IamKashyBaby:



Its not about Spiritual husband coz there is no such thing... its all about her attitude sha...Dont get that wrong..

kenchop:
BRO DONT MIND PEOPLE WHO TELL YOU THAT THEY DONT BELIVE IN SPIRITUAL THINGS. BRO THE PROBLEM IS REAL. I'M SO SORRY TO SAY THIS, BUT MOST WOMEN FROM EDO STATE ARE USUALLY POSSESSED , I HAVE HAD MY OWN EXPERIENCE WITH A BENIN WOMAN, BUT THANK GOD FOR HIS MERCIES. FROM YOUR SYORY , ITS CLEAR SHE PLAYED THE PREGNANCY CARD ON YOU AND YOU FELL. MINE TRIED IT TOO, BUT GOD PASS THEM. MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TO EMBRACE GOD TOTALLY,TURN PRAYER WORRIOR, PRAY DANGEROUS PRAYERS IN YOUR HOUSE, YOU WILL SEE THAT THE HOUSE WILL BE TOO HOT FOR HER, SHE WILL FLEE ON HER OWN. GET CLOSE TO A REAL MAN OF GOD TO AID YOU IN PRAYERS. IF IT IS TOO DIFFICULT FOR YOU, TRY HARD TO SEPARATE FROM HER(THIS MAY BE A DIFFICULT ONE) YOU SAID YOUR WIFE PRAYS TOO, MY GIRL THEN WAS HEAD OF PROTOCOL AT HER CHURCH, SHE EVEN CONNECTED ME TO HE PASTOR UNCLE. SHE KNEW ALL THE STRONG PASTORS AND PROPHETS, BUT ALL NA WASH. IT WONT GET BETTER ,EXCEPT YOU RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. SHE WONT STOP DEALING WITH YOU TILL YOU GO DOWN BELOW. LIFE HAS NO DUPLICATE. PUT SENTIMENTS ASIDE AND FLEE. IM SURE WITHIN YOURSELF YOU KNOW YOU HAVE MADE A MISTAKE IN MARRIAGE. SO GET OUT NOW YOU STILL HAVE YOUR HEALTH AND LIFE IN ONE PIECE. THE CHILD THAT YOU THINK IS YOURS MAY NOT EVEN BE YOURS. I MAY SOUND VERY HARSH, BUT THIS IS REALITY. THE DEVIL IS VERY WICKED. I AM TALKING OUT OF EXPERIENCE. PEOPLE MAY HATE WHAT IM SAYING BUT ITS REALITY. I HAVE GOOD FRIEND FROM EDO STATE, BUT THEY WILL TELL YOU THAT THEY WONT MARRY A BENIN WOMAN.
GOOD LUCK

IamKashyBaby:
I personally do not believe in this "spiritual"
thing or ish...

This will not solve ur problem if u keep relying on this matter..u lost ur biznesz, u lost ur job & now ur broke...

Why not talk to ur wife how to sort out all ur problems especially in financial aspect sha? Too many rich ppol who hit the rock bottom as well..Now, pointing fingers on whose to blame is NOT an option..

AuroraB:
I think those advising him not to go solo on the path of deliverance are working with or for his wife!
Op, race to MFM immediately. Don't even let her know where you are going to

Frenchfriez:
I read through the comments posted by many and I smile, many likely didn't read through and absorb the story. Few who read through didnt read between the lines.
I'm not a spiritualist, but as a realist this has little or nothing to do with chance or coincidence. It actually beats me when Africans chose to deny the existence and reality of dark powers. Its a saddening trend.
Op should take a long hard look and xray his situation, drastic times call for drastic measures. Your wife may not be the direct cause of the problem but this certainly has something to do with her. Be wise with the times

Frenchfriez:
I read through the comments posted by many and I smile, many likely didn't read through and absorb the story. Few who read through didnt read between the lines.
I'm not a spiritualist, but as a realist this has little or nothing to do with chance or coincidence. It actually beats me when Africans chose to deny the existence and reality of dark powers. Its a saddening trend.
Op should take a long hard look and xray his situation, drastic times call for drastic measures. Your wife may not be the direct cause of the problem but this certainly has something to do with her. Be wise with the times

They just keep on coming

josite:
take it from me.all you need is to renew your mind with the world of GOD.YOU are allowing your mind to suggest evil thoughts to you which you eventually actioned.go to a good church where you are taught soundly ilke daystar ,like kicc.your wife is not your problem.it is the devil playing a mind game on you.very soon he will suggest to u to commit suicide or kill your wife.you even need the deliverance more than your wife.in busiines there is business cycle wherein business goes down to come up again.

luxy44:
I understand the battle going on in your mind. And it is good your wife is not seen as a witch by you. Please discuss your decision with your wife since you can't pay your rent anymore. She might be able to raise the money, you never can tell. Relax and look inward, you will rise again.

freshvine:
Sorry about your predicaments but the truth is your marriage is the cause of your affliction. It's time to confront your wife but in a lovely manner both of you can find closure. What the spirit husband is doing is to render you useless and finally destroy the marriage so that your wife will be free of you and betrothed to him alone. But before the conversation with your wife, try stay awake most nights to watch over her and the way she sleeps.

Spirit husbands will send different afflictions to you including witches and wizards. Wherever you turn and whatever you do, you'll only attract hatred and jealousy from people and the evil amongst this poll will want to hurt you indirectly or directly.

Most ladies are aware that they're having these challenges hence they tend to be more religious than being spiritual. You'll notice whenever you make love to your wife, something terrible or insignificant as it may be happens thereafter. My bro, you've purchased the goods of the spirits.

How do women attract spirit husband?

Background : Our background says a lot of our individual personalities. If her parents had worshipped some useless gods and did sacrifices to protect her, definitely she'll be possessed with demonic powers warding off eligible men. The demon will come as a spirit being to be having canal knowledge of her from time to time. Majority of our parents did unspeakable things for family protection in the past.

Sex : our young ladies due to material things run after occultic men and money ritualist. Believe me, women are highly needed to make their sacrifices potent. Some requirements are to sleep with unsuspecting women and mostly women are not the targets but a vehicle to their target chain, the other successful men who will ignorantly sleep with them. When once this occultic men have had their time with any female, automatically, a demon is assigned to her to be a talent and destiny collector from her unsuspecting men in her life. Marrying such lady simply means you'll be contributing to the food chain of the original occultic man. Whenever you become too useless, your wife leaves you to another successful man and the cycle continues. Their prey is always beautiful ladies.

You need deliverance for your wife.

If you become stubborn, they'll render you impotent, attack your health.

PaperLace:
So, who is pursuing Dangote?
His trucks are always involved in one accident or the other.

Frenchfriez:
I read through the comments posted by many and I smile, many likely didn't read through and absorb the story. Few who read through didnt read between the lines.
I'm not a spiritualist, but as a realist this has little or nothing to do with chance or coincidence. It actually beats me when Africans chose to deny the existence and reality of dark powers. Its a saddening trend.
Op should take a long hard look and xray his situation, drastic times call for drastic measures. Your wife may not be the direct cause of the problem but this certainly has something to do with her. Be wise with the times

allenroundabout:

Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

FortifiedCity:
Onye Aba

allenroundabout:

Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

mazimee:
Why do you have to tie your whole misfortune to your wife?

I bet you did not read th epart where a Husband who had six tucks before marriage, had to seek and got a "Driving job" for #35,000..... only for thios wife to still come to that place of work, lie against him and ensure he lost that job?

This man will eventually lose hi slife, if he does not act swiftly against this his demonic wife.

"Alertness and Deductive reasoning" are the greatest weapons of the wise Man.

Go figure.