NEHLIVE:
Nigerian top Matchmaker, Lara Kudayisi shocked many over the weekend when she stepped on stage at a self-development, conference in Lagos and told the audience that during her teenage years she had a child, got 14 heartbreaks from different men and worst still,she had 15 whopping abortions!

Although many were shocked, it wasn't the first time the lady has told the story of her 'ugly' past.

"Yes, you heard me right. I have said it times without number and I will continue to say it. Child at 19, 14 heartbreaks and 15 abortions. It is my story and my experience. I own my experience. You must own your experience and be self-aware".

According to Lara who is now married to the love of her life and now uses her past as a drive to inspire other women, when she first made the confession on Facebook years back,some of her followers were shocked but as time went people began understanding her viewpoints and infact, she now gets paid by people who wants to learn from her experience.

Better known by the monicker, "The Match-making Mistress", Lara who spoke at the My Double Double Conference organised by renowned self-development expert, Paul Kayode Josh, at Muson Center Lagos,made it clear that her mission is to inspire everyone to achieving their life purposes no matter what mistakes they might have made in life.

Below are photos of Lara and even her, Instagram bio proudly says it all!

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vicben27:
if a woman Can abort up to 15 pregnancies, then abortion as become her Hobby. 15 is way too high, we all have our secrets its only He or She that say's it out in public, that gets to be judged

Gentlesniper:
Jehovah!! u murdered 15 innocent souls and u r here looking for whom to inspire abi match make? how are my sure u wont match me with a gal wey dn break ur own record. I only pity ur possy and ur husband cos dey will av enuf story to tell.

jade14:
Sometimes we just mind what we say in public,


15 abortions !!! Who cares to know about your wasted life and more so a serial killer that you are.

Now some dumb girls would see this as an excuse to trend your part,after all if you can come out strong ? Then they can too.

Not everything you spill,knowing our generation adores the negative

TheKingIsHere:
Run away from all these so called matchmakers or relationship advisers. Their lives are always in a mess.

theunnamed:
One word for her




















OLOSHO!!!!

makydebbie:
I don't believe this! 14 heartbreaks is she a fool? 15 abortions? Doctors in the house, is this possible?

beautydutch:
pls work on your English before judging another person. #advice

theunnamed:
One word for her



















OLOSHO!!!!

theapeman:
them say dirty attract dirty!

fear this type women! them go match you with person were go use knife finish your life.

Safiaa:
15 abortions? C'mon now that's absolutely ridiculous.

makydebbie:
I don't believe this! 14 heartbreaks is she a fool? 15 abortions? Doctors in the house, is this possible?

jade14:
Sometimes we just mind what we say in public,


15 abortions !!! Who cares to know about your wasted life and more so a serial killer that you are.

Now some dumb girls would see this as an excuse to trend your part,after all if you can come out strong ? Then they can too.

Not everything you spill,knowing our generation adores the negative

jade14:
Sometimes we just mind what we say in public,


15 abortions !!! Who cares to know about your wasted life and more so a serial killer that you are.

Now some dumb girls would see this as an excuse to trend your part,after all if you can come out strong ? Then they can too.

Not everything you spill,knowing our generation adores the negative

Felixtuta:
Everyone of us has his or her own dirty storry. For her to be bold enough to say her own?

She indeed is a super woman.

Before you jugde her, check your own life.

makydebbie:
I don't believe this! 14 heartbreaks is she a fool? 15 abortions? Doctors in the house, is this possible?

Gentlesniper:

How will I blame you when you are already topping the chart with 17 abortions, so having 15 abortions looks very normal to you. Advise ursef on how not to open ur legs at random so that the abortions wont exceed 17. Idiat!!!

makydebbie:
I don't believe this! 14 heartbreaks is she a fool? 15 abortions? Doctors in the house, is this possible?