Please, I need advice on what to do, I have known my boyfriend for 10months now, and we love each other, but his ex keeps on disturbing him and this makes me jealous.

So I decided to open a new facebook account with a different identity, I asked my boyfriend out to see if he will fall for it but he was sincere enough, I then decided to insult his ex through the new facebook account, but my boyfriend later found out I was the one who did all those things and now he said he doesn't want the relationship again that I have hurt him by tempting him and insulting his ex.

I have apologized to him but he is still adamant, am confused cos I love him with all my heart. Please what do I do?

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U caused the whole tin

Insecurity has successfully pushed the guy away from u

falconey:


You created a problem. If at the end it didn't work out,learn from this.

i didn't know it will result to this,is d nothing I can do to bring back his love?

what business do you have with the ex?
if you are to tackle a cheat,it should be your boyfriend cos he gave room to all that rubbish..and you went too far as to create account on fb just to tempt him....if he is done with the relationship cos it is obvious,,my dear just move on with ya life and learn ya lessons...





##when you decide to snoop, make sure you have the heart to bear the consequences. .

Sounds like som'in I'd do; End the relationship without further ado. I don't like insecure people, they "innocently" create lots of problems.

You know he loves you but you still go ahead to cause him emotional pain and embarrassment?

Its just pathetic am that you should know that nobody gives a damn

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so ah Kant hear you

lol...mumu insecure girl

You are the cause of what befell you.

A lot of people are insulting u instead of giving u advice, anyway its not their fault.
my gf tried dis shit with me last year wen our relationship was 4 months old, hers was more than dis. I found out and ended the relationship with her but she called me and begged me deeply and i forgave her becuz i loved her, nw we are still together for a year and six month still wax strong. Try begging him deep down and be sincere but don't ever tried dat again, men hate it

Haniel18:
A lot of people are insulting u instead of giving u advice, anyway its not their fault.
my gf tried dis shit with me last year wen our relationship was 4 months old, hers was more than dis. I found out and ended the relationship with her but she called me and begged me deeply and i forgave her becuz i loved her, nw we are still together for a year and six month still wax strong. Try begging him deep down and be sincere but don't ever tried dat again, men hate it

tanx for ur advice bt I jus pray he forgvs me cos d way he sounded with me,av never seen him in such manner.bt I will still apologize to him. Tanx

indodon:
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so ah Kant hear you

Dj Idondon.. abeg how much u dey charge for events

I know he will forgive you later on. But let it be in your mind that MEN hate testing,thank God he's faithful and he didn't fall into the trap you set.

In relationship,assumption is a destroyer and its very bad to start assuming when you're yet to confirm any suspicious moves by your partner.

Apologize sincerely he will forgive you. Always communicate....this means ask him about what you feel or suspecting,if he truly loves you he will tell you the truth and once he tells you the truth,don't doubt him.

Just desist from assumptions and suspects because changed behaviour is better than a million apologies.

Op, you're just too insecure and childish.

If you needed to know if your boyfriend would cheat on you, testing him with another account couldn't have gotten you the desired goal if he was a cheat. Some guys would rather prey on girls than get preyed on. Most guys tho!.

Secondly, what business do you have with his ex?. Going to insult her on fb shows your entire relationship revolve around the girl.

I've met your type before and after dealing with her, no be person tell her say "Exes" are different.

Childish
You are not ready to be in a relationship ... let him go learn from this
If he is willing to give it all up after u pleading then he doesn't love u as much cause if he did really he shouldn't care wt u say to his ex
But he too was on shaky grounds so u literally open the door for him

All these small small girls sef that havnt seen life..

You such an insecure Nd emotional immature girl. Learn from this so as to not repeat it next time

this is a lesson.

I am 100 ℅ certain that nig.g.a.r is RICH

Why are you so bothered about his ex that made you to go as far as insulting her? I couldn't care less about my partner's ex cos he left her to date you so she wasn't good enough for him, so you should know you are the one he wanted not her.

Insecurity kills relationship faster than anything, don't get too fuckinng insecure.

rosy16:
tanx for ur advice bt I jus pray he forgvs me cos d way he sounded with me,av never seen him in such manner.bt I will still apologize to him. Tanx

Eyya, I know that feeling but don't worry, just beg him more, if he refuses, let him go, it shows he doesn't love you enough.

But don't be insecure in your next relationship.

u lost d trust ur guy get for u...nw u just nid to let him knw d reason u decide to open a new acct and apologies to his ex gal frnd

u tested him n u got ur result....now its time to face d music....
I don't blame u though..u sound awfully young. like 16 years.... u will learn as u grow older that its a dumb move to test a man

rosy16:
pls I need advice on what to do, even known my boyfriend for 10months nw, and we love each other,but his ex keeps on disturbing him and this makes me jealous,so I decided to open a new facebook account with a different identity,i ask my boyfriend out to see if he will fall for it but he was sincere enough,i then decided to insult his ex through the new facebook account,bt my boyfriend later found out I was d one who did all those things,and now he said he doesn't want the relationship again that av hurt him by tempting him and insulting his ex, have apologized to him by he is still adamant, am confused cos I love him with all my heart. pls what do I do.

you are still a kid.

Advice? Face your books, child.

I don't always like to comment, but sometimes I have to because common sense is rare by experience . I won't attack your explanation but take cognizant that men hate when you intrude their privacy when not welcomed. But at the other hand, what business still connect your boy friend, and the ex to become angry about? A woman who jealously protect, cares. I will appreciate such lady, because I am not the type who uses the past to live my future. It is a prove he has not let go.

The only lady I cried so much for her return in my life years back didn't accept me and was my first love. I had to let go and didn't delete her from my facebook., I didn't post anything on my timeline, I had to live life like nothing happened till date. I was amaze two years time she called and informed me she is changed, and was pleading the relationship should not break. Resisting her request made her tagged me as wicked. But God be good I have someone who Is worth my life trust. Till date she still disturbe me, and I have to let my love life chat with her; to let her know what I had for her was real, but can never come to her again.

Such is life. sometimes the things you try to protect may not end up being yours. You have to let realities decide if you are compatible. You have to test them to be sure if you both have same values to appreciate what you have found among one another. Friend, let him go. It may hurt, but you have to train your instincts to learn when you find a man and you should as well grown yourself off infant age attitude. Best of life journey...

All this wahala now is because of a "boyfriend"..... ..
Anyway... The problem is from his ex not him... Probably things went sour because of her and she still feels bad about it that's why she keeps showing up... You went too far by insulting her... The best u can do is apologize nd learn from this... Stop building a mountain out of a mole Hill.. Jealousy solves nothing.. You could hv told him to do Sumtin about it rather than go that extreme ... Anyway .. I hope he takes you bck

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