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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Mobi47(m): 12:35pm On Dec 22, 2017
Jiang:


Don't worry, I have my ways, thorough background checks b4 marriage is a most
lols ok sha....
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by ibietela2(m): 12:39pm On Dec 22, 2017
JacksonD7:


Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable, and last longer when the wife is a virgin.

I never said it was an absolute guarantee.



For clarification

https://www.mercatornet.com/mobile/view/keeping-sex-for-marriage-helps-marriages-last-the-distance

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

Okh
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Rejoice5000(f): 12:54pm On Dec 22, 2017
Virgin or no Virgin all London na London.wetin pesin dey find for cigar nobi smoke? reason na am.
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Donemmy(m): 12:56pm On Dec 22, 2017
Learnstuffs:
Jealousy grin
Jealousy & deep regret
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by hypnotic(m): 1:18pm On Dec 22, 2017
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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Edonojie007(m): 1:41pm On Dec 22, 2017
doyinisaac:
You people will just come here and make some foolish generalization!!!!!do u know that some men Do not like to see blood??they don't even want to sleep with a girl and see blood over the place...go out and explore life and meet different kinds of people...everyone is different....do u know that some guys don't even want to marry a lady that do not have sexual experience??some will even want her to get pregnant before they get married in order to know she is medically okay...so different strokes for different folks....being a virgin does not automatically make a lady a saint ,or what are we going to say about some virgins that give blowjobs??or Some virgins that watch porn everyday??
Sorry O....But I Shake My Head In Advance.
What Would A Dog Be Looking For Before; A Sheep?
A Sex Addict Would Want A Sex Maniac For A Wife- And The Responsible,a Responsible Wife.
Abi,them No Teach You For School Sey,like Terms Attract.

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Nobody: 1:42pm On Dec 22, 2017
Lol I see you no want brag grin

NANs and your Nans(ing) on Nairaland. Bashir Baballe, Dino Onche etc are not bragging too.



Actuarydeji:
Can you see how myopic your thinking is! Who tells you that no more Nigeria more than me? I did my secondary in Ilorin, Uni Niger, NYSC Kebbi. I did my NANS convention in Uyo. I have travelled to every region in Nigeria. Anyway, I don't want brag Sha.
grin
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by farem: 1:47pm On Dec 22, 2017
Gofwane:
God knows, i don't want to get married to a virgin. Abeg i no get time and patience to tear a sealed pvssy

Since it's your wish, make u nor worry. Dem don helep u dey take rods and chisels of different sizes dey tear am for u in advance!
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Pricelessangel0(f): 1:56pm On Dec 22, 2017
Thank God am still a virgin. so my future husband no regret
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Edonojie007(m): 1:56pm On Dec 22, 2017
Amberon11:
You men are truly scum and the biggest hypocrites known to mankind.

You screw anything screwable and turn around to tell women to abstain. As if you have been fecking yourselves all along. There are several threads on "ashawo escapades here on NL describing the filthy lifestyles of you lot but let a girl have sex with her own bf, you filthy sons of Adam will rush to roast her.

PS: it is not guilt. It is just senseless conversing with dimwits. Any girl with such guilt has a low esteem.
One guy asked me that question recently and was perplexed at my response. As if you won't jump at the opportunity to marrry any of Otedola's daughters not minding that they aren't virgins. Hypocrite!
Eh....Oh...! Who Told You To Throw Away Yours;shake My Head In Advance.
Is Not Too Late, Jesus Can Do Something.
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Edonojie007(m): 2:06pm On Dec 22, 2017
cococandy:
Thread for stupid hungry boys.
You Have Been Exposed! It Calls For Repentance.

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Amberon11: 2:20pm On Dec 22, 2017
Look at this whoremomger. Don't worry you will be alright.
Edonojie007:

Eh....Oh...! Who Told You To Throw Away Yours;shake My Head In Advance.
Is Not Too Late, Jesus Can Do Something.
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Temysteve(m): 2:49pm On Dec 22, 2017
ubunja:
1 Corinthians 99:1 thou shalt marry a virgin; no matter how much thou hath fornicated as a man.thine fornication is practice that would benefiteth thine virgin bride.
Craze dey worry you.
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Nobody: 3:55pm On Dec 22, 2017
JacksonD7:
It's guilt. Every non virgin knows that she's just not as valuable as the lady who's still untouched.

A dual carriage expressway bought for N500 in one afternoon, is not the same as a tear rubber car that took 3 years of dedication to crack.

You're better off finding a virgin for a wife. Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable, and last longer when the wife is a virgin.

In business terms, would you rather invest in a legitimate business and get your payout in the the long run. Or invest in a Ponzi scheme, make it big in the short term and crash later?.

The choice is yours.

Youngadvocate
You People need to understand that most 'virgins' are not untouched. They're other sexual acts apart from vaginal penetration. But it is well.

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by ROYH(m): 5:41pm On Dec 22, 2017
Please reply your pm dude
Offpoint:
Op lemme answer your question this way.
Do you know when we were kids, our parents would share biscuits or meat equally to us, then after like 15 minutes later... after we might have finished eating ours, one of our siblings "dey oversabi" one will still be licking his/her own biscuits or meat right on our faces? how do you always feel then?

That's my answer
it's not about this topic ooo
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Offpoint: 6:02pm On Dec 22, 2017
ROYH:
Please reply your pm dude it's not about this topic ooo




Which of it please?
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by ROYH(m): 6:11pm On Dec 22, 2017
Offpoint:

Which of it please?
your mail...
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Offpoint: 6:17pm On Dec 22, 2017
ROYH:
your mail...
I'm really sorry for not replying, it's just I don't access the email I used to registererd on Nairaland that much. let go and check it out.
please remind the topic, is it about the graphics own?
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Sleezwizz: 6:19pm On Dec 22, 2017
Mariangeles:
When a girl looks you in the eye and tells...best believe!

Hmmmm
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by ROYH(m): 6:22pm On Dec 22, 2017
Offpoint:

I'm really sorry for not replying, it's just I don't access the email I used to registererd on Nairaland that much. let go and check it out.
please remind the topic, is it about the graphics own?
okay, you can send me your whatsapp number via mail *damidonsia@gmail.com* if you are not the type to post it on public forum....


And yes it's all about graphics and coreldraw....
I hope you grap
wink
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by makydebbie(f): 6:24pm On Dec 22, 2017
Pricelessangel0:
Thank God am still a virgin. so my future husband no regret
Me too I'm still a virgin. Let us advertise ourselves na. undecided

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Offpoint: 6:37pm On Dec 22, 2017
ROYH:
okay, you can send me your whatsapp number via mail *damidonsia@gmail.com* if you are not the type to post it on public forum....


And yes it's all about graphics and coreldraw....
I hope you grap
wink
I've forward my whatsapp number to the email you sent

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Nobody: 6:51pm On Dec 22, 2017
JacksonD7:


Statistically speaking a marriage is more likely to be stable, and last longer when the wife is a virgin.

I never said it was an absolute guarantee.



For clarification

https://www.mercatornet.com/mobile/view/keeping-sex-for-marriage-helps-marriages-last-the-distance

https://ifstudies.org/blog/counterintuitive-trends-in-the-link-between-premarital-sex-and-marital-stability

complete and utter bullshit.

one of my classmates from school [female] married as a virgin, divorced and is married to someone else now

a colleague of mine in the office married a virgin. they are currently separated. her marrying him as a virgin did not stop him from calling her things like 'old cargo' during their fights.

marrying as a virgin will not stop your man from being an asshole [if he is one]. as a woman, you should be extremely wary of men looking for virgins. in fact, a person who says says things like 'virgins have more value than non virgins' is commodifying women's bodies. a person who commodifies women has no respect for women, and will have trouble with a wife who has self respect.

just as a hymen will break, breasts will droop, hair will fall out, stretch marks will come. a man fixated on a hymen will also fixate on these.

the people who call older women fairly used products are the same people who obsess over virgins. sort of like silly boys who call ex girl friends remnants/leftovers

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by pocohantas(f): 7:04pm On Dec 22, 2017
oyb:


complete and utter bullshit.

one of my classmates from school [female] married as a virgin, divorced and is married to someone else now

a colleague of mine in the office married a virgin. they are currently separated. her marrying him as a virgin did not stop him from calling her things like 'old cargo' during their fights.

marrying as a virgin will not stop your man from being an asshole [if he is one]. as a woman, you should be extremely wary of men looking for virgins. in fact, a person who says says things like 'virgins have more value than non virgins' is commodifying women's bodies. a person who commodifies women has no respect for women, and will have trouble with a wife who has self respect.

just as a hymen will break, breasts will droop, hair will fall out, stretch marks will come. a man fixated on a hymen will also fixate on these.

the people who call older women fairly used products are the same people who obsess over virgins. sort of like silly boys who call ex girl friends remnants/leftovers

Iyen deep!

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Nobody: 7:17pm On Dec 22, 2017
Safiaaa:
You People need to understand that most 'virgins' are not untouched. They're other sexual acts apart from vaginal penetration. But it is well.

Before you take their post serious, ask them if they have ever slept with a woman....

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Nobody: 7:19pm On Dec 22, 2017
oyb:


complete and utter bullshit.

one of my classmates from school [female] married as a virgin, divorced and is married to someone else now

a colleague of mine in the office married a virgin. they are currently separated. her marrying him as a virgin did not stop him from calling her things like 'old cargo' during their fights.

marrying as a virgin will not stop your man from being an asshole [if he is one]. as a woman, you should be extremely wary of men looking for virgins. in fact, a person who says says things like 'virgins have more value than non virgins' is commodifying women's bodies. a person who commodifies women has no respect for women, and will have trouble with a wife who has self respect.

just as a hymen will break, breasts will droop, hair will fall out, stretch marks will come. a man fixated on a hymen will also fixate on these.

the people who call older women fairly used products are the same people who obsess over virgins. sort of like silly boys who call ex girl friends remnants/leftovers


Very very true. Being a virgin is not a guarantee for a good marriage, however, it's no reason to go sleeping around too.
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by olaolutreasure(m): 7:23pm On Dec 22, 2017
jdluv:

Maybe she got disflowere d in a terrible way ie incest,rape. It may so bring bad memories.
i used to be like that .
Incest or rape shouldn't be excuse to be promiscuous. I was raped (incest) when I was between 4-6years old, but thank God for my life now
Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Nobody: 7:30pm On Dec 22, 2017
Blackfyre:



Very very true. Being a virgin is not a guarantee for a good marriage, however, it's no reason to go sleeping around too.

the problem i have with this virginity obsession is that it only focuses on women. does anyone place value on a man who is a virgin? the same guys hailing female virgins would be calling male virgins jjcs / actionless guys.

no one has a dress code for males who are not virgins [women have white/yellow].

which is why will say it is in the end commodifying of women. arabs/pakis are really crazy in this [honor killings and all that] , going after their sisters, but doing nothing about the males involved.

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Nobody: 7:45pm On Dec 22, 2017
oyb:


the problem i have with this virginity obsession is that it only focuses on women. does anyone place value on a man who is a virgin? the same guys hailing female virgins would be calling male virgins jjcs / actionless guys.

no one has a dress code for males who are not virgins [women have white/yellow].

which is why will say it is in the end commodifying of women. arabs/pakis are really crazy in this [honor killings and all that] , going after their sisters, but doing nothing about the males involved.


You make a very valid point there, which is why i tend not to be fixated on virgins and welcome them just like non virgins(provided the non virgin view on sex is tolerable). The men are not virgins even see it as a dude being naive but the women are expected to. How then do we encourage women to keep their bodies?

Hopefully, the women will look to God for their actions than what the men do..

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Re: Why Do Girls Get Angry About "Virginity" - My Personal Experience by Sterope(f): 9:01pm On Dec 22, 2017
You should be talking about your guy not your girl. He shouldnb ready to live a sad and miserable life if he thinks virginity qualifies a lady for marriage.

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