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Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by MsTom(f): 5:09pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
BreiAna: You aint dumb. You are a woman. Follow your instincts. So sorry this happened to you. If it ever happened to me, I would tell cops about my suspicions and let them come and bust the door open and catch them in action. That way, if she is truly a teenager, he goes to jail coupled with the fact that I get my evidence with reputable witnesses. To me, that is the height of deceipt ( Sleeping with another woman in my house/home). Not telling you to do that though. There are other ways you can get your evidence. Definately not from the man or from his family who apparently are aware of what is going on. It is obvious that the man is involved with the girl who is mos def not his daughter. However, she might be a teenager. Do not get yourself involve in a crime by habouring a man who is suspected to be sleeping with a minor. Immigration only ask for DNA when they have reason to suspect that the child might not be his. Maybe he was able to give them enuff prove for them to waive the DNA test or probably gave a fake DNA result. You need to protect yourself. Never allow a man or any other person drag you into the mud. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
@ Poster Are you sure that is his daughter, because this closeness is beyond strange. Something is really fishy, and my dear you are not paranoid. I really suspect that girl is not his child, (although there are some crazy lunatics who do such things with their children). Don't forget how people lie their way into greener pastures, especially for visa. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by gamechange(m): 5:14pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
Go to www.mycompuflash.com or skymall.com Get the discreet or covert model of the pen, place in location of choice. That will give you the evidence you desire. Make an informed decision based on facts rather than suspicion. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
@ Poster, That girl is prolly his second wife that his parents married on his behalf. I say this because you said that he is a muslim, Remember that they are allowed to marry up to four wives. Again, age is not an issue. In Nigeria, a 67 year old alhaja will marry an eight year old girl. My dear, shine your eye well well, you are not paranoid at all. You are doing the right thing by questioning this abnormality. Keep trusting your instincts. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
@ Poster, Question your husband and tell him how you feel. If he says he is innocent (which I doubt), Tell him that his acts with this girl are very suspicious to you, And he should stop it. If he doesn't, then he is guilty. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by hauler: 5:26pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
chaircover: @ Chaircover, You're the only rational person that's posted on this thread so far. Everybody else seems to be facing the same direction. I still think there's more to this than meets the eye, and the poster has so far managed to tell us whats going on in her mind, i'm sure there are some other things she sees that prove her wrong, but she hasn't stated them. If she was 100% sure about this i doubt if she would be asking for advice on this forum. Anyway, based on what she has typed so far i can understand why everyone has jumped to the same conclusion. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by WAVixen: 5:31pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
chaircover: At last, someone with brains!!! Why do we always say vile and horrible things?! Whether or not the poster's husband is having an affair o we should think before using stupid words. It just goes to show the sort of people we are on the inside. And to the retard who posted she got married because she was in need of a penis, is the greatest slowpoke that ever existed. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by MsTom(f): 5:34pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
hauler: I dont blame anyone for jumping to the same conclusion. It is because it happens in America. Nigerians and funny people from other countries do crazy stuffs to get a visa or citizenship. I have heard of men who do such to their wives. One is a Nigerian man who is married to this time around, another Nigerian woman who had 3 kids for him. Only for him to bring another woman who had a kid into his basement in the guise that she was evicted from her house and she was a related to him. It was about a year later that the first wife got to find out that the woman in the basement was his second wife from nigeria (his village) and her kid was his. This happened in maryland state. It happens. Some men still have their wives in Nigeria. Some other "first wives" are aware that their man has a second wife and they actually live in the same apartment. He man owes his wife to tell her if he wants to have a second wife. That way, she can be ready to face whatever. Nigerians and some other groups practise polygamy here. It is estimated that about 50,000 people do. My problem is the deceipt. If you must do it, tell your present woman so that she can decide on the next move. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by SmashingM(f): 5:37pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
Girlfriend, do not be deceived. That's his wife from the village. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by minute(f): 5:43pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
She seems a bit immature . . . might be shes jealous of you and she is trying to have with her Dad what you have with him. Shes very mixed up and insecure . . its her father's job to deal with this . . he needs to reassure her that she is very special to him and nothing can break the father daughter relationship . . he must be very firm and lay down boundaries with her . . .that is very important . .for her and also for the whole family.It wont happen overnight but with time she will realise her Dad loves her and shes his very special daughter . . you must stay calm when dealing with this remember shes a teenager and has a whole life ahead of her. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 5:45pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
u sure that's his "daughter"? |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
Quote from na2day?, "that is eh! i don talk am tey tey say for judgement day, God go get separate line for nigerians" hahaha, nice one |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by ladoskie45: 6:10pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
niger mentality its happen 4 real, |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by platinumnk(f): 6:11pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
@ Orginal Poster- Dont go running to your husband with your suspicions. If you do, the character may change to keep you fooled if he is what you think. Pretend all is well and INVESTIGATE! No amount of money is worth your sanity And trust me if hes sees that you are wise to him, it can get real ugly real fast. So gather ways to get evidences and get it. Before you accuse, because if you question him now, you may not get the truth. Even if he gets his green card, cant he still be deported? |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by platinumnk(f): 6:13pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
MsTom: Thank you! I am ashamed to say that a family friend from Texas pulled this same stunt. Had a wife from US, and moved his so called "sister" into the womans house. How it blew open, his wife got wise to it |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by chichii: 6:34pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
@ poster please let us know how this story ends, it could help another woman going through the same situation down the line |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by neily(f): 6:38pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
@porterThats exactly his wife not his daughter. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 6:41pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
BreiAna: Sis, are you SURE this is his daughter?! I mean it is possible that you are reading into things wrong however it would also be possible (and sickening) that a man can fall inlove with his daughter. Well unfortunately such a thing has happened in my house hold growing up . I will add that some things are worth sticking to the side lines and observing (you've got enough evidence i am sure) and others need to be recktified/confronted asap. You live in the US as I do, you watch the show Cheaters? lol. He's Nigerian and probably secretive so you might not want to go that route however use some of their tactics, scope him out. Make sure you are prepared and confident so he doesnt convince you that you are mad/crazy or flips the whole saga on you. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by stede(m): 6:56pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
this is a trilla |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Iranoladun(f): 7:30pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
@poster So many probability with the scenario you painted. It reasonable to conclude from your post that you'd confronted your husband with your suspicion before posting on net Then gather evidence DISCRETELY using camera or private investigator. The result of the camera or investigation will determine whether you need to confront him or not |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Nobody: 8:00pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
To the poster, excuse my word but how f--kin silly could you be. Even without asking people here on Nairaland, couldn't you have figured that she isn't his daughter. Let me give you the facts. She is his wife that he has married in Nigeria, probably while you are still living together. I speak from experience. I am a Nigerian male here in good 'ol Deutschland and that sh-t is common with african men here but i am not saying it is all of them but mostly among the really older looking ones not the ones in their twenties. I feel your pain but at the same time i feel like i would cuss you out if you were my sister for letting such sh-t slide. Damn!!!! |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by SisiEko1(f): 9:05pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
She is obviously his Nigerian wife, u can get me to investigate him back here in nigeria , send a go ahead email to kemijadesimi@yahoo.com. Some men re just full of **it |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by bawomolo(m): 9:10pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
He washes her clothes, she walks around in front of him wearing only a towel, he goes inside the bathroom sometimes when she's in the shower, and often waits on her inside the room when she gets out the shower pedo bear approves. |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Kilode1: 9:20pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
"lol--- he married you for his green card--- you must be desperate for a manliness. Enjoy the love triangle my dear His daughter is his wife, and his son is his brother." WORD!!! |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by Kilode1: 9:32pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
blandyne: @Blandyne, In Naija there is nothing wrong with that my sister, dont mind those "Amercanised" Nigerians, if they've lived in what we call[b] face-me-i-face-you[/b] before in naija they will know that a daughter walking around the house with only her towel is not an issue- enough space no dey to dey form privacy The issue is that the poster got owned by a fraudster. The "daughter" is the Naija wifey period, |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by ayettymama(f): 10:35pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
I weep cos of your distorted thinking! bloody f.o.o.ls! not every one is as sick and twisted as some of you NIGERIANS!!! YES I SAID IT!!!! its a nigerian thing!!! thats why the poor woman didnt jump to that conclusion! shes not blind dumb or silly- is she not the one tellin us now?? forgive her for not comin up with theories from the crimes u guys commit who wakes up in the morning to think of new ways to scam people be it for money, visa ANYTHING!!!! KMT! Then those of u who are saying were jumpin to conclusions even the bible says ; people perish due to lack of judgement! a word is enuf for the wise, the writing is there on the wall! who locks himself in the room with his daughter?? doin what pls people dont insult her- theres nothing 'smart' or 'intelligent' about playing with peoples emotions! 8 yrs is a very long time! and they ask me why im wicked! just listen to some of this crap! kmt |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by skyone(m): 10:45pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
And l wont rule out the husband using her contentious daughter for saremental functions well in Nigeria of today some demons dont want to know who is who |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by TmeD0(m): 10:50pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
i even heard that the devil is creating a brand new hell just for nigerians, he said the rate at which we are selling pure water in hell is getting out of hand Grin Grin Grin lwkmd! @ OP, you're in a really dicey situation at the moment. maybe, just maybe you're reading too much meaning to their relationship as you're from two totally different cultures. or maybe he's a pedo or the grand-dad of them all: he's brought his wife or girlfriend from naija. if it's the last one, then agbada don hook wire true true be dat o! like most have suggested, install a well-hidden cam. . .what a minute, u should know this already being an american! hmm, why do i have a feeling you've just cooked this up. . . Peace! |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by platinumnk(f): 10:55pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
even if they were praying , why would they lock the door. They are trying to make an american baby, and the way the thing is, the man must not be good in bed because she aint hollering |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by ayettymama(f): 10:57pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
^^its prob against thier religion to shout! *runs away* |
Re: Can A Nigerian Girl And Her Father Be Romantically Involved? by platinumnk(f): 11:03pm On Feb 25, 2010 |
ayettymama: *dies* |
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