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Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by MichaelBlake40: 1:42pm On Nov 25, 2017 |
Sagamite:I kinda disagree with you.In most cases a rapist would go after a indecently dressed lady not necessarily because her body iz 'tempting' but because it will be easier to to tear off her clothes. Take it this way,assuming you were a rapist(you're not o ) who konji don hold since,wouldn't you find it easier to attack a sheerly dressed lady? |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 2:35pm On Nov 25, 2017 |
I just ran into an interesting thread on twitter today and this conversation is over already https://mobile.twitter.com/udala__/status/934371213975195648 |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by EfemenaXY: 9:43am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Sagamite: Saga?? Whoopiee!! My sagalicious sagamite Back from the dead...you’ve been missed So what’s the story? CSA finally caught up with you? Lol, moving to Iceland is a lot better than wasting time and energy here. Have you seen the content of most brainless topics here? Even the thread titles are such an eyesore. Anyway good to have you back dear |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 9:44am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Mynd44 & Lalasticlala, who are the people moderating the Romance section. The stupid autobot banned me for 24 hours yesterday after replying to Tozara and hid my response. It is annoying one can be banned by an autobot because it thinks "the posts are so brilliant, it cannot come from a human brain, it must be an automated AI programme". WTF? 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 9:52am On Nov 26, 2017 |
EfemenaXY: Ahh! Baby, they finally got me o. Child Support Agency (CSA) sent their special forces unit and police to surround my house at 4am in the morning to catch me forthe 25 kids I have been missing payments for. I was on top of a girl and just came when they busted in, so energy no dey to jump out of the window and run, so they caught me. I have been in Belmarsh prison since then. I was only able to escape when I sweet-talked one of the female guards and boned her in my cell. Meanwhile, they seized all my assets. Including my most expensive one and best thing in my life, the Keke Maruwa I saved hard to buy and drive around London. Now na leg I dey leg am for London. As for forum, since I came in 3 days ago, I have only been able to encourage myself to contribute to 2-3 threads. Everything else is pure retardation! Apart for people that like my contributions a lot on NL and miss them, I have absolutely NO REGRETS being away. I just feel I owe such people. The forum is the United Retardom! 4 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Tozara(m): 10:07am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Sagamite: LMAO. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 8:32am On Nov 28, 2017 |
Tozara: Bruv, you will have to wait till, Farano or Rocktation bother to unhide my post. I can't be weighed down with typing again. It is quite annoying there is no efficiency in correcting the platforms own error. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 8:39am On Nov 28, 2017 |
Daeylar: You are right on your argument but what I read into his argument in not victim blaming, but victims taking caution. I think he sufficiently berated rapists, so I did not see any rape apologism in his post. This is why I said maybe there was some previous beef between you 2. Daeylar: Sweetheart, I said "I think". I am not aware of anywhere where "I think" is an "assumption", to the best of my understanding, it is a "suspicion". "Assumptions" are more conclusive than "Suspicions". |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 8:42am On Nov 28, 2017 |
MichaelBlake40: Not true. Rapists would go after the finest woman they can go for irrespective of how she is dressed. Whoopi Goldberg dressing indecently is less likely to be raped than Nicole Scherzinger covered up as a Nun. The rapist would rather work harder to get the Nun outfit off Nicole than the easy Whoopi. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 10:23am On Nov 28, 2017 |
Sagamite: I've made my point. Can't keep this argument going on in circles. The bolded being the operative word since it's what you read in his argument, it's fine. I think he sufficiently berated rapists, so I did not see any rape apologism in his post. He didn't say shīt about rapists, just some few dismissive words here and there while he focused on his what he wanted to do the most, to blame victims. But If you don't see rape apology in his post. Even after I showed you rape apology all over the post Cool. This is why I said maybe there was some previous beef between you 2. Should I also say there must be some love between you two for you to defend his post. Sweetheart, I said "I think". Errr... Darling I know what you said I am not aware of anywhere where "I think" is an "assumption", to the best of my understanding, it is a "suspicion". You shouldn't suspect then. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 10:30am On Nov 28, 2017 |
Daeylar: Well, I don't know him, so I don't know what his inclination is. Daeylar: My suspicion was wrong. Fair enough. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Daeylar(f): 10:32am On Nov 28, 2017 |
Sagamite: All right then Have a great day |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Truckpusher(m): 3:56pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
Sagamite:Was thinking you grew up after so many years of self inflicted schizophrenia but here you are trying to sound smart as usual even as you continuously run around with an IQ of a rodent. Oya bingo !!bark as usual. 1 Like |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 10:56am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Truckpusher: You mean after all these years, you are still not grateful that I let you realise you are a cretinous fccktard? |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Truckpusher(m): 11:09am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Sagamite:Idiot |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 11:10am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Truckpusher: You are welcome! |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Truckpusher(m): 11:13am On Nov 29, 2017 |
Sagamite:Deceive ya self by ya self |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by EfemenaXY: 9:04am On Dec 02, 2017 |
Sagamite: Lol! You’re incorrigible |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by neocortex: 12:23pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
Sagamite: You sound angry. If you get harassed, would you report? If you won't report nor complain why should your decision invalidates the rights of others to tell their story? Why should anyone adopt your personal standard as the ultimate gospel truth. If person A states that I hate being touched on my shoulder, you should respect that and desist. It doesn't matter if you don't see anything wrong with it. It is their body not yours. And to your point 5, in no jurisdiction that I am aware of is it considered an harassment, merely expressing an interest in someone isn't an harassment unless you persist after being repeatedly warned. What I think you want is that you get applauded for engaging in number 5, unfortunately, women are not robots and you should expect any reactions, but if you can't tolerate adverse reactions, I suggest you stop putting yourself in the firing line. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
sexual harrasment could be verbal or physical. verbal must have strong derogatory language without complimentnts to be harrasment. flirtatious talks with the recipient 18+ enjoying it isn't harrasment. Physical harrasment has to do with touches! Touches which the recipient wouldn't allow especially one without a romantic relationship with the person touching. For Rape to exist, there must be forceful penetration without consent (coercive consent inclusive). A male cannot plea a case of rape against a female directly, but a male can plea a case against a male. A female can only plea a case of sexual harrasment against a female and not rape directly except in cases of aiding, abetting and complicit roles. NB: A husband cannot be convicted for rape against his wife under normal circumstances. I stand to be corrected. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 6:20pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 6:26pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
neocortex: What is your point? If someone does not like to be touched on the shoulder and they are, they have been sexually assaulted? I am still trying to extract any ounce of sense in everything you said. I am fcking being blunt here. Helep me! |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sagamite(m): 6:29pm On Dec 02, 2017 |
mistel: So if I tell a girl: "You have an arse that I would like to splash my nice yoghurt on one day", I have sexually harassed her? |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Nobody: 11:55am On Dec 03, 2017 |
Sagamite:that's flirtatious! it becomes harassment when she doesn't like it and you repeat it. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 10:39pm On Dec 12, 2017 |
Mynd44: why should a lady visit me by 1a.m. if she's not ready for temptation? |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ubunja(m): 5:51am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Sunmolar:dont ask them that question. they will accuse u of victim blaming. its like leaving your house unlocked at night then after getting robbed the Police blame the thief only. if anyone asks "but why did that guy leave his house unlocked?" that someone gets accussed of blaming the victim. the Victim is always perfect. leave your car at the Mall unlocked and it gets broken into: never blame the victim. leave your phone unattended in a public place and it gets stolen: never blame the victim. teach thieves not to steal i personally dont mind.coz all these women acting like sense is victim-blaming all will get raped and get aids and die. good riddance. stupidity kills. thee rapist will go to jail but an early grave awaits u. when u delegate your thinking duties to a government that tells u only what u want to hear u are the one who will die. u think Politicians walk alone at 1am? those basterds have bodyguards 24/7 while they tell u walk alone at night coz its a robber's duty to respect human life. and we laugh when sh!t happens to u. sow stupidity, reap accordingly. 2 Likes |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 7:47am On Dec 13, 2017 |
ubunja:it's like you've been preyed on as result of your sarcacity, deprivity, & carelessness. Your response so voluminous but not a best seller |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ubunja(m): 7:56am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Sunmolar: but i wanted it to be a best seller. u get my point thou. atleast u bought i |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 8:11am On Dec 13, 2017 |
ubunja:But you didn't get mine before you started writing that unnecessary & imaginary piece of a story/fiction. I think been a poet will be better of you if you don't know what do with your skill. |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ubunja(m): 8:36am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Sunmolar:u got an over-inflated sense of yourself crown yourself King Of Nairaland whose views of people are the only ones that matter suck my hairy d!ck. n!ggar |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by Sunmolar(m): 8:41am On Dec 13, 2017 |
ubunja:I gave my opinion on this topic/thread because it was shared with me. But you I don't know how you got to this topic. sorry you missed |
Re: Lets Talk About What Constitutes Sexual Harrassment And Rape by ubunja(m): 8:44am On Dec 13, 2017 |
Sunmolar: what are u even saying? |
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