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Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by 9japrof(m): 5:24am On Oct 25, 2017 |
it's a tough call, a decision one has to wait till something like that occurs because a lot of factors has to be considered before making a decision. what if you husband to be believes in shiiit flying around that because he wants to marry you, that's why he had that terrible accident, that if he wants to live, he has to avoid you like plague, would you still be there? people in that condition usually have PTSD, they are angry and bitter with life because of change of circumstances, you as a would be spouse, would you hook wink yourself for life with a man that's likely going to be bitter for the rest of his life? you as a lady should know that tables would be turned, are you willing to be sole provider of the family, stay without sex for much of marital life, have extracurricular schedule before and after work tending for the sick man all without grumbling. Majority of our mothers would stay but girls of nowadays, majority are impatient and wouldnt criticize them much. Dont we all want a better life? anybody that says she will stay, I don't believe you at least for now. in as much we dont pray for bad things to come our way, I still believe in the saying that "Keep praying for the best, but expect the worse" If I as a dude few months before marriage and this happens, there is 80% chances that I would quit, bit if this shit happens right after marriage and the wife in question has a positive outlook to life, yea ama stay for life till death do us part |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 6:46am On Oct 25, 2017 |
sunshineG: bullshit...she cheated on him according to the movie and he possibly never sired any of the children that woman had for him |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 6:49am On Oct 25, 2017 |
well been the realist that I am I would call of the wedding myself and employ a nanny or someone to cater for me....instead of putting the young woman through torment her entire life |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by TheRealestGuy(m): 7:09am On Oct 25, 2017 |
QueenSekxy: Lol. What would you do love? Very tough call though. Does it mean life is meaningless without sex? Coz the major issue I sense here is the fact that he can't bang anymore. One just has to pray not to ever be in such a shitty situation. How was your night nne? |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by TheRealestGuy(m): 7:12am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Praisles: Hollywood movie ma'am, not nollywood. I think the title is You Before Me or something g like that. So if you were in the situation, what would you do? |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 7:12am On Oct 25, 2017 |
AnthonioAlsaid:it was much later...not at the beginning She lasted for 1965 to 1995 right from a very young age You know she wrote the book that was adopted for the movie |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Praisles(f): 7:18am On Oct 25, 2017 |
TheRealestGuy:ho really? saw something similar in brave, no vex sir. what i would do? let me read the conditions attached again, will reply you soon hehehe |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by TheRealestGuy(m): 7:25am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Praisles: Lol. Okay,waiting. Lalasticlala farano, rocktation, FP worthy material right here. Let's get nairalanders' wide opinion on this. |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by QueenSekxy(f): 7:36am On Oct 25, 2017 |
TheRealestGuy:lolz na the thing ..it was cool yours? |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by TheRealestGuy(m): 8:04am On Oct 25, 2017 |
QueenSekxy: Was nicee. Slept like a baby... You're still evading answering the question What would you do if you're in such a situation dear |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by TheRealestGuy(m): 8:05am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Airforce1 what do you think bro? |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 9:58am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Praisles: Me Before You. |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by TheRealestGuy(m): 10:50am On Oct 25, 2017 |
Blackfyre: Exactly, that's the movie bro. |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 1:05pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
To be honest I can't continue with the wedding.secondly I will still be a good friend to him.i will help him wherever he needs my attention that's all joor. |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
What? There's nothing "tough" about this. It's quite simple if one is being realistic, and isn't bent on clinging to some boring, idealistic fantasy. If I were the man, I would ask to be euthanized and put out of my misery. There's nothing so special about life for me to want to cling to it even when I've become useless in a FAILED BODY, and life itself has become pointless and meaningless, tormented by the demons that keep whispering to my ears, the reality that I would remain a bed-ridden loser who is never going to realise his most cherished dreams and actualize his blazing potentials. I wonder why I would want to live that kind of life. Plus, what about HER? Taking care of me would be pointless TORTURE for my fiancee. An extremely irrational thing to do. Her life would go sour and dark, losing an additional sliver of light each passing day. I wouldn't want to see the woman I love being forced to endure such a grim reality. I wouldn't want to breathe Oxygen anymore --- it would have become nothing but POISON, prolonging my suffering; OUR suffering. She doesn't deserve such horrific fate. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
To be honest, I can't say yes or no till I'm actually confronted with the situation |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Martin0(m): 9:17pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
QueenSekxy:Nor be my prayer oo But e good make u answer such question ooo Thank God nor be question for men |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by tungbaga: 10:08am On Oct 26, 2017 |
selflessmaya: Whoever you are, I have a crush on you. You are a smart WOMAN. I just hope this isn't a catfish stunt. Intelligence is very attractive. PS: this is just a hustle account. pay no attention to my previous posts. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by FSFitzGerald: 9:42pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
ReinaFarine:How sweet! |
Re: Dear Female Nairalanders What Would You Do In This Situation? by Angelofsongs(f): 11:58am On Oct 27, 2017 |
NO. Marriage will be cancelled. |
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