ubunja:
1 Corinthians 99:1 thou shalt marry a virgin; no matter how much thou hath fornicated as a man.thine fornication is practice that would benefiteth thine virgin bride.

Guy you dey craze o. You know say I almost go carry bible to confirm your comment? lol

Chommieblaq:

How could you call someone's girlfriend a slut?
So having sex with her boyfriend made her a slut now abi?

Smh for some people with their sanctimonious online character sef

Waitin She Be,virtous Woman?
Who No Like Better Thing? Forget All This Things This Guys Are Saying....The Truth Is,every Man Wants To Marry A Virgin;Cos She Be Tear Rubber,not Second Hand.
But Men Rather Marry Non-virgin,cause Think A Virgin Girl Na Luck. If Them See,thanksgiving.
If You Are A Virgin,zip Up Your Pussy. If You Are Not,okpari.

This is quite simple! Which do passersby stop to look at while the rich try to purchase? Is it the unspoiled apple balanced glamorously on the shelf of a store or the left over apple in the trash can? Even a kid knows the answer to this question...

Actuarydeji:
Yes I am a virgin! And I have not for once try doing it, by God grace next year I will knot the tie with her.

Pls,i need some Information ,
as a virgin male how do you take your mind away from sex.I have a friend who is about getting married to one but she is scared the a guy is 30+,was a seminarian left and became a lawyer,but the issue here is he talk about sex a lot ,but claim never to have done it but eager to do it. they both live in different state,so have slept together on same bed twice they only romance as she claim but she is scared if all is okay with him medically.

that incident awaken her guilt...we all know whenever we go astray...though we may not admit even to ourselves

Oga! Why you no just off your phone immediately she pass am to you!?

She for ask you why!?

And you would have said "Babe! No time..." Cos you are all that matters ryt now....

Bruv! That line alone has earned you free vip ticket to the infinite round and unimaginable lashing...

Buh you dull cos you no get OT... This kind story dey pain blokos!

And when you and your padi meet and he asks you why your phone went off.. Bobo! na Bobo always.. Ee go understand wan way or the other....

jdluv:
sorry to say...That your girl is a slut.3 Sex in just one day?
Maybe she got disflowere d in a terrible way ie incest,rape. It may so bring bad memories.
i used to be like that .

I am not understanding. What happened to you?

chyima:


Pls,i need some Information ,
as a virgin male how do you take your mind away from sex.I have a friend who is about getting married to one but she is scared the a guy is 30+,was a seminarian left and became a lawyer,but the issue here is he talk about sex a lot ,but claim never to have done it but eager to do it. they both live in different state,so have slept together on same bed twice they only romance as she claim but she is scared if all is okay with him medically.

To avoid story that touch make insist on striving before the D day o.

Y'all should keep calm, virginity is overrated.

jdluv:
sorry to say...That your girl is a slut.3 Sex in just one day?
Maybe she got disflowere d in a terrible way ie incest,rape. It may so bring bad memories.
i used to be like that .

like wtf? a woman is a slut because she has sex three times in a day??

Youngadvocate:
Practically, I am a very sensitive person; one you may say gives much attention to details. Of course, by this, you trust I am adventurous.

I have been in a relationship for about five (5) years now. And, God forgive me, I have broken his law on sexual intercourse. But I didn't have it until after 2 years of being a "naive" virgin.

But my girl wasn't. Kudos to her, she taught me all the tactics; the twist and turns that set everything in place, the "French commando" kissing style that gets virtually every lady in the mood, the touches that send the girl to the skies of sexual escapades and the positions that hit women's center of gravity and make them finally arrive the heavens of satisfaction; you may say "real cuming."

Everything was good between us. I mean, everything in the sense that, as a typical Nigerian relationship, as things progressed, with my eyes more opened, I demanded for more sex and that meant, I spent more money and did more caring. She was happy I had graduated from being a "naive virgin" to a professional "hitman" she wanted me to be when her "sexual urges" are provoked.

So, this day (Saturday to be precise), we were just warming up for our fourth round after the third; my first time of reaching this "threshold" though. The atmosphere was charged already. My body was up again. And I had begun working on her body to connect to the mood. It had just begun responding. And just there, my phone rang. Don't even guess what happened. The phone was ringing to my ears which at the time, were already deafened by her "moans" and "pleading to go easy." I had already been transfixed and to return, she would have to pull me out. It was again, the first frustration ever experienced.

After about, maybe, 5-6 times the phone rang, she reached for the phone, and, I guess, unwillingly and sluggishly said "who is on the line?" she didn't even add "please;" her usual last word when starting a telephone conversation. And then, she passed the phone over to me with that loved-up look and said "Ben, your friend." My anger grew worse. I held the phone and said nothing while the "moment spoiler" kept blabbing on the phone. I grudgingly put it on loudspeaker to smartly get my girl help me with the conversation. This will make him end the call quickly.

Next thing we heard: "Man, wadup with you!? You don't wanna talk?" And my girl said, "he's just a bit tired." I echoed my girl's voice just to conceal the mood and said, "Ben am just tired, but am listening." And then, my guy, so surprisingly excited and not even bothered to ask why I was tired, unlike him though, blew it. "Yo, man, my girl's virginity test came out this evening. Dude she's a virgin!!" Oh my goodness, I am going straight to the alter with her. Be prepared for the occasion man." I also grudgingly gave out some words. "Congrats man. Am happy for you. I will call you later." I dropped the call.

To turn to my girl, she was already enmeshed in and clothed with unimaginable anger. Her face warn that killer look. Her veins shot out. I was innocent atlest. So, I pushed to ask "baby, why is your face this way? What happened?" she returned no response. She had already started wearing (back) her clothes. After much efforts, she let it out. "Ben's girlfriend is a virgin and you tell him congratulations to that, right?" You should be preparing to get your own virgin you will go to the alter with."

That's the end. Its over two weeks now, she's still mad and doesn't wanna see my face. Nevertheless, that doesn't trouble me more than the eagerness to know why she is mad because of "a cheap virgin talk." This is a sort of common pattern one of my close friends and confidant had revealed to me non-virgin girls have been associated with.

Now, it bemoans me to ask, please, why do non-virgin ladies take offence, go off, and become somewhat unreasonably harsh when talks or claims on virginity arise? This is with the understanding that non-virgin guys never take this sort of offence.

Please, mature minds, let's talk.

Cc: Lalasticlala, farano, Rocktation

you are just trolling. why would your paddy's gf do a virginity test? why would she involve her boyfriend in the test? is her hymen his business?

in your weird story, the sole criteria for marrying a girl is the state of her hymen - particularly when you are not a virgin ?

silly pikin and dafter mods

hisgrace090:
The word "Virgine" make women to feel as if they make mistake in life.

GBAM

OrestesDante:




∆ Guy you F'ed up... You should have switched off your phone.... All these story for no come..


She's angry because she knows you're never going to go to the altar with her... And your conversation with your friend shows clearly that you two(You and your friend) have been having discussions about Virgin or no Virgin and she knows clearly, except she's foolish that at some point in time she must have been the subject of conversation...

She's not really angry about not been a Virgin nor jealous... But your friend's talks showed that she's just a fūçk mate which she is.

∆

...plus, she's jealous.

Actuarydeji:
Yes I am a virgin! And I have not for once try doing it, by God grace next year I will knot the tie with her.

CORRECT GUY!

Gofwane:
God knows, i don't want to get married to a virgin. Abeg i no get time and patience to tear a sealed pvssy

Then dey there...another man go do am for you...Common virginity you no fit break, wetin you come fit do?

A world where some guys can just wake up and pick someone's daughter, who has been trained, nurtured and cared for like a treasure, spent on by family for years....... Awon guys would just pick somebody's child and use and use and label her a LovePeddler. They pick who is the LovePeddler and who will be spared from the slaughter. Big ups to my lady survivors sha. Life.

Offpoint:
Op lemme answer your question this way.
Do you know when we were kids, our parents would share biscuits or meat equally to us, then after like 15 minutes later... after we might have finished eating ours, one of our siblings dey oversabi one will still be licking his/her own biscuits or meat right on our faces? how do you always feel then?

That's my answer

Virgins are not "over sabi"... They are people with self control

Gofwane:


wetin consine me? As she was busy giving the coochie to her ex, me too i was busy receiving the coochie from my ex so na 50/50 things nah!! Moreover, i am a firm believer of justice

Well, all the best fun é...

Mariangeles:
Virgins are not "over sabi"... They are people with self control

you definitely misinterpret my "illustrations" ma'am. that's not what I meant there.

op swear say you nor form this story

the sad thing is that virginity is overrated. it is not going to guarantee that you will have a good marriage

a married cousin of my wife with a philandering husband was very bitter - she was saying she should have had fun in school, was this what she saved her self for

i have two different friends who went to their marriage virgins have their marriages crumble - one is remarried, the other is separated and dragging for a divorce.

go to marriage a virgin - its all well and good, but it does not guarantee anything

as an offpoint, hugh hefner got married a virgin

Offpoint:

you definitely misinterpret my "illustrations" ma'am. that's not what I meant there.

But you used the term "over sabi"...

This story sounds cooked up...my opinion though!

abubaka101:


Frankly, I think your girl is just overreacting.

A lot of sensitive girls seem to take things like this too personal.
Perhaps she felt she had been cheated; dat amongst ur frds all you guys do is believe dat virgins are d true wife materials, while non-virgins are (how u say) whores.

Of course this itself is a myth, but girls can't help to feel this way especially in a society that claims to be morally inclined and religiously intense.

Frankly, I feel like you and her have not discussed issues such as these maturely until now. And am sure she's now probably reassessing the whole relationship and wondering if sex was all dat it was based on (would he ever marry me? Is sex all that he wants? Why hasn't he discussed marriage with me?)

I advice that you meet up with her face to face and discuss this issue with her. Give her confidence in u and downplay the importance of virginity as morality.

I doubt he wants her for marriage... would you marry a girl that "showed you how it's done" for the first time?

TiffanyDavies:
This story sounds cooked up...my opinion though!

Who Cares...? it's interesting...

Sleezwizz:


So how did u know ur gf was a virgin without sampling her yet?

When a girl looks you in the eye and tells...best believe!

emorse:

Guy you dey craze o. You know say I almost go carry bible to confirm your comment? lol

The girl is probably jealous, or feeling she's being used by the guy but One thing i advise young people is pre-marital sex isn't the way forward as it will only lead to more lust and may put you into deep trouble if a lady was raped for the first time having sex then with all the trauma, she's definitely going to get angered, feel insecure anytime she's around guys, or probably have this hate for men and sex but for the records there isn't statistics that says virgins marriage tend to last longer but if you think so i'll leave you this question, a virgin without brains nkor? what about a virgin with no sense of humor, or character and attitude well Only God go fit help us. Bye!
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As per the topic I think it's because it makes them feel less important especially for the deflowed like those girls that has been disvirgined when they hear such topic they’ll be very angry check try ask chip in the topic to your girlfriend you'll see her reaction Lols I know some of you will be thinking by now.
As for the call she's just been jealous, feeling she's been used or scare of being dumped.

you fuckaholic u made me waste my data readin fuking trash about fucking virgins that will still get bleeped someday.......Bleep you bro

You men are truly scum and the biggest hypocrites known to mankind.

You screw anything screwable and turn around to tell women to abstain. As if you have been fecking yourselves all along. There are several threads on "ashawo escapades here on NL describing the filthy lifestyles of you lot but let a girl have sex with her own bf, you filthy sons of Adam will rush to roast her.

PS: it is not guilt. It is just senseless conversing with dimwits. Any girl with such guilt has a low esteem.
One guy asked me that question recently and was perplexed at my response. As if you won't jump at the opportunity to marrry any of Otedola's daughters not minding that they aren't virgins. Hypocrite!

ottohan:
For d fact dat few ladies has commented so far shows that 90% of the rest are feeling too guilty to say anything..
Ohh my the conscience is indeed a terrible judge

The term “virginity” is contributing nothing to women’s relationship with
sex...Whilst boys also get labelled as “virgins”, in men it’s generally a stigma.
Boys are “still” virgins, and are traditionally praised for losing their
virginity. When rapper Chris Brown announced that he lost his virginity at
the age of eight, there was shock, but the reaction was split between
shock and amusement, where as if a female singer had said the same
thing she would have universally been seen as a victim of abuse...


so to the girls

there should be absolutely no guilt attached to female sexual
desire or agency. But that’s what the term “virginity” is doing. It’s an
arbitrary status that should be ditched as soon as possible. there should be absolutely no guilt attached to female sexual
desire or agency.......So the next time someone asks you how you lost yours, I strongly suggest
that you tell them you can’t quite remember and allow yourself the
chance to smile at the memory, regardless of how imperfect it was.