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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by pcguru1(m): 10:39pm On Aug 30
I frequently still do, for some weird reason my sexual urges are high and I used to sleep around as in around but decided I don't want to sleep with different girls so I stopped sleeping around obviously capping became the next thing, was bad that I could gap everyday and still be having sex and cap later after sex with a girl. Am not gonna lie to you and say I have stopped just that reduced. I stopped having sex because of didn't want any STI because they are some possible even with condom
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by pcguru1(m): 10:45pm On Aug 30
Zane2point4:

Joke aside bro, here is some serious issues that may affect you later if you dont stop ⛔.

If you later in life have a relationship with any girl, your erection will fail you, why blc you have conditioned your mind to be only stimulated to the hot and sexiest bf in your mobile phone. (due to excess release of domapine that d2 receptors in your brain cant handle)

You may gain an erection but immediately you wana penetrate it will go limp.
You will develop mental forgetfulness.
Save your energy, dont see women as only sexual objects, be a man and stop this act.
Major websites actually gives you the benefits of this acts but wont tell you the ills.

At first this happened at several time but then again I also happened at those time to have consumed alcohol and stress, I cap a lot and the o my thing I can say yo have notice is that while I still have erections I can literally have sex for hours which at first I thought was a good thing but apparently it's not because you don't feel fulfilled and also a 8/10 erection unless the girl is my spec or am really attracted to her, the former part is a big problem no girl wants to sleep with a guy that takes two long to cum because that's stress as she's already cum and you are yet too, and also pride a girl wants to know she made a guy cum if you don't she starts to internalize it as her problem, I know how many times I get the " you are not attracted to me speech" things go back to normal when I take a long nofap rule. Its good to offload this here but thought not embarrassed to share this though.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by savvyChuks(m): 11:17pm On Aug 30
who has also observed that when someone has masturbated for a longtime, they loose a natural appeal to sex.

If their guys are getting erection when they see exposed cleavages, they'll be like
what's there fah.......

Masturbation is really a problem
God help us ooo

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Santos07: 11:36pm On Aug 30
antiFapping:
Glad to hear from you, surely we will win
Amen

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by dottozil: 12:18am On Aug 31
kudos to the op for creating a thread like this, it really caught my attention, i think most masturbation problem arises when guys or girls that are adults are sexually starved so it makes me think is there an age in which guys or girls should be introduced to sex so as to avoid this problem. am open to corrections though.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Zane2point4(m): 2:22am On Aug 31
pcguru1:


At first this happened at several time but then again I also happened at those time to have consumed alcohol and stress, I cap a lot and the o my thing I can say yo have notice is that while I still have erections I can literally have sex for hours which at first I thought was a good thing but apparently it's not because you don't feel fulfilled and also a 8/10 erection unless the girl is my spec or am really attracted to her, the former part is a big problem no girl wants to sleep with a guy that takes two long to cum because that's stress as she's already cum and you are yet too, and also pride a girl wants to know she made a guy cum if you don't she starts to internalize it as her problem, I know how many times I get the " you are not attracted to me speech" things go back to normal when I take a long nofap rule. Its good to offload this here but thought not embarrassed to share this though.
While this sounds like a good thing for most guys that take trams to elongate there duration, delayed ejaculation is also a problem associated with over masturbation.
Sexx is a mental things and everything is being controlled by your mind, if you desensitized you joystick through this constant act and already conditioned your mind to the hot porn in your mobile, then you might also have the probs.
Alcohol and anxiety can also cause erectile dysfunction.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nowenuse: 4:49am On Aug 31
antiFapping:
Another step to recovery is avoiding Pornographic materials be it videos, magazines, songs(you read that right), and sensual and sensitive pictures like all those rubbish we have on Romance section e.g 'instagram model with the largest hips, oranges' topics, or posts like '12 year old with the biggest ukwu on earth' trash, avoid sexual videos of pastors caught digging a member or 'two secondary school students caught pants down'

The point here is, avoiding anything that will 'trigger' you, cos that's the main problem, once you get triggered, all those 'self control' talks may not save you at this point, so avoid anything that will arouse you.

[/b]The last time I fapped, it started with me 'harmlessly' googling the name of one instagram model like that, then her pictures came up, from checking out her pictures, I landed on a complete porn site, the rest became history [b]

LoL grin@ the bolded.

OP, it's surprising how much you dedicated yourself to this topic. Good work though.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Michaelkaay: 5:54am On Aug 31
Emmmmmm at a time I used to be so engrossed in it, I'd download porn over 1gb only to delete it after fapping and when I feel like it again same thing hehehehehehe waste of data, well I still didn't lose interest in the opposite sex and so many of the other things associated, but today I can go a week or 2 without it and if i feel stressed I just fap to relax, those people that masturbate like 5 times a day I just wonder how u guys cope sha, I wouldn't really say I'm addicted much to it and instead of downloading porn I just watch some short clips on twitter and save data, well since Tuesday I haven't masturbated but I'd see my girlfriend today and another tomorrow and we probably might you know wink does that count? cheesy cheesy
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Kingsley1000(m): 7:40am On Aug 31
BETA GET A GF

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Bradley00: 8:13am On Aug 31
I just fapped again embarassed embarassed cry
I hate myself right now....
I want to stop this nonsense

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 8:37am On Aug 31
Bradley00:
I just fapped again embarassed embarassed cry
I hate myself right now....
I want to stop this nonsense

Sorry bro.
How long had you abstained before you wanked.
Then what triggered it.
Do you still have the porn video in your phone.?
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Obodo999(m): 9:24am On Aug 31
It is good Ladies are not commenting about their masturbating. The tought of a lady spreading her pvssy and fingering herself to cum will not help these guys who are trying to stop masturbating. grin

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Michaelkaay: 11:01am On Aug 31
Bradley00:
I just fapped again embarassed embarassed cry
I hate myself right now....
I want to stop this nonsense


First of just stop with the hating yourself thing, just go like oh well it happened again, next time you feel the urge just remember you just did not quite long, and tell yourself to consciously wait for a day or 2, keep doing so and you'll find yourself making progress then you can try a week and so on, just stop hating yourself and think about how to improve undecided

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Ozilina(m): 11:27am On Aug 31
Pls am also among u guyys i was introduced in to watchin pornorgraphy and now am masturbating but i really want to stop kkkanitym i tried i will jus stay 4 weeks den suddenly somtin will jus triigger ma erection an den am onnn
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Romerocollins: 1:55pm On Aug 31
antiFapping:
Hello guys...
So, I woke up this morning with this urge of creating a thread here on Nairaland with the sole aim of reaching out to and bringing together those of us that are addicted to watching pornography and masturbation but are willing to Stop.

I believe everyone knows what Pornography and masturbation are, at least anyone that has access to internet should know.
Porn is rampant these days, you see them virtually everywhere, on billboards, social media platforms, downloading sites, TV adverts, TV series and Reality shows etc. Porn is primarily the main reason for masturbation.

Masturbation is the real issue here, it's not exclusive to a particular gender, girls fap as much as guys, it has assorted nicks like wanking, fapping, jerking off, shooting and the rest. Which ever you Choose to call it, the main point of this thread is to stop it for good.

People who have tried stopping it but didn't succeed, results to preaching the 'health benefits of it' which I once did in order to clear my conscience at one point in time... lol, they give lame excuses why fapping is good for you, they even have a crew which they are well proud of(the one here is Vaseline crew, I assume), funny indeed.

The truth is that Porn and Masturbation does much more harm than any delusional good to you, physically, emotionally or otherwise.

If you are among those that really want to stop, you probably must have typed this cliche on google search bar 'how to stop masturbation' I have done it severally, especially after I just finished 'doing it'. Various blogs would give you various reasons to stop, but the reoccurring points there are summarized below :

1) Porn/Masturbation drains your energy(physical and mental energy)

2) Porn/Masturbation can lead to erection dysfunction or premature climax.

3) Porn/Masturbation reduces your testosterone and your creativity too.

4) Porn/Masturbation drains your Resources, your precious time, money for subscription and the rest.


5) Porn/Masturbation kills you, believe it or not.


Let's share our Challenges here, and for those who were able to overcome this addiction(s), you can share your success stories with us that are still battling in order to encourage us

I used to think I'm all alone on this, by now I know I'm wrong, though my is under control sha
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 2:09pm On Aug 31
Ozilina:
Pls am also among u guyys i was introduced in to watchin pornorgraphy and now am masturbating but i really want to stop kkkanitym i tried i will jus stay 4 weeks den suddenly somtin will jus triigger ma erection an den am onnn
There's a 7 day no wanking challenge.
We're currently on the day 2.
You could start with that first. Each day u comment your progress. And how you've been finding it. Stay strong.�

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 2:12pm On Aug 31
pcguru1:


At first this happened at several time but then again I also happened at those time to have consumed alcohol and stress, I cap a lot and the o my thing I can say yo have notice is that while I still have erections I can literally have sex for hours which at first I thought was a good thing but apparently it's not because you don't feel fulfilled and also a 8/10 erection unless the girl is my spec or am really attracted to her, the former part is a big problem no girl wants to sleep with a guy that takes two long to cum because that's stress as she's already cum and you are yet too, and also pride a girl wants to know she made a guy cum if you don't she starts to internalize it as her problem, I know how many times I get the " you are not attracted to me speech" things go back to normal when I take a long nofap rule. Its good to offload this here but thought not embarrassed to share this though.

There's nothing to be embarrassed about if you really want to stop. Embarrassment is one of the obstacles we encounter on this path of recovery, others are, hate, regret, guilt etc. Don't let these obstacles stop you, don't give in to any of them.
Welcome to the community bro, you're not alone.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 2:21pm On Aug 31
Romerocollins:


I used to think I'm all alone on this, by now I know I'm wrong, though my is under control sha
You are never alone bro.
Please, there's no keeping it under control, the goal is to end it absolutely. Join us on the no Fapping Challenge, check previous comments as a guide.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 2:27pm On Aug 31
You should have a reason you want to quit.

Quitting should not be because you feel bad afterwards. Something concrete. Maybe a Family member. A younger sister,the thought of your mother finding out. Or how if you were to have sex with your girlfriend you wouldn't be able to get it up.
Something or Someone,it could even be a list.
This would reinforce your effort to stay strong so that when the idea pops up. You get to read the list and stay strong.

Also avoid viewing nairaland threads on Babes and Busty ladies and what not at night.

Then this advice depends on your will power and it has worked for the few people who have tried it. .
The last video you wanked to. The one that made you feel guilty. Have it on your phone and watch it occasionally.
Now here is why I say this.
Supposing you abstain from wanking off for a long time and you see a nude scene in a movie or a picture or a gif and youre alone.You would have t urge to self-service off immediately to it. Even if its not your normal porn material you would go for. You will sha manage it and self-service off, Since you've stayed off porn for a while your body would want it.
But with this method, repeated viewing of the porn video would Make it seem normal and with time you would see it as nothing and you wouldn't get an erection watching it.
Watch the video constantly during the day.
Have the video fr like 2 weeks before you delete it..
.
This method should only be done If you've wanked off recently o. Not if its been long.
Recently like 1-2 days.
And the video shouldn't be.A 1hour video. Max 5-7 minhtes video

Hope it helps.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 2:28pm On Aug 31
Bradley00:
I just fapped again embarassed embarassed cry
I hate myself right now....
I want to stop this nonsense

Aiite bro, as I stated earlier on, hate, regret, guilt are some of the post fapping cursors, So, it's normal. However, don't give in to any of them, since you really want to stop, welcome to the community. Please do join us in the 1 week NoFapping challenge that we started a day before yesterday, go through previous comments for a guideline. Stay strong, you're loved, you are not alone.

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 2:44pm On Aug 31
Michaelkaay:
Emmmmmm at a time I used to be so engrossed in it, I'd download porn over 1gb only to delete it after fapping and when I feel like it again same thing hehehehehehe waste of data, well I still didn't lose interest in the opposite sex and so many of the other things associated, but today I can go a week or 2 without it and if i feel stressed I just fap to relax, those people that masturbate like 5 times a day I just wonder how u guys cope sha, I wouldn't really say I'm addicted much to it and instead of downloading porn I just watch some short clips on twitter and save data, well since Tuesday I haven't masturbated but I'd see my girlfriend today and another tomorrow and we probably might you know wink does that count? cheesy cheesy
Probablywink
don't give complacency a foothold sha
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by shotizzy: 3:16pm On Aug 31
This is a good post.. kudos to the OP, I will surely overcome this urge of masturbation.. so help me God.. this is about not having a G.f, I have a galfriend, and I still fap... it is spirtual, only God and determination can stop it.. Am 2/7 @ OP..

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 3:24pm On Aug 31
shotizzy:
This is a good post.. kudos to the OP, I will surely overcome this urge of masturbation.. so help me God.. this is about not having a G.f, I have a galfriend, and I still fap... it is spirtual, only God and determination can stop it.. Am 2/7 @ OP..
Aiite bro, let's walk this path of recovery together...

Surely we can, and we will.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Nnaabros: 3:42pm On Aug 31
xarookqh:

Carry on Man!
An incorrigible member of the Vaseline Crew grin

grin grin He's flying the flag very high and proud grin
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by QuietHammer(m): 3:50pm On Aug 31
So what happens after the seventh day? Ya'll gonna congregate online on a cold night from your individual fap-hideoutsand fap your souls out? Hehehe. Sounds like a plan to me.

But seriously, kudos to you guys for even attempting to stop, even though it's certain most won't make it to the seven-day mark.
The first time I did a seven-day steak I had so much confidence that I was able to finger-bang a shawty on the eight day. Keep on keeping on brothers!
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 5:47pm On Aug 31
QuietHammer:
So what happens after the seventh day? Ya'll gonna congregate online on a cold night from your individual fap-hideoutsand fap your souls out? Hehehe. Sounds like a plan to me.

But seriously, kudos to you guys for even attempting to stop, even though it's certain most won't make it to the seven-day mark.

The first time I did a seven-day steak I had so much confidence that I was able to finger-bang a shawty on the eight day. Keep on keeping on brothers!

Don't be so sure, we are stronger together.
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 7:12pm On Aug 31
I did it again, I managed to abstain from porn and fapping for today, so...

I am in 3/7

REB3L
Prinsola
shotizzy
Santos07

Hey buddies, how are you guys faring

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Prinsola(m): 7:41pm On Aug 31
antiFapping:
I did it again, I managed to abstain from porn and fapping for today, so...

I am in 3/7

REB3L
Prinsola
shotizzy
Santos07

Hey buddies, how are you guys faring

I'm in 2/7

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by REB3L(m): 8:37pm On Aug 31
antiFapping:
I did it again, I managed to abstain from porn and fapping for today, so...

I am in 3/7

REB3L


Hey buddies, how are you guys faring

Lol,I've stopped for more than 6 months. For the sake of this thread.
Me too 3/7

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by antiFapping: 9:08pm On Aug 31
REB3L:

Lol,I've stopped for more than 6 months. For the sake of this thread. Me too 3/7
Wow, that's huge and Encouraging too
Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Santos07: 9:38pm On Aug 31
antiFapping:
I did it again, I managed to abstain from porn and fapping for today, so...

I am in 3/7

REB3L
Prinsola
shotizzy
Santos07

Hey buddies, how are you guys faring
i thank this is a nice way to reduce fapping,i did it again 3/7

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Re: Want To Stop Porn And Masturbation? Get In Here by Ozilina(m): 11:15pm On Aug 31
Am inn for good

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