tens4real:
wow! am in lagos which part of nigeria are you at pls?

makydebbie:
I'm at Accra.

Evaberry:
..
some guys are worth being a side chick for

tens4real:
damn left accra last month... me fi ghana oo...how can i get in touch wit u wen am in ghana pls?

makydebbie:
Lol, you can't get in touch with me. Anyways you can always mention me.

makydebbie:
Remind me. I'm good, you?

tens4real:
lol...y cant i get in touch with you pls?am i that bad?

fabulousfortune:
Haha... let bygones be bygones

I'm okay....

makydebbie:
I don't know, but I want you to remind me.

fabulousfortune:
C'mon dat was like last yr o this is a new yr. Nd d way it seems it looks like u have anoda account?

makydebbie:
Being independent and also knowing your self worth.
And also, sex shouldn't be the only thing you're offering your guy, then you're utterly useless as he can get it elsewhere too. Be a lady of substance.

Most sensible statement I've come across today...


One plate of chicken for you

kozmicity:

Most sensible statement I've come across today...


One plate of chicken for you

makydebbie:
Where is my chicken? I love chicken oo

kozmicity:

I'm still thinking of how to kill it...

Should I hang it or just put it in hot water like that...?? :'

chidichuddo:


don't go there bro

e de bible oo

a man who can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel

makydebbie:
Ah! Just go to KFC and buy jare.

I forgot all my money at the bank...

kozmicity:

I forgot all my money at the bank...

makydebbie:
Yea I do, Makydee. Last year right? Aiit.

fabulousfortune:
Yea. Alas we've reached a compromise. Have a gud nite rest

Luckygurl:


Believe me it's no problem
I acted like I didn't know what you meant cos I wanted to play around this evening

So you think the idea of having memories of multiple sex partner is the best? Heck! It might work for you but particularly wouldn't work for me.
I'll never deny that sex is pleasurable, who doesn't know that? The media paints it as such. I might as well enjoy it more than he will. But, what sounds more pleasurable to me is the peace of mind that comes along with having it at the right time knowing you have nothing to worry about.

We broke up on a totally different ground, sex was not it, or maybe it was but not the sole reason. So this is how I'd have carried the thoughts of the oohs and aahs, the orgasmic feelings and all that baggage to a totally new relationship.
How long will I continue like that before I settle with one person?
I can't deal abeg

Mind you!! I'm very vocal about sex, I don't shy away from talking about it under the guise of not engaging in it. I have friends that are pros in it and we gist like I've had a first hand experience
Some of my comments a few times here on NL depicts me as someone who has gotten loads of it but when it comes to the real deal, I disappear into thin air

There are no lessons to be learnt in this regard
If sex is the basis for us to florish, then the door is wide open for you to take a walk. You're not just for me. You'll easily see someone who would give you an overdose of it and you'll enjoy it non stop.
Same way I'd find someone who understands my values and will do everything to see me stand by it

The only lesson learnt is to tune down the stubbornness a bit. Everyone needs their ego to be fed at some point, just don't go overboard with it's.

makydebbie:
No you're not. I just don't do it.

TimeMod3:
I felt your hands were moving more quickly than your thoughts. The upper parts in bold appeared disjointed and incoherent. Seems there is a mentality gap you need to fix, while that of the lower parts were more in harmony.

I was rather not impressed (not that you were bound to) how you applied a sense of presumption which could never have been a sufficient component of an otherwise working relationship.
In fewer words, you need to sit down and have a retrospect in your truest feelings. Whether or not you give sex (which you recoiled to admit after being evasive) wouldn't have had much effects than your being stubborn(you called it your ego, judging by the little of yourself you gave reasonably) Lol.
I rather you worked on yourself than giving a bad excuse from a pre conceived mindset (sex with multiple partners. Lol )

Luckygurl:


Life's a process, we learn and grow each day.

That aspect of me is something I agree should be worked on, my first reply on this thread was all about it.

The emboldened said it all, there are more important issues to tackle in a relationship, heck! It shouldn't be the topmost priority (for me).

makydebbie:
Your atm nko?

kozmicity:

Errm...Errm...Ermm
I'll get back to you on this...

kozmicity:

I'm still thinking of how to kill it...

Should I hang it or just put it in hot water like that...?? :'

Bunmi10:


Hahaha! Clown

TimeMod3:
I think you sound interesting. You come off as one who had long made up her mind and not ready yet to give in ; a kinda tougher mindset that very often characterized younger adults ( guess you're very young) in decision making.

Maybe, just maybe, you could loose a little hold of it when there is a guy who could turn you on at the end point close to/ before the next big step.(think again) Lol.
Sometimes, what we think might not work for us might really work for us but because we've shut it out from the get go. (think yet again)
You think you can cope at this very younger age?