I always wonder, at what point does someone actually cheat in a relationship. When you receive phone calls from another girl, go have lunch with a friend or when u are caught on top of someone else. Different people react at different levels. So at what point is cheating actually cheating.

I think its when you are caught on someone else

@Mekzie so do you mean every other thing is allowed but one should never be found on someone else?

Cheating is cheating when u start falling in love with the other party. You can be on top, under, or were ever u desire but dont ever fall in love,

I believe cheating starts when you have alienated your affections, thoughts, emotions, desires, and feelings from the original party to the secondary party. It important to consult with the person whom you are committed to what they feel is cheating because everybody have different definition of cheating, mine is what I said above, and I wish my NIGERIAN FIANCE WOULD CHEAT ON ME!

I am a good woman and everything he needs is right here with me, now if he want a hooker than I can't help him, if I wasn't in a knee cast, I would do something hookerish for him after I say I do,


Winks!

queen eve, that was really funny. you must like your man. I like the way a friend of mine summed up cheating. he said cheating is when u cant tell ur partner about the other person, no matter if its a phone call, text, date, or sleep over. the reason why u ar partners is to open up on all levels. I kind of agree with him.

u know this relationship matter, one has to be really careful

Life,

I think you need to step back and look at the word LIKE YOU TYPED, I dont like my man, I LOOOOOOOVE MY MAN, and your friend was right, and smart

It depends on each persons idea of cheating. One of my friends believes that if her guy even thought of being with someone else then he has cheated already with just a thought. For me its being physical with someone other than your partner.

[quote he said cheating is when u cant tell your partner about the other person, no matter if its a phone call, text, date, or sleep over. the reason why u ar partners is to open up on all levels. I kind of agree with him.

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I love this explaination!! Brilliant!!

It depends on each persons partner. mine views me to have cheated on her when i entertain calls from females whom she feels might be showing interest in me or when i text them. Its something both parties should discuss. Besides calls and text are the basic primary steps taken to cheat so i kinda see reason with her.

googles:

To me, "cheating" is cheating when one's partner is having physical /emotional entaglements outside the relationship

I agree wit u. Even a blind person sees that and knows when he's/she's been cheated.

cheating is cheating and should be avoided at all cost

Life,

If I winked my eye at you, that cheating on my fiance?

@ tink_sh
you have a point there, although i don't agree with you totally.
there are certain things you don't/ can't tell your partner.
it doesn't mean you are cheating

queeneve:

Life,

If I winked my eye at you, that cheating on my fiance?

If you winked at me that will be a lovely way to flirt, but when you cant tell your fiance about it then you must have cheated. Its not me that said oh its the writers on the post. LOL.

Just kidding, nice one anyway.

Cheating is cheating when u're cheating!

When cheating happens

Only when u are caught in the act

cheatin is when u are caught on top of the HILL

googles:

To me, "cheating" is cheating when one's partner is having physical /emotional entaglements outside the relationship

yep this would be my own defintion,

Cheating is cheating,which ever way you want to put it.

cheating is cheating wen ur conscience tells u u are cheating.

DD dearest:

cheating is cheating wen your conscience tells u u are cheating.

Maybe

true talk, cheating is cheating when you are actually cheating. You have to be conscious of it

Flirting while dating is cheating.

Do not start the fire, if you do not want to get burnt.

People have been hurt, maimed and murdered for cheating.
Cheating is dangerous.

I advise those who cannot be faithful not to make commitments in relationships.

If you know you cannot be faithful, please do not promise anything.

Girls and women often tolerate cheating, but boys and men have done horrible and terrible things to their lovers and life partners over cheating.

BEWARE BEFORE IT IS TOO LATE.

Like the Biblical story of Adam and Eve, they were nak.ed to one another and they had no shame.

I believe a couple ought to be "nak.ed" to one another, emotionally, spiritually, financially, etc. of course, also physically in the appropriate context.

When either party has something to hide and cannot be transparent, they are cheating already.

That's my personal definition. So guys that lie about their salary to their ladies, they're cheating already. If a lady is starting to fall for a guy at work and she can't tell her husband, she has started cheating.

cheating - A mere platonic relationship with the opposite sex that you hide from your partner.

davidylan:

cheating - A mere platonic relationship with the opposite gender that you hide from your partner.

cheating is not mere, sometimes it could be more intense than a real relationship

My fiance said that cheating is when I do something that alienated his affections away from him and that when trust is depleted. He said that sometimes when you dont have trust for your mate, that cheating because you denying them the emotions they deserve by not telling them or implying thoughts of others,

He also said that exes should not be visiting exes for which why relationships are destroyed based on old feelings and lingering feelings. He said that if you have feelings for your exes while you are married or dating that cheating because you are cheating your current mate total affections or emotions,

Well said baby!

He on the site, he just wont type anything,

Check it Boo!

wow queeneve, you seem to have serious problems with grammar.

Oh, I am in class? Damn, I forgot my pad and pen! BRB!