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Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 5:45pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
yeah I do!!! Loud it!!
✌✌
have you read about Cinderella syndrome and Cinderella complex? do so.. it's very educative for ladies.
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by Shugavee(f): 5:46pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


✌✌

have you read about Cinderella syndrome and Cinderella complex?
do so.. it's very educative for ladies.
okay I would!
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 5:48pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
yeah I do!!! Loud it!!
✌✌
have you read about Cinderella syndrome and Cinderella complex? do so.. it's very educative for ladies.
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 5:48pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
okay I would!
kiss
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by Lalas247(f): 5:50pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


Lalas247 see what I was talking about..
Haha , well it’s her opinion ... Cindi has always stood by that
Whatever floats people’s boat ...
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by Lalas247(f): 5:52pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


Yeah, The worst part is no amount of preaching can erase this mentality.
Maybe when the men start giving them less, they'll rethink about their lives and start working very hard.


The Cinderella, does Amazon operate in Nigeria? thought you're currently in Nigeria?

if you can't find it there you can read the extracts on Google too.
Aite I will ask my sis, no already returned back ..
It was a Short visit
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by myself13: 5:52pm On Apr 21, 2018
henry007:


You're worthless if you're not equal to a man.

Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 5:56pm On Apr 21, 2018
Lalas247:
Haha , well it’s her opinion ... Cindi has always stood by that Whatever floats people’s boat ...
you're right.
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by Shugavee(f): 6:00pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


kiss

just did, so that's what u represent? Or like!!
It makes sense but that's saying women need men to be complete n i totally disagree, we all want to hv a man but that should nt define a woman! Depency for feminist is not only money u know?? U are dependent to a man if u belive a man defines u as a lady!! So u would stay in unhealthy relationship just so u hv a man to complete you!! And as a socialist femiNist I disagree but its still a nice ideology tho!! But it kinda supports patriarchy

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Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 6:13pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
just did, so that's what u represent? Or like!!
It makes sense but that's saying women need men to be complete n i totally disagree, we all want to hv a man but that should nt define a woman! Depency for feminist is not only money u know?? U are dependent to a man if u belive a man defines u as a lady!! So u would stay in unhealthy relationship just so u hv a man to complete you!! And as a socialist femiNist I disagree but its still a nice ideology tho!! But it kinda supports patriarchy

no no no.. I mean that article defines dependent ladies.
just as there is Stockholm syndrome.. dependent ladies are scared of being independent
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by Shugavee(f): 6:22pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


no no no.. I mean that article defines dependent ladies.
just as there is Stockholm syndrome.. dependent ladies are scared of being independent
okay that part yes !! U know naw!! We go read am reach end!!

Some ladies r quiet embarrassing!!! U believe u are a helper! Helper ko !! A man that made money with out ur help nko did he die!!! Are u a helper to urself? If u r really a helper date a totally broke guy!! Don't come here n say u are a helper but expecting money n so much more from a man
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:00pm On Apr 21, 2018
Shugavee:
okay that part yes !! U know naw!! We go read am reach end!!

Some ladies r quiet embarrassing!!! U believe u are a helper! Helper ko !! A man that made money with out ur help nko did he die!!! Are u a helper to urself? If u r really a helper date a totally broke guy!! Don't come here n say u are a helper but expecting money n so much more from a man

you've earned my respect on this forum.

That Cinderella complex is very educative, dependent ladies are scared of being independent because they feel as a lady you must need a man to be a provider for your every needs.
Some even suffer when they lost their spouses or when their spouses lose their jobs.

It's also revealed that since feminism came on the rise, marriages in America have reduced from 76 to 60% and will continue to reduce because independent made women don't have marriage as a priority.

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Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by shaiba(f): 7:28pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


we learn from past experiences..
spending in a relationship doesn't mean you should spend more, the guy should spend more .

like if he's spending 50k you should spend 20k,
it's better than not spending at all and being stingy/leech.

Thanks. I did learn a great lesson, let go and spend more on me n family. Help when I can, invest too. Feels good working n spending. Looking forward to a holiday trip to....
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 7:44pm On Apr 21, 2018
shaiba:


Thanks. I did learn a great lesson, let go and spend more on me n family. Help when I can, invest too. Feels good working n spending. Looking forward to a holiday trip to....

Nice meeting you.
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by 2buffagain(m): 8:22pm On Apr 21, 2018
Evaberry:
lol

Some girls who earn better than their boyfriends demand more

It depends on the female.


This dude just wants to escape responsibility.


A man who has balls will never be scared of bills.


Hustle hard and bills will be scared of you!

Here we go again. "A man who has balls".
What does his preference have to do with his balls? undecided
Parasitic fish-brain woman logic = "If he doesn't agree with me, attack his manhood!"

Maybe you don't know that a real woman who has falopian tube should be able to prove that she can support herself?
It is only slack or stank pvssied idiots without functioning ovaries that parasitically drain their partner's resources just because y'all are trying to enjoy each others company.

Choose what you are!
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by 2buffagain(m): 8:34pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


you've earned my respect on this forum.

That Cinderella complex is very educative, dependent ladies are scared of being independent because they feel as a lady you must need a man to be a provider for your every needs.
Some even suffer when they lost their spouses or when their spouses lose their jobs.

It's also revealed that since feminism came on the rise, marriages in America have reduced from 76 to 60% and will continue to reduce because independent made women don't have marriage as a priority .

Thats great!
Men are generally okay with this no marriage thing too.

It is better that way so that when a girl is marrying, it is for the right reasons, and not just "Ok I need to find an ATM to lock down. Can't be going to work everyday sef". You know the type that want an expensive wedding, yet want the man to pay for everything. Totally disconnected from reality.

Out here in the US, when I talk with most naija girls, I just see a lack of vision. Yes they have their small jobs or whatever, but if you dig deeper you find that a lot of them DON'T want to be working. They keep talking bout missing naija because at the end of the day They'd rather sit at home while hubby slaves for them and brings them money.

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Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by Shugavee(f): 8:40pm On Apr 21, 2018
2buffagain:


Thats great!
Men are generally okay with this no marriage thing too.

It is better that way so that when a girl is marrying, it is for the right reasons, and not just "Ok I need to find an ATM to lock down. Can't be going to work everyday sef". You know the type that want an expensive wedding, yet want the man to pay for everything. Totally disconnected from reality.

Out here in the US, when I talk with most naija girls, I just see a lack of vision. Yes they have their small jobs or whatever, but if you dig deeper you find that a lot of them DON'T want to be working. They keep talking bout missing naija because at the end of the day They'd rather sit at home while hubby slaves for them and brings them money.
i hate this thinking so badly,,,,, seeing men as finacial slaves!! Why should a man be ur major source of income!! That's fuckkked up

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Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by Nobody: 8:43pm On Apr 21, 2018
TheUpsetGirl1:


that's a bit harsh



Why am I gettin' mentions from a post made nearly a year ago?
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 10:24pm On Apr 21, 2018
2buffagain:


Thats great!
Men are generally okay with this no marriage thing too.

It is better that way so that when a girl is marrying, it is for the right reasons, and not just "Ok I need to find an ATM to lock down. Can't be going to work everyday sef". You know the type that want an expensive wedding, yet want the man to pay for everything. Totally disconnected from reality.

Out here in the US, when I talk with most naija girls, I just see a lack of vision. Yes they have their small jobs or whatever, but if you dig deeper you find that a lot of them DON'T want to be working. They keep talking bout missing naija because at the end of the day They'd rather sit at home while hubby slaves for them and brings them money.

The dependency mentality follows Nigerian ladies to everywhere they go.
Re: I Can't Date Any Lady That Earns Less Than N200K - Nigerian Man by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 10:38pm On Apr 21, 2018
ShyCypher:




Why am I gettin' mentions from a post made nearly a year ago?
lol

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