I wrote about my BF of 8yrs, who is getting married today, a few days ago. Here is the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/4111909/boyfriend-8years-getting-married-saturday#61340485


In a surprising turn of events, my bf thought it would be a good idea to tell his wife to be about me (I don't know what he wanted to achieve by doing that)

Well, she called me yesterday night telling me she would like to talk and dialogue but we should not be deceived the wedding would still go as planned since she cannot be disgraced.

I agreed to meet her and frankly told her on the phone I was staying away and didn't plan to steal or share her man with her since he had chosen to be with her. I met her yesterday night in front of a restaurant, she looked quite innocent and I felt guilty for being a part of the deceit. Little did I know she had her own plans. Before I could say jack, a couple of guys had surrounded me, moments later a couple of kicks and punches rained on me (I'm not weak so please don't assume I couldn't​ have defended myself)

While the plethora of kicks kept coming, hatred filled my heart, hatred for this sick notion of conforming to society, hatred of myself for being remorseful for my actions and trying to be cordial with his wife. She then proceeded to tell me "stay away from my man" I wanted to say "bitch he was never yours" but I knew there was no point. They could have spread my face all over social media yesterday night or even worse killed me, I had life I was comfortable with the fact that I had efo riro waiting for me at home and the fact that I wouldn't have to be at the wedding sucking up my guilt and pretending to be happy for the couple.

I was attacked for loving someone who loved me back but can't be with me, he's getting married today and I can't even tell him look what your wife did, Somehow I still want to cause commotion purely for my own entertainment by walking into the church with all my bruises and be like your dear wife did this to me and watch him abandon her at the altar but no, I'll take the high road and forget I ever loved him, forget what it means to feel loved in the end we all die alone.

Ps: I'll tell you guys if I later decide scattering the wedding will be my high road

You need to involve the police.

This woman battered and assaulted you now that's a crime. I really doubt he will abandon her at the alter tho.


although if it were me I would scatter the wedding then arrest her right in her damn wedding,


prison air is always good for mentally sick person

At first why she go follow married a man, they never beat her finish

This fucking gay ass nigga again.

Nana Agradaa fall on you!

baski92:
At first why she go follow married a man, they never beat her finish

dude is gay. .. even the husband

Dasherz:

dude is gay. .. even the husband

very interesting

I sent you a mail, inbox me.

i don't support her actions it's childish, but at the same time I will advice you to leave this as it is. the most important decisions in life are not made comfortably, it involves sacrifice. it's his choice to marry his GF and it may sound awkward but it's best that she knows about his relationships status between you 2. let this one go and I hope tomorrow you will see a better angle to these events. stay safe.

You people should ask this gay what he was doing with a man like him for 8 good years calling him your bf....wasted generation...imagine I can’t believe am commenting on a gay story...spits on thread

Take your st1nky gayish azz out of this forum you pvnk.

IamKashyBaby:
8yrs of forbidden love..

If ur in Nigeria then ur "love affair" is a taboo since u are both men..Nigeria is against LGBT & I think u have to accept your fate that your bf wants to marry a woman & probably have his own family rather than go to a prison for 14yrs especially if both of you can't afford to travel & live in abroad where LGBT is accepted..

I feel sorry for u..I think its better if u accept the fact that you & ur bf don't have a "FOREVER"

This won't be easy but I believe u can do it..One step at a time.

Good luck.

We have actually been in Canada for a while now. I only came to attend the wedding

rifasenate11:
i don't support her actions it's childish, but at the same time I will advice you to leave this as it is. the most important decisions in life are not made comfortably, it involves sacrifice. it's his choice to marry his GF and it may sound awkward but it's best that she knows about his relationships status between you 2. let this one go and I hope tomorrow you will see a better angle to these events. stay safe.

It's why I've decided not to say anything to her man, I'll let it all go and be the mature one here.

donsimo:
I sent you a mail, inbox me.

I Just did

bedford101:
You people should ask this gay what he was doing with a man like him for 8 good years calling him your bf....wasted generation...imagine I can’t believe am commenting on a gay story...spits on thread

Wow, strong words. It's your opinion and you're entitled to it. It's so easy to judge a book by its cover nowadays we sometimes lose our civility whilst doing it.

JohnIbori:


We have actually been in Canada for a while now. I only came to attend the wedding

U will attend his wedding for what? U know u will only inflict more pain to urself sha...

God do come abeg
2000 years is enof jawe

Evaberry:
You need to involve the police.

This woman battered and assaulted you now that's a crime. I really doubt he will abandon her at the alter tho.


although if it were me I would scatter the wedding then arrest her right in her damn wedding,


prison air is always good for mentally sick person

My dear that dude issa gay, I read the story before... What rubbish

Man you issa faggit. Brah get yoself checked in the brain cos it's just sick. Ain't judging im just suggesting something u could do for ur health

O God! You Again?

This gay again. Even gay- lussac wasn't gay.

muller101:
This gay again. Even gay- lussac wasn't gay.

Please stop with this, the joke is getting old

DeadRat:
O God! You Again?

Sorry, you don't have to comment you know abi?

baski92:
At first why she go follow married a man, they never beat her finish

Did u read d story at all? Ehya 3:14 am, sleep dey ur eye

Nigga, you gay too

donsimo:
I sent you a mail, inbox me.

JohnIbori:
I wrote about my BF of 8yrs, who is getting married today, a few days ago. Here is the link.

https://www.nairaland.com/4111909/boyfriend-8years-getting-married-saturday#61340485


In a surprising turn of events, my bf thought it would be a good idea to tell his wife to be about me (I don't know what he wanted to achieve by doing that)

Well, she called me yesterday night telling me she would like to talk and dialogue but we should not be deceived the wedding would still go as planned since she cannot be disgraced.

I agreed to meet her and frankly told her on the phone I was staying away and didn't plan to steal or share her man with her since he had chosen to be with her. I met her yesterday night in front of a restaurant, she looked quite innocent and I felt guilty for being a part of the deceit. Little did I know she had her own plans. Before I could say jack, a couple of guys had surrounded me, moments later a couple of kicks and punches rained on me (I'm not weak so please don't assume I couldn't​ have defended myself)

While the plethora of kicks kept coming, hatred filled my heart, hatred for this sick notion of conforming to society, hatred of myself for being remorseful for my actions and trying to be cordial with his wife. She then proceeded to tell me "stay away from my man" I wanted to say "bitch he was never yours" but I knew there was no point. They could have spread my face all over social media yesterday night or even worse killed me, I had life I was comfortable with the fact that I had efo riro waiting for me at home and the fact that I wouldn't have to be at the wedding sucking up my guilt and pretending to be happy for the couple.

I was attacked for loving someone who loved me back but can't be with me, he's getting married today and I can't even tell him look what your wife did, Somehow I still want to cause commotion purely for my own entertainment by walking into the church with all my bruises and be like your dear wife did this to me and watch him abandon her at the altar but no, I'll take the high road and forget I ever loved him, forget what it means to feel loved in the end we all die alone.

Ps: I'll tell you guys if I later decide scattering the wedding will be my high road

This is so so heartbreaking... Dunno what to say.. Get well soon..

baski92:
very interesting

Na you comment finish me.... Lol..

Effiezynews:



Na you comment finish me.... Lol..

lol that how we roll

Augustap:

Did u read d story at all? Ehya 3:14 am, sleep dey ur eye

your mother still dey sleep at this time of day, oya go wake her up

baski92:
your mother still dey sleep at this time of day, oya go wake her up

Was i supposed to laugh at that desert -like joke

Augustap:

Was i supposed to laugh at that desert -like joke

not at all, start dey cry