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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 8:02am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:Martin don't quote me wrongly I said one of the major key not all..... now you get where I'm coming from You guys should stop using that words......that ladies don't know what they want in a relationship.......like I said earlier if you're not ready to give in don't expect miracles biko Martin you just lie there....... for the fact that you know everything thing about your ex doesn't mean that you know everything about ladies........ Those type of ladies where not into the relationship in the first place so don't generalise Ehmmmm wait I dey come nah me you talk say u go slap |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 8:21am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: Na wa for u ooo!pesin nor go play with you again? A whole ur fine face na I wan slap! I can't do that! **holds her by the waist** |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 8:27am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: See in my own way this is what I think about relationship and what one should expect either trust or being open. Sometimes It gonna look like this it doesn't matter how open or trusted one would be! Expect for them to treat you with respect, to be patient with you, to understand that if you’re being short with them, it’s probably just because you’re having a bad day and has nothing to do with them. That’s the thing: They have to know that it’s not always about them. There are other things happening in your life that don’t revolve around the relationship and that’s okay. It’s not an insult. Expect trust. Without trust, you have nothing. Your partner should trust you completely until you give them a reason otherwise. If they don’t trust you, if they’re already paranoid in the beginning and try to control you, the relationship is doomed. Because it’s not about you. IT’S NEVER ABOUT YOU. You could be the best significant other ever and it wouldn’t matter because you’re with someone who’s violently insecure and will always find something wrong with you. Expect to be made to feel good about yourself, especially when you’re naked and vulnerable. Sex should be a “NO JUDGMENT” zone. Expect differences of opinion, expect fights, expect it to not always feel right, expect to feel a little bit bored sometimes, expect to feel a little overwhelmed the other times, expect to question things, expect to flirt with other people because it reminds you that you’re still wanted by other people who are not your partner, expect to be with someone who loves you as is and doesn’t want to change you. THIS IS A BIG ONE. It seems like so many people get into relationships just to transform someone into another person. Why do we do this? Don’t date a fixer-upper. What’s the point? Expect to be taught new things. Expect to have your mind blown. Expect to want to be a better person. Expect your partner to be faithful, unless you’ve clearly discussed otherwise. Expect to be emotionally supported. DON’T expect to be financially supported. Expect passion. Expect love. Expect anger. Never expect indifference. Expect them to hate you when its over. Feel relieved if it’s ever not the case. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 8:39am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:That means you let yourself to get influenced by what most broke guys say here...... listen Martin give in you all in a relationship and don't take advice from guys here cause they don't know where they are heading to some of them are frustrated who can't decide for themselves.......they are all over these forum Sorry for bringing your ex into these...... but I must say that those ladies where been played by men........one thing about men is that when they see ladies put in their all in a relationship......they would just take advantage of them which is why it is hard for a lady to trust a guy talk more of loving him...... Martin you guys can act like fools just to get the honey pot...... but when angry all the beauty of the lady will fall on deaf ears after you've given her a factory resetting slap.......so men can do anything to hot the one they claim to love when angry Leave me jor put a ring on it 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 8:43am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:Some of the things you wrote are not meant to be there..... all those things are for men |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 8:47am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: Hmmmmm you made good point! I never knew you re intelligent to this extent! So why did u jus choose to remain single coz I know say na u decide! If what you are online is what reality looks like then guy's should be flocking around but then I believe you made a choice to be single! Why that choice? |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 8:50am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: For men na wa oooo! Biacan biacan I hail u oo! |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 8:57am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:My first relationship was my last for now...... I have never loved anyone so bad like my previous relationship I gave in my all and at the end of the day what did I get in return..... Cheating,humiliated,broken,betray.....etc I have never been heat broken like then..... I felt like dying it took the grace of the creator and my family members for me to get back to my feet...... though I was still at 17/18 then I just zip up and vow never to love again........ 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:59am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Ambition. |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 9:01am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:Yes nah you just wrote in your favour |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:03am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: Na wa oo! Sorry about that! I like your courage as you moved on. Don't worry you will get a better nice and caring man that will be far better than the first,and please don't say u won't love again oo abeg! Love will come for you again and if it come don't let it go,just try! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:04am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: @ 17/18 u are already banging! Na wa ooo this life don spoil finish ooo! Chai biacan I hail u ooo! Abeg how old was ur bf then? Nor lie coz I go run leav u 1 Like |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:04am On Jan 04, 2018 |
mhisbliss:This is it,I agree with you a 100% 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:05am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:07am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88: U wan know wetin I wan talk abi! Nor worry when u return we shall see |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:10am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan:GBAM. |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by kennysam91: 9:18am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan:EWO see d way dis girl dey yanu mi okay oo hw much Dd u wat |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 9:22am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:Mind you I have never had sex all my life so don't say what you don't know about me......... he was I think 25 1 Like |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:33am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan: Ok oo! Good decision! 25 na wa ooo! 1 Like |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 9:35am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:I bet you're in your late 20s |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:38am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan:Me know say u be Prophetess na! |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 9:39am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:No nah at least I like your openness |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:43am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:I dey see u oo |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Nobody: 9:43am On Jan 04, 2018 |
1min man,no lady wanna deal with that |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:45am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 9:46am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:I dey work so Oga sir |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Nobody: 9:47am On Jan 04, 2018 |
octopusfreaky:let's wait together dear like 1 Like
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Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:48am On Jan 04, 2018 |
biacan:Eh eh ok oo! I don tell u nor dey call me "oga sir" again oo |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by biacan(f): 9:49am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:But you know you men love respect nah..... OK sir |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 9:56am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Martin0:Wetin I do? |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:59am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Re: Why Are You Still Single ? by Martin0(m): 9:59am On Jan 04, 2018 |
Ladyhippolyta88:Ask me again? |
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