Sugar97:
There are women who have been hurt by men and are so embittered that they seize every opportunity to vent their anger on men. This is not feminism.

Some women have excess testosterone which makes them want to compete with men. Again this is not feminism.

True feminism recognises that men have roles that are distinct from those of women.

True feminism simply requests that the roles of women are not seen as inferior to those of men, but complementary.

True feminism requires that no one is discriminated against simply because they are feminine.

My own feminism is not troublesome o, it doesn't even claim equality sef

Tajbol4splend:




Please come and marry me

EzeEbira:
The babe make sense die,

Tajbol4splend:



You better no rival me because I get gun

ReinaFarine:
Hiya... My cockswinging XY counterparts....

I think you're having a misconception of the word feminism in the first place...
I love Chimamanda Adichie's definition of the word... 'A person who believes in the social, political and economic Equality of the sexes'

I'm just gonna state few facts....

As popular as Chimamanda is for her work...
She was tipping a valet who had brought her car around for her. Her friend, who just happened to be a man, was sitting in the passenger seat, and as she handed the boy the money, he looked at the man and said, “Thank you, sir.”

I along with millions of my fellow NLers have heard of instances of divorce, witch hunting and brutality because of a woman's repeated conception of the female child....

It is a known fact that 60% of northern Nigerians marry at the age of 16 and only about 40% of them continue with their education....

I know for a fact that employers will most likely pick a man over a woman with equal qualification... I love my dad but he does this too... They give reasons like she will concentrate more on her home than her job... But I think that's because she was brought up to think that's what she's suppose to do....

I will use the most popular reason some Nigerian women are fighting for feminism...
A sexually promiscuous boy Vs. A sexually promiscuous girl...
A boy that drinks, smokes, does drugs and others will grow out of it with time... But a girl is an 'omo wobe' that is never marriageable

I think you will find very rare instance of an African woman saying she's going to work and her husband should sit at home... But intelligently stupid (forgive my language) men say that all the time without fear...

Yes.... You say you're not enslaving the for child... But how many times have you castigated Tiwa Savage for her manner of expression and laugh when Burna boy shows the same kind of morality....

When I went to serve, I wanted to get an apartment and my dad was like.... What are people going to say... A single Teenage girl.... Living alone.... Heeyah... His hands are not there oh!

I'm just 20 and I cannot count the number of wedding pictures my mum sends to me in a week....

We are free to do what we want... Ha!
How many actually know that....

I must reiterate that, gender is not as a result of accomplishment in previous life.... You just came out either with a swinging rod or a hole beneath.... So when I hear... A woman is not suppose to take like that.... Or a woman is not suppose to do that.... I just feel.... Adichie rightly said;
The problem with gender is that it prescribes who we should be rather than who we are

I don't know.... You think women are not enslaved...

Ha....
We are not asking for pity and favours... We are asking for us to be treated without gender discrimination.

How many of you will hire a female electrician to wire your house....

If the only reason I'm not allowed to do something is because there are sacs on my chest, that is sexist....

Paranoid? Insecure?

I agree with you on some of this... I think the best way to break them outta that shell they've got wrapped around them is by informing them of who they are and who they can be....

It is by educating the girl child...

It is by stop calling girls Olosho on social media

It is by saying no to underage marriage....

It is by treating everyone without consciousness of the gender....

I mean will you actually hit your best friend the way you want to beat your wife.... She's more than your best friend.... She's your everything.....

Paying for dates.... Lol.... Well.... If your woman is financially buoyant, I don't see why the heck not....

I'm just gonna say.... Whether it is paying the bills.... Or doing your laundry and house chores.... Everybody does something in the relationship... And it is god damned important....

I'm proudly feminist....
Truly African....

Tajbol4splend:




Please come and marry me

Oyindidi:
Tahr.a, what happened on your thread?

Tahra:
I have no idea.

Tahra:
I have no idea.

Augustap:
The idea of feminism is quite misunderstood. The feminists are not asking for a chance to rule men or even rule the world. They are just seeking equality, they want their voice of reason to be heard. When the girl child becomes an important entity in a family and is regarded as equal to a male, things will be fine. No one is trying to paint men as villains, sometimes misconceptions could arise. The girl child iis given less respect, less care, less education, less love, maltreatments and funny enough more is expected of them. You'll never hear a boy forced into early marriage. Some parents may send their sons to school but not their daughters; all because they think her place is in the kitchen. Most times we forget that women play important roles in every activities of life. Why then do we think that the feminine folks are not intelligent, dignified and allowed to do some certain things? Why are they restricted? It's not up to a month that the women in Saudi Arabia were allowed to drive vehicles. Some countries still prohibit women from getting involved in politics. When a female boss scolds a staff, she is rude and arrogant but when it's a male boss, he has discipline. A spinster is not supposed to have a car cos the guys will run from her. But a man with a car is tagged an achievement. Since men willingly entrusts women with the task of raising their children and helping the family grow, they should also give them the chance to be progressive outside of marriage. Being a career woman, politician, feminist, etc will not stop a responsible woman from managing her home lovingly. Leave the feminists to have peace of mind. I'm not a feminist and i do not support the idealism of chauvinism. I only promote EQUALITY.

Sugar97:


Awwwn...lol

My dad says he will only accept at least 2 plots of land in Eko Atlantic as bride price o

Oyindidi:
Don't be afraid of anyone here. That thread was uncalled for. Be bold

sunshineG:
legend taught you how to delete threads ba

EzeEbira:
Hehehe who no like better thing

EzeEbira:
Hehehe who no like better thing

Tahra:
Nah,mynd must've done it for me.

Tahra:
Bold,yeah. Hope my thread wasn't turned into a battleground?

sunshineG:
I don't trust you jare

Oyindidi:
I have no idea cos I was offline.

Blackhawk03:


Scotfree! Where's thy chill?

sunshineG:
legend taught you how to delete threads ba

Tahra:
Oh.How do you do?

NeeKlaus:

Keyboard warrior. You are going about quoting people and forming tough, shey?

After you will open a thread and plead with us to beg Mr This and Sister That on your behalf.

This virtual life is getting into most of you girls' heads.

Oyindidi:
I'm fine jare, you?

Tahra:
Bold,yeah. Hope my thread wasn't turned into a battleground?

Sugar97:
There are women who have been hurt by men and are so embittered that they seize every opportunity to vent their anger on men. This is not feminism.

Some women have excess testosterone which makes them want to compete with men. Again this is not feminism.

True feminism recognises that men have roles that are distinct from those of women.

True feminism simply requests that the roles of women are not seen as inferior to those of men, but complementary.

True feminism requires that no one is discriminated against simply because they are feminine.

My own feminism is not troublesome o, it doesn't even claim equality sef

QueenSekxy:
yea better one o,,really enjoyed