this is not about a lady I know because this sounds familiar. Anyway, the issues are these:
1: she does not trust you enough. So, all you need to do is to earn her trust
2: She hasn't fully made up her mind about dating you / how far you can both go together as a couple
3: She's still getting to understand your kind of person.
4: You're both in the storming stage of this relationship. Give it more time and you'll both get used to each other's likes and dislikes.
5: Give her sometime off. Give her some space. Guess she feels choked. After about a week, call to say hello and note her reaction. If she responds and relates in a cold manner, please move on! You're not meant for each other.
6: Only daughter's love to be treated with care. Treat her like your younger sister.
7: Pray about the situation and let God direct you.

Remain blessed

Trust? If she's finding it hard to trust you, do all you can. She won't.
And to treat her like a sister? Why not as your mother or daughter. You don't need that's spouse is spouse not your sibling. The dynamics are world's apart.

Oga RUN.

beetown:

Please if it's cheating, she isn't that type of girl...it's her attitude that I can't deal with

hahahahahaha Swegbe

Oga beetown?
That girl is insecure, I have a friend that did that with her previous bf before she broke up with him.
Bros check yourself, do u make her feel jealous?
I agree with everyone that says she's immature. If I say follow your heart now you will go and apologize, guy bone face, vex, no comms.
The point is if she's meant for you, it'll all work out.

You are very lucky that she is already showing you her true colour early enough in the relationship. Remember that attitude is everything. A lady with a bad attitude has nothing to offer. Ignore her and move on. You will surely find a good one soonest.

she doesnt love u.

She must be a Yoruba girl

Op, this relationship will be your worst nightmare. Better take a walk now or we read about your broken home in the future if you give am belle.